Chapter 13 The highest state of winning

No one likes to lose.We don't do something if there is no chance of winning.Love is no exception.When we love someone, we believe that we will have a future with him.Even if that future is slim, there is still a chance after all. Love wins or loses not in the result.Even though we broke up, we have good memories and that is winning. Even if the past is hard to look back on, we have had that experience, grow up, and learn to be good in the future, this is also a win. Everyone likes to win.However, to what extent does it take to win? The person he loves the most is you.He is good to you and loyal to you.He lives with you now, why do you think marriage is perfect enough?Some women say:

"He doesn't marry me because he doesn't love me enough. He loves his own freedom more." He loves you so much, you've already won.Isn't it enough to win this far?If you want to win to the last step, you will only lose him. Some women are greedy.When a man loves her, she feels she can control him.She also asks what kind of friends he makes, who he meets every day, how much money he has in his bank account, and what he thinks.He was too kind to his parents, his ex-wife and children, and she was not happy.She has gotten the most love.How far is she going to win?Do you want to win to the point where others resent you?

Winning to the other side's conviction is the highest level of winning.