Chapter 5 Lesson 1: Marrying again if you are sure - Discover the twelve elements of a good man

How to choose an ideal man and avoid unsuitable ones? This is a question that women are very concerned about.In order to help you grasp the essentials and avoid making stupid decisions, here are some guidance plans proposed by American scholars for your reference. 1 There is no perfect man in life The perfect Prince Charming is a character in romance novels and does not exist in real life, but a real good man does not Quite a few, women should be more realistic. 2 Beware of men who are good at pleasing women Women who think that passion is love will suffer the consequences, because some men are only willing to "pick flowers and try new things", and they are afraid of a truly stable and intimate relationship, so women have to guard against it.

3 men are not easy to change Instead of devoting all your energy to transforming the ones you love, you should engage in other, more meaningful activities. 4 The mentality of little women is not popular A man needs a woman to be a mature partner, lover and friend, not a daughter who still needs to be taken care of. A woman who is too childish will make a man shy away. 5 Complaints scare men away After entering a new relationship, a woman who remains dissatisfied and resentful about past disappointments will only scare men away. 6 Men do not want to be overly dependent on women A man does not want to be seen by a woman as a savior, a cross to save her.If a woman expects her partner to affirm her personal value, she will be disappointed.

7 Good Men Take Time to Discover The best side of everyone often takes time to discover, men who are good at showing off may attract women at first, but they often fail to give women lasting love. 〖JP〗 8 Don't expect too much from men Keeping an open attitude and not judging others casually can bring interesting surprises to your life from time to time. Men are most afraid of all kinds of expectations in the name of "love", asking each other "what should be" everywhere, which will only destroy the relationship. 9 Don't wait for happiness A smart woman will not wait for happiness to come, she will create her own happiness; she knows how to pursue it, instead of just waiting, blindly waiting will not produce results.

10 Things a Guy Likes When a Woman Loves Him If you want to let a man know that you like him, the other party will not feel nothing. Enthusiasm and acceptance are the catalysts for "calling". 11 Know how to listen to what men say Whether they admit it verbally or not, most men like and need a woman who knows how to listen.They do need a soulmate with whom they can talk easily, without fear of criticism. 12 Keep Love Mysterious When we are not fully sure about each other and dare not take it lightly, it is often the time when our emotions are the most active, so it is beneficial and harmless to maintain a little sense of mystery.