Chapter 10 A woman's weakness is a man?

The female character with the highest comprehensive quality is not Ren Yingying, Yilin and other Tsing Yi female roles, nor is it the old female roles such as Dingxian Shitai on Hengshan Mountain, but a Wudan—Linghu Chong's mistress, who is good-looking and can fight in Jin Yong's novels Ning Zhongze, one of the "Four Aunts". Jin Yong is very partial to this woman, and places advertisements for her everywhere.In the book, the old devil let me comment on the heroes of the world, and he did not forget to leave her a place: "That 'Huashan Jade Girl' is called Ning... Ning or something, that little girl is also generous and heroic, she is a character."

Ning Zhong committed suicide in the end, and many people felt it was a pity: Why did he have to die?Why can't she be stronger, live a good life, and reorganize Huashan. Of course she had a reason to commit suicide: her husband was a top-notch man, and he secretly practiced the Sunflower Book and became a dead eunuch, her only daughter was killed by her son-in-law, and the entire Huashan faction was almost wiped out. In that hellish arena where sprites are rampant, it would be a bit cruel to force a traumatized middle-aged woman to live "bravely" in order to satisfy her pseudo-sympathy.

More importantly, Ning Zhong had to die, because there is a rule in Jin Yong's novels: No matter how powerful a woman is, as long as her man is finished, her love and family collapse, she is not far from death.Either she will die immediately, or she will live like a ghost, a ghost like a ghost, and finally die. Such examples abound, such as Lihu Yidao's wife, such an awesome person, with high martial arts and powerful people, but when the man dies, she doesn't even want her son, and lightning strikes her neck. Yin Susu, once her husband committed suicide, she immediately left her son to commit suicide.In fact, why did she have to die?Her natal family is the leader of the gang, a father and a big brother, they are all such characters, they can bear the sky even if the sky falls.

Li Mochou was cruel and merciless, but her lover died of illness after cheating, and her life was ruined. She went crazy for more than ten years and was finally burned to death.The old lady Shang in the movie is also a hard character, but since her husband was killed by Hu Yidao, she has become a mentally abnormal revenge machine, and finally burned herself to death.The Hong Niangzi, who can be called a hero among women, committed suicide as soon as her husband Li Yan died; and He Hongyao, such a ruthless character, followed Xia Xueyi to death without hesitation. The list goes on and on.The author either intentionally or unintentionally arranges the only way out for these heroines - to die with the man, no matter whether the man is good or bad, whether he has feelings for them, or whether it is worth burying with his life.

Xia Xueyi has no love for He Hongyao, and Qiao Feng has no love for Ah Zi, but once the man dies, the woman will die accordingly.Even Yang Dingtian's wife doesn't like her husband at all, but she is unequivocal about her husband's death. In Jin Yong's book, after losing a man, there are very few women who can live a normal life.One of the rare exceptions is the Zishan Dragon King Dai Qisi. After her husband died, she survived, but intentionally or unintentionally, she was arranged to become a chicken-skinned old woman. She was cut off from love and suffered for decades. Compared with women, men in the arena are completely different.Many so-called infatuated men in Jin Yong's novels live happily ever after losing their partners.

For example, Huang Yaoshi is considered a top-notch lover, right?When his wife Feng Heng died, he expressed great grief and even built a flower boat, claiming that he would sink into the sea with his wife, but this boat has not sailed out to sea for more than ten years. Xie Xun's wife and children were killed within a day, and the situation was not much better than that of Ningzhong.Although he also seemed to be in pain and wanted to take revenge, he still survived well and still ruled the world.Both Yang Xiao and Yin Liting are famous lovers, but after Ji Xiaofu's sudden death, one made a gesture of grief, and the other directly used Ji's daughter as a substitute, and even asked Mrs. Xiaofu has no intention of revenge.

Chen Jialuo didn't talk about what he did to Princess Xiangxiang, thanks to the fact that he still had the nerve to visit the grave after the princess died. The most typical ones are Gongsun Zhi and Qiu Qianchi.This pair of live treasures can be said to be the couple with the most failed love life in Jin Yong's novels.But after the marriage broke up, the man's life was still prosperous, but the woman became a monster and alien in the cave, and finally the woman had to be buried with the man. Faced with the departure of the other half, the treatment of men and women is so different, you can certainly say that it is Jin Yong's "limitation" - in his subconscious, he still feels that no matter how good a woman is, her happiness must be maintained In a man, it is a man's accessory.

But is Jin Yong entirely to blame?We don’t make the same mistake every day, calling a man’s bad marriage “unsatisfactory relationship” and a woman’s bad marriage a “bad destination”. There is a saying about female writers: the writing style of female writers is often greatly influenced by their love and marriage status.Those female writers who are in love and marriage, such as Bing Xin and Shu Ting, always write warm and meaningful things; those female writers who have experienced ups and downs, such as Zhang Ailing and Li Qingzhao, always write melancholy and dark things. In contrast, male writers are much less affected by this aspect, and it is difficult for you to see his marital status from the writing style of a male writer.

Whether it is the literary world or martial arts, it seems that women's weakness is men.The so-called "weakness" here does not mean how inseparable women are from the opposite sex, but that once the family collapses, these chivalrous women seem to have received the final verdict of failure in life and will never be able to rebuild their lives. Marquez has a book called "Dead Branches and Fallen Leaves", which says that when a man's wife dies, he can plant a jasmine plant in the corner, and he can think of her every night.I think Yin Susu, Mrs. Hu, and the red ladies may wish to learn this "jasmine method", planting a flower is enough, and there is no need to bury the seeds of life; or learn from Huang Yaoshi, the partner is lost and the family is broken Well, at most, I will build a flower boat for it and put it there, and paint a few of them every year, as a permanent souvenir.As for really setting fire to himself, it seemed unnecessary.