Chapter 12 Life buoy in the floating world

Some people say that it is best not to have too much kindness between people. Yes, where there is grace and righteousness, there is ingratitude, complaints, demands, and hatred.Grace is a burden, without grace, many troubles will be saved. Gratitude is unique to Chinese people, so Chinese people also know how to be ungrateful.Foreigners have no kindness, only affection.I treat you well because I like you.One day, we don't like everyone anymore, and it's over, saying that kindness is too heavy. When we watch western movies, the hero and heroine often fall in love with each other at first sight, and they can have sex soon.A person likes another person without any reason.Like is the best reason.When we watch Hong Kong films, the screenwriters always have to come up with many reasons for the love between the hero and heroine.Why do women like this man?Because he was kind to her, because he sacrificed his life to save her.Why do men like this woman?Because she sacrificed for him, because she waited for him forever.A love seems to have a lot of kindness and righteousness to have weight.

Why Chinese love is inseparable from kindness, but foreigners can be so free and easy? Perhaps, Chinese couples have to share troubles; while foreign couples enjoy a good life together.Since we want to share weal and woe, of course we must first observe the character of the other party. Enyi is a life buoy for us in the floating world, used to cover ourselves and others; it is salvation, but also a burden.