Liu Yong, a famous Chinese-American artist and educator, successfully raised a pair of sons and daughters. His son received a doctorate from Harvard, and his daughter won the Presidential Bush Award. "Now boys often chase our daughter." Your mother said to me last night.But when I asked you today, you shook your head and smiled and said, "That's not chasing, you just want to chase." I asked how you know they want to chase, and you said you could tell because they would act funny, Very annoying.Let me ask you again, do you want them to chase you?Are you interested in them? You curled your lips: "They chased theirs, I passed mine, and it would be nice to watch a funny show."

The love between men and women often begins with "tease".Look at those kittens and puppies, do they often chase, fight, bite and scratch, completely like enemies fighting.But suddenly they became intimate while they were playing? So, don't think you are boring, it's good to let the other party make funny performances and be passionate.Because a fake show may be true, he intends it, you are ruthless, and in the end it becomes resentment. My child, you are almost sixteen years old, and it is also the so-called twenty-eight years, when you are the most youthful and beautiful. In the future, you will find more and more boys around you who are peeping at you, following you, and showing love to you. You have to start learning How to deal with it.

Let me tell you a story first: There is a big boss who is very interesting to his young and beautiful female secretary.One day, the big boss said to the female secretary, "Sunday is my birthday! But I don't want to spend it at home, and my wife will definitely not remember it." Single female secretary says "Come and live with me then! I'll celebrate you." The big boss was so excited that he went to the secretary's house with flowers and fine wine that day. "Sit outside for a while, I'll go to the bedroom and change clothes." The female secretary said to the big boss: "Don't peek, I'll call you, come in again."

The big boss thought to himself that the female secretary must have wanted to make out with him when she called him into the bedroom, so he took off his clothes outside first.At this time, I heard the female secretary calling him in delicately. The big boss pushed the door open naked. "Happy birthday!" All the employees in the office shouted together. How funny, and how embarrassing! The reason why this story is shocking is that it is so natural, so real, and it is absolutely possible to happen in life.But think about it, how will the big boss behave in the future? Let me ask you again, is his female secretary smart?

She's not only not smart, she's stupid, isn't she?Because she couldn't see the big boss's plan, and let the boss get deeper and deeper. Don't let the other party get deeper and deeper. This is what I want to emphasize. Every smart woman should know how to say "no" at the most appropriate time. I remember when I was young, I was invited by a cultural center to give a speech, and the person in charge of contacting me was a very beautiful and talented girl.I admired her very much, praised the girl many times, and sent her a book after the speech.Then I received a letter of thanks from the girl, saying that she and her boyfriend liked my book very much.I thought about it then, why did she emphasize that her boyfriend also likes it?I finally figured it out, she might be afraid that I admire her because she is interested in her, in order to avoid "problems", so I first hinted that she has already "beautiful".

Appreciation, indeed, can often be admiration, and the next step of admiration, can often be love.Therefore, beautiful and intelligent girls, you must pay attention to every boy who admires you, unless you really have an interest in "him", you should let him "stop" in time, Only from the perspective of appreciation; it also enables the relationship between each other to be maintained at "general friendship". So in the future, when you find a boy who is interesting to you but you don't feel it at all, don't tease him, don't whet his appetite, let alone watch his funny performance, but take the initiative to take the topic away or avoid it skillfully!

As for what is ingenious? Sorry!There is no way to teach this, only you use your wisdom and think about it yourself.