Chapter 6 Chapter 6 Love Realizes Self-Revolution

Generally speaking, when a man reaches middle-aged and old age, the older he gets, the more stubborn he is, and he doesn't want to change himself.They don't want to listen to good advice from the grassroots. They are always stubborn, self-righteous, and determined to justify their own ideas and practices.In fact, this just shows that as we grow older, we lose the flexibility of thinking. All interpersonal relationships, business models, will change with the times year after year.This cannot be denied and cannot be denied.Both housewives and skilled workers can be pretentious at times: I've been doing it all this time, and there's nothing wrong with that.

But young people and subordinates don't think so. The ideas of young people are not necessarily correct, but the times have changed, and the situation, the relationship between the upper and lower levels, interpersonal communication, business model, business environment, etc. are all changing all the time.Therefore, it is impossible not to reflect on yourself, not to adapt to changes, and not to keep pace with the times. So what exactly do people do to change?The most effective way is to fall in love.The experience of being in love is the most transformative thing. If there is a male leader, no matter how his subordinates appeal for improvement, but he just doesn't change—"That's it, and follow the established guidelines"—you can't do anything about him, even if you don't change, there will be nothing right now big trouble.

But when it comes to love, the situation is very different.A romantic relationship can be different from that between business units, but a one-to-one equal personal relationship. "Ouch, I don't like this, don't...", "I like you like this..." etc. No matter how many thoughts and hopes she has, you have to listen to her.In love, the opinions of men and women are equal. In order to maintain the relationship with her, how to compromise, how much to compromise, how to refute, and how to be accepted, the man must carefully care for her.On this occasion, if you take out the bad smell in the unit and treat her like giving orders to your subordinates, then you will definitely be dumped.

In order to keep her, he will change himself a bit to cater to her.She is the same, for him who loves him, she will respond to every request.Men and women in love can empathize and improve each other. People, it is the easiest and the most obedient to change themselves through love. When young, men and women in love will find that they have changed a lot compared to before they fell in love. It can be seen that change is by no means subtraction.In the unit, if you are good at listening to other people's opinions and thinking hard, you will gradually understand the joy and fun of listening.

In the unit, people's attention is always focused on the relationship between the upper and lower ranks and the size of the official rank.However, once you talk about love and love, and understand that you need to forgive and tolerate for the sake of love, as a result, you also change. From this point of view, it has nothing to do with age, as long as anyone can fall in love, he has the possibility of change. Because I like someone, fall in love with someone, I also change, what a wonderful thing this is.Because pursuing what one loves makes oneself refreshed and energetic, and can also realize self-transformation, isn't this a beautiful thing that kills two birds with one stone!

To put it bluntly, whether it is the chairman, the general manager, or the management cadres, they should be in love.When you have someone you love, you will naturally listen to the other person's ideas, enrich your own perspective on problems, and broaden your vision of thinking about solutions—because there are hers and your own, and seeing problems is the sight of compound eyes. I often hear this kind of speech at weddings: "So far, I have seen the world from the perspective of one person. From now on, because I have to look at the world from the perspective of a couple, I can see the prospects of life more clearly. up".Makes sense.However, it seems that in real life, once married, it is not the "combination of eyesight" of the two, but the "combination of eyesight" of each of them.

In any case, it is necessary to survive in modern society: to understand what other people and lovers think and want, and to read other people's minds. Just as a man perceives what a woman wants, a woman also perceives a man's thoughts and demands - thus having a compound eye perspective. In this sense, bosses and CEOs should cultivate their compound eyes through love.Especially for male managers, it is natural to listen to the opinions of employees, but the opinions of their romantic partners are more straightforward and more casual.It is precisely because of this that there will be innovation.

On this point, give an example.A certain hotel in Shinagawa has always had a lot of guests coming in and out, but not only because of the good location and cheap accommodation. The more important reason is that there are comfortable and stylish movie theaters, as well as bowling alleys, aquariums, various performances and stage shows, and cheap and high-quality food streets.It is rare to see such a hotel with complete facilities and comprehensive facilities.It is reasonable that the hotel only needs to provide basic accommodation services, but it has become a place for people to relax and entertain.

I don't think this would be an elderly operator's idea.There must be a lot of ideas here.For example: To change the impression that the restaurant is too high-end and discourages ordinary people.For example: to make both old and young and single women like it.Even if you pass by and decide to stay temporarily, you must make every family member comfortable-probably the result of this goal. In fact, it is difficult for men to understand the thoughts and wishes of single women or travelers with families.Men, after staying in a hotel, most of them will go out of the gate to look around and enjoy the scene of the night.However, it is different for single women.For those who are not familiar with the place, if a woman can enjoy the pleasure of staying in a hotel without going out of the hotel gate, she must be popular.

Let's not speculate whether the owner of the restaurant is in a relationship, anyway, it is impossible to build it only with the idea of ​​a man.It must have incorporated the ideas and ideas of women and children to create such a charming restaurant. Desires and sensibility that cannot be obtained from men, or ideas and plans that cannot be imagined from women, will naturally arise because of falling in love and having a sweetheart by your side. Speaking of this, I remembered an incident that happened to me. Once, I took my girlfriend on a trip.Entering the hotel room, "Ah, the view is so beautiful" "Wow, this room is really nice" - I just admired it, took off my coat and threw it on the bed, and then went to the bathroom.When I went back to the room, I found that my coat was still on the bed.

Huh, if my ex-girlfriend (much more mature than her) would have hung that coat on the hanger long ago. But she was so busy packing her luggage that she didn't even notice that there was a coat beside her. "Hey, you don't hang up my coat for me" I just wanted to whisper to her, but I stopped immediately, I was thinking: maybe the woman in front of me is not used to hanging up coats for men, maybe she does this kind of thing too people……. A woman who has a deep friendship will naturally do that. This is my wishful thinking.In fact, there are women who don't.When I realized this, I was pleasantly surprised and had a new experience. From then on, I understand: when traveling with young women, the coat must be hung by yourself.Since then, I've been on my own. These trivial matters are trivial, but they are an episode in the realization of self-revolution. In this way, if you travel with a wife who knows you well, you will feel less pressure and feel more comfortable. And if so, thank goodness.However, when you travel to a strange place with people you don’t know well, you often think, “Ah, so this is not going to work.” This will lead to new discoveries and surprises—the woman who has been helping me hang my coat so far is How gentle, how grateful, spontaneously.... Next, I am more willing to realize self-revolution and face new challenges. Take these things as fun, this is also the charm that you can't know without being in love. The realization of self-revolution in love, until now, has been talked about spiritually.In fact, falling in love can make the body change even more. Falling in love can make a woman's face glow with youthfulness and become more beautiful. For a woman in love, everyone can truly feel the changes brought about by love, not only herself, but also the people around her. "Recently, you seem to be quite moisturized and beautiful" - indicating that a revolution has taken place in the body. The same is true for men. When they pursue women, they will naturally become younger.Moreover, if you want to win the heart and put your heart and soul into it, the man's skin will be radiant, and the hormones in the male body will be activated. Falling in love has triggered a revolution in the brain, a revolution in the body, and a revolution in thinking. God created man and woman to love each other.However, God has created such a big difference between men and women.This is for the relentless pursuit of each other, for the reproduction of endless offspring. God has endowed us with the possibility of rejuvenating the body and spirit as long as we are in love, no matter how old we are. Change and seeking change are extremely important to the continuation of life, both for individuals and organizations. About 150 years ago, British biologist Charles Darwin traveled around the Galapagos Islands and proposed the theory of evolution.There is a passage in it: Not all creatures that can survive in this world are powerful, nor are they all intelligent.Only those organisms that have the ability to adapt to environmental changes in various periods can survive. For modern people, this is an inspiring classic quote. 150 years ago, Darwin, who studied the ecology of various animals, warned us: change at the right time, survival of the fittest is the last word. On the contrary, creatures that do not change will perish, not only for species, but also for every individual person, for the survival and continuation of a business, and it is a warning to the world. Being in love makes change and transformation easy.Perhaps, all species that can survive to this day, all living individuals, including humans and animals, must have experienced a wonderful love.