Chapter 10 Part 10

Death is always in a moment I also remember that a student committed suicide because of emotional problems.She said to me limply on the phone: "I'm going to say goodbye to you! Because I'm going to kill myself soon!" "Can you die? Is your contribution to this world over?" I asked her. "Just because I can't do anything!" "Joke!" I yelled back, "I'll send you to a nursery for the disabled to see how many people need your help? Then think about it, do you have the qualifications to go there before doing your part to this world? die."

Then I immediately contacted the Ruifu Puzzle Center in Tainan, who also welcomed her to work. I called her again and told her to meet her at Songshan Airport, and I would send her on the plane.She didn't accept it.But in just ten minutes, she had given up on dying. Does the thought of death last only ten minutes, the real "death thought" is often only a few minutes.If you can't figure it out for a few minutes, you will die! face life bravely Look at the person who is going to jump off the building, sitting on the edge of the balcony. On one side is a tall building tens of meters away, and when he goes down, he will bid farewell to the world;What a choice!The person who committed suicide turned out to be a half-God, who decided a person's life and death.

This man was finally able to conceive out of his father's billions of sperm, and after conception, he was conceived by his mother for ten months and gave birth safely.This person can talk, sing, walk, dance, and think.He actually used his inexplicable thinking to sentence him to death. If he had the stupidest decision in his life, it would be to jump off.If he has great wisdom and courage, he will turn back.Turn around and face your own life bravely, do something for yourself and for the society; only in this way will you live up to the life given to him by God, and live up to his precious life.

My wife's secretary has a humorous quote on the wall.Everyone borrowed "copies" and hung them all over the office.Now, it's in my home. That humorous sentence is: "God put me on this earth to do a certain job. Right now, I'm far behind and I'll never die!" friends!If you actually want to kill yourself, please think about this sentence. --------------------------------------------- You should record more beautiful affairs and the wisdom of predecessors on the board of your pure heart. You have to forge a key to open every door in your life. hit a key to life

When I was young, every time I came back from playing outside, my mother told me to wash my hands.She knows I'm too lazy to wash, so every time after washing, she grabs my hand and smells it. I was naughty, so I figured out a way to turn on the faucet and let my mother hear the sound of water, and then I didn't wash it at all, so I turned off the faucet, just touched the soap with my hand, and stretched it out for my mother to smell. She took a breath, smelled the soap, nodded, and I hopped away.I am so proud!I thought: "Look! How smart I am, my mother was cheated by me again!"

Seeing this, don't you think it's funny?Washing hands is for my own good, not for my mother. I have lied to myself, but I feel very proud. Isn’t it too stupid? But don't laugh at me either.Because I see young friends doing such stupid things everywhere. Don't bury your talent One day, I received a letter from a middle school student, but I was shocked by the thickness of the letter before I opened it.After opening it, I was shocked again, only to see neatly arranged on a dozen sheets of letter paper, which are densely packed, but extremely neat and small characters. The characters are like printed "Imitation Song Style", elegant and meticulous.When I read it, I was even more surprised!It's hard to believe that a high school student can write such in-depth articles.

I immediately invited the female classmate to the office for a chat, and invited her to have lunch with the classmate who accompanied her. At the dinner table, I asked her: "I believe you must have done well in composition at school." Unexpectedly, she smiled lightly: "It sucks!" "Your writing is so good and your handwriting is so beautiful, how is it possible?" I could hardly believe my ears. "Because I never write well".She smiled again: "My teacher sucks, why should I write to her so hard?" Then, she described the teacher as "bad", and envied how good the Chinese teacher in a certain prestigious school was.The question is, has she ever thought that the article is her own, and the learning is done by herself, not for her teacher.

The performance of this classmate made me think: Will there be many talented young friends in this world who give up and bury their talents just because they are dissatisfied with the school and teachers? school menu I often hear students who are not studying hard, but he said: "Who can't read? Where can't you read? Why study at school? Any day I want to study, I can do it!" Life is right, but I also want to say that school education has its advantages, which cannot be replaced by other environments. I remember that when I just graduated from university, I was invited to give a speech in the Chinese Department of a certain university.At that time, I had already won the "Outstanding Young Poet Award", and I was well-known for my works published in many newspapers.

However, when students asked questions, I made a fool of myself, something even the freshman department of the Department of Chinese Language and Literature knew; I actually said something wrong. Afterwards, I learned from the pain and began to read ancient poems hard, and even compiled "Tang Poetry Dictionary", but I still can't forget the scene of making a fool of myself. I often think: Why don't I even know this basic Chinese culture?Is it because there are too few books about Chinese literature?Or is it because it looks unorganized? The answer should be the latter.You will find that schooling, for all its rigidity and criticism, is undeniably like a nutritionist, collating food into recipes.Although the taste does not change much and is not exciting enough, it has the nutrition you need.When you read it step by step, you will naturally get complete knowledge.It's not like when you are self-study, you may follow your whims; grab a book here, grab a book here, it looks profound, but ignores the most basic things

quickly make a key Among these foundations, the most important is the "tools for academic study". "A tool for academic study" is like a key, which can be used to open a treasure house of more knowledge.You will find that studying is like climbing a mountain. If you don't go up the mountain step by step, you can't climb to the top.And a lot of "knowledge that doesn't seem like learning" that you learned in school is the ladder at the foot of the mountain. Some time ago, I was on TV and saw a report about repairing ancient books in the library. An 80-year-old gentleman, regardless of cold or heat, put new clothes on the broken books in the library for decades.He carefully pieced together and pasted the moth-eaten, water-stained, and decayed pages, and preserved many precious rare books.

But surprisingly, the old man was illiterate. I couldn't help but think, if there are books that are separated and the page numbers are rotted, how can the old gentleman distinguish the order of the front and back?And if he could read, how many great chapters would he have been able to read during the decades of tinkering? Why didn't he "go back" and spend a few years learning to read?Is it like a man who cuts a tree with a "very blunt axe" and says, "I'm too late to cut down a tree, so how can I have time to sharpen my axe?" Or is it because of the aging of the year, the decline of memory day by day, and the inability to learn even if you want to learn? engraved on the heart Speaking of this, we have touched on another important point - you must grasp your youth, make good use of the age when you have the strongest memory, learn something hard, and recite something. Let's do an experiment!Ask people in their 40s and 50s if they remember reading "Wu Xun Xing Xue" in elementary school and "Poetry of Mulan" in middle school.You will find that they may even forget the news they read yesterday, but they remember "Don't sigh bitterness, don't worry about poverty, there are aspirations and competitions, idioms are not false, and iron pestles are ground into embroidery needles." , I don't hear the voice of the machine, only the sigh of the woman..." Even if they can't recite all of them, they will always remember a few words.think about it!How long ago was that, why do they remember? Because, that was the age when their memory was the strongest and their hearts were the purest, and they were engraved on the heart board with a pen. So, you touch your heart, are you not in this golden age of life?Can you not take good care of it? Let me tell you two true and funny stories. When I was in middle school, a classmate was very good at writing on the blackboard.Every time I have to take the Chinese language test.He arrived at school early and wrote the whole text on the table meticulously with a pen. Then, he would stand on the table and step on a piece of ash, and then lightly brush it with his sleeve.Make those "blackboard writing" be covered in a thin layer of dust. During the exam, it was wonderful!Whichever part of the test, he breathed on that part.After exhaling, the tabletop became wet, and the original pen's handwriting surfaced, so he copied it. Once he breathed so hard that the teacher thought he had asthma, which made the whole class laugh (only the teacher didn't know the reason). I also have a classmate who specializes in making "pocket cheat sheets".Before the college entrance examination, he spent a long time writing a cheat sheet with tens of folds.I was moved by the delicacy of the cheat sheet, so I made a special reservation and asked him to give it to me for collection after the exam. After he finished the exam, he didn't send me a small copy and threw it into the trash can. I ask him why "When I walked out of the examination room, I saw a small note on the ground. When I picked it up, it turned out to be a more delicate and rare book, much better than mine." He said, "I thought mine was the best, but I didn't Thinking that there are people in the world, I got angry and threw it away!" The first two students were named Luosun Shan, and the last one was still crying to me, saying that he could do it, but he was always thinking about the cheat sheet. I thought: If they could use the time for writing on the blackboard and making cheat sheets to study hard, the results should be much better.At the very least, it is not written on the table and paper, but engraved in the heart! Are there any extra points? Having said that, why study for exams and grades?That's reading for yourself, not for numbers.I remember that when I was teaching in the United States, the students performed well.I just try to teach something deep and ask them hard questions. Once, a student got it right.I was overjoyed and said, "Extracredit (extra credit!)" Since then, every time I ask a question: the students always ask first: "Is there any extra points?" Gradually, I found that they were more interested in "adding points" than "answering".There are no "bonus points" questions, and they don't even bother to answer them.I found out that I was wrong. I thought that the reward of extra points could promote learning, but it gave the wrong direction to the students, making them turn the "joy of learning" into "the joy of extra points". When learning is only for scores, the meaning and fun of learning will be lost.Learning without fun is the most painful work. When life resonates with books What a joy it should be to learn! Thousands of years ago, I actually understood the words written by my ancestors on the bamboo slips, and I knew the homesickness of the soldiers stationed at the frontier. The vast English classics, just because I have learned English, have life for me all of a sudden.Although I still can't understand everything, I can look through the dictionary and guess; the more I guess, the better I understand, and the better I understand, the better I can guess. Going to Hanshan Temple reminds me of Zhang Ji's "Fengqiao Night Mooring"; going to Lingyin Temple reminds me of the mad monk in "Jigong Biography".Climbing Yueyang Tower reminds me of Fan Zhongyan; going up Yellow Crane Tower reminds me of Cui Hao. Going to Jiaoban Mountain reminds me of the "river terrace terrain" mentioned in geography textbooks; going to the crossing highway reminds me of the "rejuvenation effect" caused by the punctual downward movement of rivers.Even standing on the top of a mountain in Norway made my eyes shine: "Isn't that an ice bucket? Isn't that a sheep's back stone"? " I will never forget that in the second grade of middle school, when the physics teacher said that "hot places have low air pressure, cold places have high air pressure, and high pressure moves to low pressure", I shouted: "Yes! Yes!" Because when my house catches fire, I feel "that wind."