Chapter 43 Business Way 42 Don’t Expect Absolute Fairness

The essence of business: Wenshang never believes in absolute fairness.They only expect to change their living conditions through their own struggle.So, change your mood to expect absolute fairness.Face up to the unfairness of life and work hard, and you can become rich. Life is unfair, but the poor don't think so. He dreams of an ideal society where everyone is equal, with equal opportunities and the same conditions. As a result, the reality of society slaps him hard. In a remote village in Wenzhou, two brothers, Luo Heng and Luo Quan, were born in 1969 and 1973. In 1974, his younger brother Luo Quan, who had just turned one year old, was disabled in lower limbs due to polio.His illness has added to the difficulties of this financially struggling family.Although Luo Quan was disabled, he struggled to study, but because his family was too poor, he dropped out of school after graduating from primary school.

Luo Quan is out of school and stays at home, so he can only go to the fields to do farm work and help his elder brother Yongquan to go to school. A disabled person like him who is paralyzed in the lower limbs goes to the fields to transplant rice seedlings, cut and harvest grass, and feed pigs and chickens at home.He could only squat on the ground, put his hands on his feet and move forward step by step. This kind of difficulty was unimaginable.He sometimes curses the sky and the society, feeling that life is too unfair, but when he thinks about it, what is the use of cursing?The status quo of life will not change because of his curse.

Whenever Luo Heng came back from school during the holidays, Luo Quan always climbed the tree to pick some fungus, or went into the water to touch some mussels or catch some fish to improve his brother's meal.This made Luo Heng cry as soon as he picked up his job. Although Luo Quanren is disabled, he is full of expectations for life. Although he only has a primary school education, he loves learning very much.Luo Quan likes electronics, and Luo Quan also learns books on electronics. Every time Luo Quan comes home, he also guides his younger brother's studies with his heart. With the help of his elder brother, Luo Quan used his spare time at home in the evenings to complete the relevant courses of junior high school, high school and university by himself in a few years.At this time, Luo Quan was full of confidence in his future.He firmly believed in himself and must succeed in electronics.

In 1992, Luo Heng graduated from university and had a stable job in Wenzhou. The first thing he did was to take his younger brother with him.Since then, a small room of more than ten square meters has become a place for the two brothers to study knowledge. At this time, Luo Quan had the environment and time to concentrate on his studies. It didn't take long for him to become a master in solving electronic technology. Even Yongquan, who was studying in university, had to ask his younger brother for advice when he encountered difficulties. Luo Quan is not willing to be mediocre, he wants to start his own business and set up an electronic service department.In order to raise funds, Luo Quan gave great support. He sold his computer and mobilized his girlfriend to sell the gold necklace. Later, he simply quit his stable job. Wenzhou set up an electronic service company.

Luo Quan's achievements come from his clear understanding of the unfairness of life.Only by admitting unfairness and facing the reality bravely can we break out a world of our own. Life is not fair.This is really unpleasant, but it is true.A mistake many of us make is to feel sorry for ourselves, or for others, thinking that life should be fair, or one day it will be.In fact, it is not, it is not now, and it will not be in the future. One of the benefits of acknowledging the fact that life isn't fair is that it motivates us to do our best without feeling bad about ourselves.We know that making everything perfect is not "life's mission", but our own challenge to life.Acknowledging this fact also frees us from feeling sorry for others. Everyone has different abilities and difficulties in growing up, facing reality, and making decisions. Everyone has different feelings. when it's fair.

Acknowledging the fact that life isn't fair doesn't mean we don't have to do everything we can to improve our lives and change the world; quite the contrary, it suggests we should.When we don’t realize or acknowledge that life isn’t fair, we tend to have compassion for others as well as ourselves, and pity is naturally a defeatist emotion that doesn’t help, it just makes people feel worse than they already are.But when we truly realize that life isn't fair, we have compassion for others and ourselves, and compassion is a heartfelt emotion that radiates loving kindness wherever it goes.Whenever you catch yourself thinking about injustices in the world, remind yourself of this basic truth.You might be surprised how it pulls you out of your self-pity and into something positive.

In short, we admit that life is an objective fact of inequality, which does not mean the beginning of all negativity. It is precisely because we accept this fact that we can calm down and find our own orientation in life. So change your mood to expect absolute fairness.Face up to the unfairness of life and work hard, you can also become rich.