Chapter 10 have a kind tongue

In 2007, before Ma Ying-jeou, chairman of Taiwan’s Kuomintang, resigned, I asked a wise man: “Why is the world becoming more and more chaotic now? Look at Taiwan, the Middle East, and the Korean Peninsula, especially Taiwan’s politics. There is no standard , without principles, and without the most basic common sense and judgment. What will the human society, the relationship between people, and the relationship between countries be like in the future?" "160 years ago, the sages put The relationship between the human society in the new world in the future is clearly described, that is, through consultation, a relationship of unity can be reached." The wise man replied.

I don't quite understand: "From the current point of view, everyone is surrounded by a culture of confrontation, and there is no sign of unity and consultation. Why is this?" The wise man said: "Everyone of us is entering maturity. Before puberty, people will experience turbulent puberty, and it is inevitable that they will play with childish temper and young master temper during this period. The development cycle of human society is actually the same as the growth cycle of human beings, and the restlessness of adolescence is also a sign that human beings are about to enter maturity. "But isn't it?When we were young, each of us had trouble with our parents, such as not eating, not wearing clothes, etc., but our parents always gave us love.

This wise man has full confidence when we talk about the relationship between people in the new world in the future, because some of the forerunners of human beings have already grasped the spirit of negotiation and mastered its skills.Under their leadership, more and more people began to use this method of communication and unity that is both practical and contains great ideas, and it will eventually form the common spiritual wealth of human society. Consultation is not a simple negotiation or compromise, it is a pursuit of truth.Counterculture is often the worst obstacle in our quest for truth.The consultation is to discuss issues in a frank and polite atmosphere.The opinions put forward by all parties do not belong to individuals, but to the collective, which makes decisions, choices and improvements.The success of the consultation also lies in the fact that no matter what kind of opinions the participants have at the beginning, they must finally support the final decision of all.Only through consultations can human beings gain benefits and happiness.Think about it, we human beings can't run as fast as horses, can't fly like birds, can't swim as well as fish, but human beings have created huge material and spiritual wealth.This is because we are rational, have the ability to communicate, and have the ability to consult and cooperate with each other.Without these, we would be inferior to animals.

"Once one's point of view is expressed, it no longer belongs to oneself, but belongs to everyone." What a wise point of view this is.Many unnecessary arguments, many people quarreling for the sake of face, or often losing their childish temper in order to defend their original point of view, are all manifestations of immaturity. When someone told this wise man that I blog all day long on the Internet and that many people read my blog, he reminded me: have a kind tongue (Kindlytongue), and never sow seeds of discord in people's hearts.