Chapter 35 refuse to be unhappy

The reason is very simple. I didn't expect to have lived for decades before I gradually realized that it is: people should live as happily as possible. To live happily is not to "pursue happiness". We have let this fallacy go wrong for too long; Only when prejudices are possessed, do you gradually lose your original intention and become a bitter gourd that wants to "pursue" happiness. For example, in the past, I happened to look at some "message area" on the Internet. At first, there were good and bad, and occasionally there were good things; ", still unavoidably contaminated with stench.Not optimistic.

Some texts, read with the mentality of "see how he is abnormal", after reading, I always sigh: "There are such evils in the world!" So I got angry.If you are angry, you will not be happy.Do not read well. Some people have hideous faces. When they saw them, they felt displeased, and they still thought to themselves: "Maybe there is a use for it. It’s okay to see you again." There are many people who are both cute and useful in the world. All first class friends.Why waste time with such delusional people?Goodbye. "Someone mentioned you." Friends often say that. "Is it a compliment?" I asked.no.If not, don't say it.I only listen to good things. "Just listen to good words, people will regress." You may have concerns; however, can't you hide and work hard to reflect?Listening to good words is like taking a breath of fresh air; I have the right to regard all criticism as poison.Can not listen, do not listen to good.

Except don't read, don't read, don't see, don't listen; if you don't want to go, don't go. If you don't want to socialize, don't go; don't go to weddings, don't go to funerals; don't go to award ceremonies that only give out awards, not money; don't go to places that may make you unhappy, unless necessary.Don't go, and don't let people come.Some people can be welcomed or not; not hateful, but also not cute; in the past, I always felt: "If you come, you should welcome it." Too much talk; SARS, then bird flu... It would be better to reply: "I have a fever recently, and I have had a fever for a few days, I am afraid it is..." "You have a fever? That is too dangerous. I will take care of you!" The other party said Said, no doubt is a true friend; at this time, fever, you can retreat.

Happiness is not pursuit, but rejection; I refuse to be unhappy.