Chapter 24 Lesson 3 Women's "Love Quotient" Enlightenment-Three Great Skills to Fight Wits with "Bad" Men

When a woman sees a "good" man, most of them just want to introduce them to someone, and they don't want to keep it to themselves.Remember Brad in it? He doesn't meet the standard of a "good man", but no woman doesn't like him, and even every woman wants to find a "bad" man like him to enjoy love. When it comes to "bad" men, most of them refer to those who have been romantic, absurd, outstanding, flamboyant, and have complicated experiences.However, these are also their invaluable advantages.It is precisely because of the romantic and absurd past that they truly understand their inner desires. Once they meet true love, they tend to cherish and be braver than "good men"; There are surprises; it is because of the complicated experience that I am more able to bear, understand tolerance, and be considerate of the women around me.

"Bad" men make women unpredictable, unsure, and naturally unstable, and this just meets one of the main conditions proposed by Eileen Chang for a woman to have a good face.With "bad" men, subconsciously, women are always careful, on guard, and always in a state of "combat".In other words, always in a state of love.And how can a woman in love grow old? If a "good" guy and a "bad" guy pursue a girl at the same time, the "good" guy is often no match for the "bad" guy.Because although "good" men are simple, noble, and principled, the terrible thing is that they are also used to relying on their own luck to be "good" and have strict requirements on each other. When encountering problems, they are absolutely firm and will never make concessions. .But "bad" men are different. They have experienced more and learned more about life. They are more sincere to understand and tolerate, and they are more willing to make concessions for the one they love. In other words, "good" men are more "self-love". ", and "bad" men love you more, but who is a modern woman who doesn't need the love and "accommodation" of the other party?

It is easy to get a passionate man, but it is difficult to make him fall in love for a long time.Fortunately, men who are romantic in every way are often recruited by a woman. Like all "good" men who have never been romantic and will not be romantic, they only toss with one woman in a down-to-earth manner.If you meet such a "bad" man, it can be described as mixed happiness and sorrow, needless to say, but how to relieve the worry? How can you judge that he will stop here and be devoted to you from now on? In fact, judgment is superfluous, because life is still there. In the continuation, if you have not withdrawn from the stage of life, you will not be able to make a correct judgment for a day.What's important is the process, what's important is how you control him without any trace during the process, making him forever infatuated.The following will teach you a few tricks to fight against such a "bad" man.

The first trick: a passionate man is born with a high emotional intelligence, he disdains playing clever tricks.When getting along with him, if you find a problem and seize the flaw, it is better to be straightforward and open and even confess your heart, forcing him to have nowhere to escape.This is not to solve the problem, not to discuss the facts, but to let him understand that you are not only as smart as him, but also tougher than him.Passionate men like to compete with smart women, one or two failures will make him have the desire to conquer, and long-term intellectual confrontation will make him treat you wholeheartedly in the desire to make progress.If you're smart enough, you'll be comfortable doing this, and you'll be comfortable pressing him for as long as you want.

The second trick: Don't make demands on the passionate man, "doing nothing" to him is the biggest thing to do.Don't ask him to always accompany you to eat, go shopping, give gifts, and be there on call, even if he is very desperate for you now, he has to take it easy.Because it is easy for him to deal with these errands, there is no constructive or challenging, if he finds that even the opportunities to show courteousness to you are limited, and he cannot give full play to the strengths of a passionate man, he will feel that he is underappreciated, and he will also treat you you are hardworking.

The third trick: Don't try to control him.You can only carefully manage your relationship with him, grasp the emotional situation, and never manage him as a person.Amorous men love freedom most, and freedom of body and mind is very important to them.In fact, any form of restraint or indulgence by a woman on this kind of man is ineffective and even harmful.If you have ever flown a kite, you know that the tighter the string is, the higher the kite will be and the harder it will be to hold it. If you don’t pull the string, the kite will not fly and fall to the ground.Obtaining the affection of an amorous man is the process of letting the kite fly. Grasp a good measure and strength, and the kite will belong to you in the best state.