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Chapter 36 Chapter 17 Pregnant Lesbians

One day, a female patient came. She had long hair draped over her shoulders, and a strange light shone in her faint eyes.After I sat down, I took a look at her and realized that the woman in front of me was actually quite charming, but there was a faint blue tinge in this charm. She told me she was pregnant.Her problem is that she is very eager to have this child, but fears that she is not qualified and psychologically prepared to be a mother.Her childhood was tragic because her mother had been living among gangsters, and when she reached puberty, her mother took her to gangs.In order to defend herself, she turned herself into a man, shaved the same short hair as men, imitated men's rudeness, and had her own "girlfriend" like men.Until the age of 35, her life was wasted on drugs and crime.Later, she met him, a well-known drug kingpin, when she entered a psychotherapy group for out-of-prison prisoners.Impressed by his roughness and passion, she fell in love with a heterosexual for the first time in her life.So, she started to grow long hair, trying to be a woman.

The woman sitting in front of me who was trying to be a woman looked more womanly than the average woman.So, I know that homosexuality can be a way of survival and adaptation, and homosexuality can also be reversed by heterosexual passion.When a gay person is transformed into a straight person, she can be more straight than the average straight person.Homosexuality and heterosexuality are really just two different forms of human gender role positioning.In the movie "The Wedding Banquet" directed by Ang Lee, the groom, who was originally a homosexual, couldn't help the bride's personal teasing on the wedding night, and turned it into a fake.Such a phenomenon is naturally called bisexuality.

If you think gay people have no interest in the opposite sex, you could be dangerously mistaken.One of my patients, Joan, was a beautiful Columbia University student.Joan was afraid of associating with men, but she also wanted his protection, so she thought of a clever way, renting a suite and sharing it with a gay man.It was all right at first, but when Joan started interacting with other boys, his gay roommate began to dictate to her.Finally one day, he hugged her suddenly, and almost begged her, asking her not to abandon him.Stunned by the behavior of her gay male roommate, Joan turned to me for help and what to do.I told her that homosexuals are not robots, they also have emotions and desires, as long as you treat him as an ordinary man, you can handle your relationship as you want.Joan did as I was told, and the second time, she told me, he offered her a sincere apology.So, the two still live together.This is a strange scene in American life.

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