Chapter 18 love is not a refuge

Don't put all your eggs in one basket, when you put all your eggs in one man, he will look down on you. N said he and his wife fell in love for six years and then got married.After two years of marriage, he met a single mother who was only 24 years old.During this period, he was very unhappy at work, and he felt that his wife did not understand him, so he started dating this single mother.He and her see each other every day, and the relationship is very good.His wife found out and left quietly. Soon after, he was fired from the company because of unsatisfactory work performance.He is depressed.He lost his career and marriage. At this moment, this woman became the most important person in his life, and he was very afraid of losing her.

However, his relationship with her also changed at this time.Her work was getting more and more busy, she didn't want to see him every day, she asked for her own space, and she even said he was annoying.He is sure that she has no third party, but he doesn't understand why she treats him like this. Why doesn't he understand?A woman admires a man very much. However, when he loses his self-confidence and purpose in life and just pesters her every day, she will start to look down on him.When he becomes her burden, she will want to get rid of him.A woman wants a man to think she is important, but when she becomes the only object of his existence, she will be afraid.How can such a weak man take care of her in the future?

Love is not a refuge. If you want to go in for refuge, you will be kicked out.