Chapter 51 Harmonious Family Chain

In our family, grandpa takes care of dad, dad takes care of grandma, grandma takes care of mother, mother takes care of baby, and baby takes care of grandpa. I asked the baby, who is the biggest in the family!said the baby, mother.The child!With potential, I understood a truth at a young age, it is better to be an official than to be in charge now! Mom and grandma were lying on the bed watching TV, and the baby rushed in and said, "Baby wants to watch Qiaohu." After speaking, he blocked us from watching TV.I said to the baby: "You and AUNTIE FE go upstairs to the baby's room to see!" The baby refused.So grandma said, okay, okay, let's go upstairs to watch and give this place to the baby.Mom also refused.Eventually the baby gave in and followed the nanny upstairs with the disc.

The grandma smiled and shook her head and said, there is really no way, I have never seen such a mother, arguing with her son to watch TV, and not letting him at all.I said to my mother: "I didn't let him on purpose. Of course I can let him, but he is used to calling himself king at home. How confused would he be if he meets all kings when he goes out? Sometimes I let him, sometimes When he let me, this is a harmonious family relationship. Everything I do now is to prepare for him to enter the society in the future, because in the end, he will leave our small environment and enter the big society."

Yesterday I took the baby to swim with grandma.The baby climbed on my lap and wanted to be hugged when I went out.I couldn't hold it for a while, and asked the baby to come down and walk by himself, but the baby refused, and the grandma said, look, mother is sweating from exhaustion.The baby hugged my face and looked at it carefully, gently wiped off my sweat, and then said: "No more sweat, mom is not tired, mom hugs me." Grandma quickly put down the things and said, grandma carried the little piggy on her back. Grandma can't stand it anymore.I laughed and said that I thought he was thin on weekdays, but I thought he was fat when I hugged him.Changing hands again, the two of them back and forth all the way.Actually, I didn't swim much yesterday, but my arms and back hurt after I came back, and I fell asleep without saying a word to my husband.

Today, I took the baby to play with the nanny, and I have to hold it again when I go out.I told the baby, you are an older child, go by yourself.The baby refused, and sat on the ground to let go.The nanny was going to hug me, I said, leave him alone, if he doesn't leave, let's go, he will naturally follow. The baby insisted on sitting on the ground and waiting for us to go back to pick him up.The nanny took three steps and turned her head twice. I pulled her to go quickly. In fact, I didn’t know what to do in my heart. The baby was too far away from me. I was afraid that he would have an accident, and I was afraid that he would be stubborn. What should I do if I don’t even get up?We tested each other's bottom line, whether it was the mother who was stubborn, or the son who twisted the mother.Seeing that we were about to disappear to the end of the baby's sight, I saw my son get up like a little duck, swaying and swaying his feet and rushing to chase after him, shouting: "Mom! Wait for the baby!" I breathed a sigh of relief , I almost went back.

Along the way, the child is so good that it makes people feel distressed.The nanny took one of his hands, and I took his other hand. He pattered and walked on the road for a long time, until I thought he should be tired, so I reached out and offered to hug him, but he still hesitated Do you want me to hug you?I was thinking, if my grandma was around, it would be difficult to firmly implement all my educational ideas. The old man loves his grandson, and I love the old man.When I go out in the future, I will take more nanny and less grandma. My husband asked me: "I see that sometimes you are very indulgent to your children, and sometimes you are very strict with them. Why?"

I said: "I treat him as a human being. If his behavior does not affect others, then any of his choices should be respected. For example, you can be naked at home, but not when you go out; you can listen to music, but disturb the people." No. This is my principle. Only freedom on the basis of not infringing on the rights of others is real freedom. The so-called rules are to allow people to gain greater freedom. We walk in society and must abide by the rules of the game.” I never feel that the arrival of the child has added a lot of burden to me, because after I have him, although I am a mother, I still retain a lot of freedom as a human being and a woman.