Chapter 9 Women can't be too coddled

I often see that there are more unresponsive men than resentful women on the Internet. To sum it up, I am not willing to eat or wear clothes. I gave her everything. I didn’t even ask her to take a pair of chopsticks, but she treated me like this. Ran…… Men, when you love a woman deeply, when you want to pick the stars in the sky for her, remember that women should not be too spoiled. why do you love a womanWhat is your ultimate purpose?If it's for lifelong companionship, you can't spoil her too much.The home is two people, everyone has their own obligations.When you take care of all the housework and change from being heroic in the past to being trivial now, the glory you once had in the eyes of women will become bleak.You made the mistake of being ambiguous.You tire yourself so hard that your feet don't touch the ground, and KEEP leaves her nowhere to play for a long time, can you blame her for being bored?Can you blame her for having fun online?

You gave her everything you could, and you wanted her to depend on you, to be considerate of you, to be around you.Once you feel unsatisfactory, you will be angry, "What did I get for my efforts?" And when she betrays you one day, you will cry and feel that the world has no good retribution. "I gave her all I could give her and she treated me like this!" You gave, but you gave wrong. The joy of life lies in the common commitment.You plow the fields and I weave, and you go online and I trade stocks.What she needs is not a nanny, not a cook, not a father, she needs a masseur of the soul.

You have to assign tasks to her.There is no less work that should be done to her, and you must be able to take on all the work that should be done to you. You have to put pressure on her.Don't let her think that everything can be resolved under the sky of love.Issues of principle cannot be compromised.Don't let her feel that marriage and love can be child's play. You have to care for her.Give her appropriate guidance when she is depressed and confused.Humor is your best way to resolve difficulties. You have to give her space and let her think for herself with a woman's back garden.Don't think that you are her lover and you want her to report everything.

You have to give her safety, not financially, but spiritually. The greatest happiness for her when facing troubles is thinking about going home soon. Also, do your own thing well and don't let women worry about you. Love is equal, and there is no such thing as who is a slave to whom.You will be rewarded accordingly.Love is mutual, guarding her together. As I said, mind and wisdom are the qualities of a man I admire.A mind with principles makes you shine. In the same way, it is suitable for women-men can't be too spoiled.