Chapter 44 Chapter 4 The maze of love

"I just buried my second wife. I don't want to get married again," the widower lamented to his new secretary. "My first wife died of poisonous mushrooms, and my second wife was shot. die." "What a tragedy! Who shot your second wife to death?" the female secretary asked with concern. "She's not willing to eat poisonous mushrooms, so she has no choice." Love is the most beautiful and touching emotion in the world, but it is strange how many loves end in death.If the end of love is death, why do people still fall in love without hesitation?The mystery, change and weirdness of love can be said to be a riddle that human beings cannot solve after thousands of years.Regardless of the individual's knowledge and wealth background, human beings become as innocent and ignorant as children in the face of mysterious love.Love cannot be bought or sold, it cannot be pursued, it cannot be waited on; it can only happen, mysteriously.No one knows where his or her future lover will be or what he or she will look like when he or she is young.Love cannot be learned or imitated. Love is dogmatic and single-minded.In my opinion, the traditional Chinese concept of fate may be the most accurate interpretation of love for human beings, but this interpretation is so out of human control, in fact, it is just a helplessness of human beings in the face of love. sigh.

Sadomasochism as a mainstream form "I really wish you had disabled legs," a boy named Yard said to his girlfriend on the phone. "Why do you have such a strange idea?" Yade's beautiful girlfriend asked in surprise. "You are so beautiful, all the men in the world will fall in love with you." Yade paused and continued: "If you have disabled legs, then you will have to stay at home, and I will spend my whole life Take care of you, care for you, love you. Whatever you want, I will help you do it, you don't have to do it. This way we can be together forever."

Hearing such a morbid confession of love from her boyfriend, Yad's girlfriend Laura suddenly felt creepy.She can almost imagine that her legs will be disabled one day in the future, and the murderer behind that accident is her Yade who is willing to love her with his whole life.The ending of their love soon has an answer: Laura firmly breaks up with Yard. Although Laura broke up with Yad, the psychological trauma of this incident was not small for Laura.When Laura was accepting my psychological consultation, she asked helplessly, why do men have such a sick and terrifying idea?I smiled and said to Laura, "Can you imagine a woman in this world who is willing to disable herself to satisfy her boyfriend?"

Laura gave me a look and said, "I hate your question. Why are men in the world so self-centered?" Laura projected her resentment for Yard onto me.At that moment, I was really embarrassed.I asked Laura that question, inadvertently as if looking for a possible excuse for Yard's absurdity. I immediately apologized to Laura, admitting that I had just unintentionally hurt Laura's feminine self-esteem.In order to make up for my mistake, I changed my perspective and said: "Can you imagine a man in this world who is willing to disable himself to satisfy his girlfriend?"

"Sick, I'm really sick of talking about things like this. Can we talk about something else." Laura's reaction made me realize that what I had just said was just a waste of time.But I knew in my heart that if Laura's reaction was not taken into account, everything I said was actually a perversion that can occur in people's love life. "What is love?" I have asked many people such a simple question. "Love is the feeling of having someone by my side when I am sick or alone and need help the most." I hear that answer a lot, so I respond, "If that's the definition of love, you'd better find a nurse or a philanthropist."

"Love is the joy of two people sharing life." This answer is correct, but wine and meat friends can also provide that possibility. "Love is a blessing to be shared, and adversity to be shared." This answer seems to be comprehensive, but what is the difference with the gathering of heroes in Liangshan. "If you want to leave me, I will commit suicide." After Corey made the decision to break up with his girlfriend Lani, he was threatened by Lani immediately. "Lanny, why don't you think about it? The long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain. It's better to suffer for a while than the two of you for a lifetime." Corey tried every means to comfort Lanni.Because there was a voice deep in his heart that told him clearly that he must resolutely break up with Lanny.After being in love with Lanny for half a year, Corey already clearly felt that the two were out of place.But every time he wanted to break up with Lani, he was threatened by Lani's suicide.Every time Lanny threatened suicide, Corey's determination to break up was strengthened.But the whole situation fell into a predicament that Corey least wanted to see. He realized that after being repeatedly defeated by Lanny's suicide threats, he had gradually fallen into a state where he could not extricate himself.

Lanny successfully restrains Corey with her suicide threats.After seeing the hopelessness of breaking up, the mild-mannered Corey became agitated, and his attitude towards Lanny gradually turned into a tyrant. "Honey, I love being abused by you. If you feel that abusing me will make you feel better, then you can abuse me." Lanny encouraged Corey to abuse her because she had a plausible logic: since I Trap Corey with a suicide threat, and I'm willing to make a little sacrifice, too.Corey did get a little pleasure when he transformed into Lanny's tyrant, and after half a year of tossing, the two finally got married.

What about after marriage?In fact, Corey has no interest in the role of a tyrant.Originally, he only hoped to use the role of a tyrant to scare Lan Ni away, but he didn't expect Lan Ni to cling to Corey even more, which made Corey feel extremely painful.After four years of torturous marriage, Corey and Lanny finally divorced. "Life is so ridiculous. My marriage is like a nightmare. I know it's wrong, but I can't break free." After the divorce, Corey sighed to me. "Then you should have a deeper understanding of love by now?" "Honestly, I'm terrified of love right now," Corey sighed.