Chapter 49 Sadako in my heart

I have an important life experience: How a person treats others only shows how he has been treated. The movie "Before the Devil Knows You're Dead" by film master Sidney Lumet provides an example. In the movie, we see a male protagonist who is almost heinous. He did not hesitate to rob his parents' jewelry store together with his younger brother, which resulted in the death of his biological mother. He thus embarked on a road of no return, killing all the way, killing the Mexican drug dealers who supplied him with drugs, and killing the insiders who threatened them , and finally even planned to kill his accomplice but clumsy younger brother.When we are wondering why he treats others so ruthlessly, why he defines his relationship with the people around him in this way, and what is the cause of his character, the movie explains the origin of their father in a few strokes. It turns out that he was born in the underworld. , has always been cruel to his own sons, no wonder his sons, when they are in trouble, would rather rob him than ask him for help.They treat those around them as cruelly because they have been treated that way.

The way a person treats others is just a mirror image of the way others treated him at the beginning, and there are few exceptions.After many years of daughter-in-law became a mother-in-law, she also abused her daughter-in-law in the same way that she had accepted at the beginning. Children who grew up in domestic violence, or hummed Jay Chou's "Don't Beat My Mom" ​​repeatedly, will still beat their partners in the future. No matter how high the education is, it is useless. When things come to an end, he can react the same as his father did back then, because there is no better model in his life.

A friend’s boss must make him revise the document more than five times, and then use the first time; when buying a prize, he must copy back all the price specifications of the goods in the supermarket, and then choose the one that has been negotiated long ago.Yes, he went to inquire, and it was not surprising at all. His former boss had the same behavior style. There was an intern under his command because he couldn't bear the harsh criticism, and finally ran away from home. His whereabouts are still unknown. Even the heroine of the incident of "the strongest mistress in history", she is so aggressive, so unwavering and fearless, but it turned out that her mother had been harassed by a third party and endured it silently for many years.In her heart, there seems to be a goddess of nemesis lurking silently that she doesn't know, and she must pass on the experience of her mother and daughter to others.

Only with real experience can I understand Sadako in "Midnight Ring", she always wants innocent people to experience her claustrophobia and helplessness in the well, even though it doesn't make her feel better.There is a Sadako in everyone's heart, who reminds him of what happened to him when he finally has the opportunity to control others.Therefore, when someone treats you poorly, add compassion to anger.