Chapter 81 Chapter 81 The artistic conception of "send"

The word "send" is so familiar to us that it is almost unfamiliar. Why do you say that you are unfamiliar because of familiarity? This is because the word floats in the long river of history, has gone through many twists and turns, and experienced many vicissitudes. Its inner cultural and philosophical connotations have been covered by heavy secular dirt.Although this cultural and philosophical force still secretly dominates our social behavior, when we act or express, we are often unaware of the cause hidden in the depths of history. The word "send" is composed of the long road of life and a strict pass, and the ancient pass is composed of the two characters of Bahetian.

Just saying the word "off" means another closed world, another strange world where others are completely in charge and you can only passively submit.Here, what is unimpeded is the will of the other party, and what determines your future destiny is the likes and dislikes of the other party.All in all, other people's territory is decided by others, and you can't let your temper in this place. This strange and mysterious world is the thinking concept of others.When you are walking on the road of life and encounter other people's ideas, you must stop and try to communicate with them in order to gain the power of passage.

Therefore, the word “send” does not express a simple “gift”. It means the concession of your personality will, and it means that you must establish a moderate symbiotic relationship between your isolated and independent personality and the personality of the other party. Everyone's self-personality is a complete world.It is in this world that human beings display themselves and experience the honor of life.In this mysterious world composed entirely of self-consciousness, human beings can find all the spiritual products they need, which is enough for them to squander.There is a book called.This book describes such an artistic conception. The protagonist in the book drifts on a deserted island. This island is his own spiritual world. satisfy.But when he accidentally discovered that there were other human beings on the island, he immediately fell into extreme panic, as if he was facing a big enemy, and he was ready for battle. Finally, he successfully captured a slave who had no self-will at all, and once again realized his dream. The dreams and desires of the Dominator.

When we are alone, like Robinson Crusoe on a deserted island, we are immersed in our own spiritual world, dominating this completely private world, and have no other needs.But once encountering the independent will of others, just like Robinson Robinson, we will immediately fall into extreme panic. We cannot tolerate others invading our self-world, because it means the shattering of our master's dream. However, in our self-personality, we are the natural masters, and losing the position of master means losing our independent personality and our soul.At that time, even if we are still living in this world, we are just walking dead without self-will.

Therefore, once we encounter others, a tragic fight will immediately start in our hearts. Unless we can also subdue the intruder like Robinson Robinson and let the other party become a vassal of our independent will, otherwise, our Personality will collapse in the fierce conflict. Our personality must overcome the other's personality, this is our mission. But the personalities of others must also overcome us, otherwise they will become our vassals, which they are unwilling to accept no matter what. The bad thing is that we're on someone else's turf, where the other party is in charge, and the other party has absolute power to accept us or reject us.If we act too hard, the other person will close the door of his heart to us and shut us out.But don't forget, when we came to ask for an interview, we hoped that the other party would give us a chance to be an official, but in the end we got to the point where the other party completely rejected us. This is definitely not what we wanted.

So we have to compromise, we have to give in. The compromise and concession of the soul is the whole meaning of the word "send". The so-called gift is not only about sending a gift, but the most important thing is sending a clear signal.This signal is that we recognize the other party's dominant power, respect the other party's independent will, and maintain the other party's dignity and decency.Some experts also interpret the word "send" as a sheep on all fours, running around on the road.The four-legged upturn in the animal kingdom means absolute surrender, absolute obedience, and absolute recognition and acceptance of the power of others. This meaning is the same as our final explanation, which means acknowledging the dominance of the other party. .

During the Southern Song Dynasty, the power minister Qin Hui monopolized power, and there was silence between the government and the public. Officials from all over the country paid tribute. For example, the best ones were sent to Qin Hui's mansion first, and the rest were sent to the palace.Once, Qin Hui's wife, Wang Shi, visited the palace and chatted with the Queen Mother. The Queen Mother complained that the fish sent from various places were too small and not fresh.Mrs. Wang was very surprised when she heard this, and said that this is impossible. The fish received by our family are all alive, fragrant and fat.After hearing this, the Queen Mother asked Wang for some advice, and Wang agreed.

After Wang came back, when she told Qin Hui about this, Qin Hui almost went crazy and beat Wang, the troublemaker, hard.The gift received by the prime minister's house was even better than that of the emperor. Wouldn't it be extremely dangerous if the emperor knew about it?After beating the Wang family, Qin Hui rolled his eyes and ordered someone to bring a large pot of big grass carp with rough flesh and many thorns, and send it to the palace.Seeing these rotten fish, the Queen Mother clapped her hands and laughed, "Let me just say it, that ignorant woman Wang, how can she know what kind of fish is good and what kind of fish is bad!" From then on, she cast her doubts on Qin Hui.

Look at Qin Hui, it's no wonder that he can become the head of the villains in China, his brains are really outstanding.Those who give gifts to their husbands do not send money or valuables, but affirmation of the other party's dominance.If you can't give this taste, no matter how many gifts you give, it will be in vain.