Chapter 87 sequence

When I was a kid, my mom would take me to the National Geographic Society every week to see a movie.There is a movie about tigers that still gives me nightmares.I sat in the dark movie theater and watched the tigress give birth.She gave birth to 3 cubs, one of which was crippled at birth, and I saw the other 2 cubs pushing it out fiercely.Through the lens, I watched it being tortured to death alive.I still remember crying myself out.Those able-bodied little tigers reminded me of some of my classmates at school.These kids are sometimes very cruel. In high school, my best friend was Stella.Stella is a beautiful and kind girl, but her speech is a bit slurred because she was born with a lip defect.Many students in the class laughed at her behind her back and refused to let her participate in the activities.

To this day, the children remain unchanged.Every time I go to a university to give a speech, the final discussion is always about how to be popular.Everyone wants to be liked by others.Occasionally a student would tell me that a girl had a small physical defect, a slight eye, or a cramp in the face when she was nervous.She is always laughed at by the children.Another boy had a slight limp, and no one wanted to put him on the baseball team.In fact, he runs as fast as other kids, but some students don't want a "cripple" in their team. Time flies, and in a blink of an eye these children have grown up, and they haven't changed much since they grew up.Adults may be less cruel to physically handicapped people and take pleasure in making fun of others.But people may still be merciless when it comes to people with social disabilities.Social disability may also be regarded as a hidden disease, because the person concerned is not easy to perceive his own problems.We are unaware of our own communication and language barriers, but we are quick to spot weaknesses or flaws in others.

How many times has your co-worker acted stupid or gaffe?How many times have you shut someone out because they acted unwisely?Do you think they know what's wrong with them?Do not be silly.Of course they don't know.The other person has no idea that he has crossed the line and stepped on your shoes.Probably no one ever said anything to them about the subtleties of Book IX, the last installment to discuss. We’ve all heard that in certain companies, women or minorities hit the “glass ceiling,” an invisible barrier to advancement.However, there is little discussion of another glass ceiling.This glass ceiling is worse, and the law does nothing to protect you, or help you break through the barrier.Only a master of communication understands the truth deeply.This glass ceiling is solid as a rock, and many good people try to climb up to the ranks of the big, but bump into it head-on.Those who have a way to break the curtain will abide by the rules of the game that will be discussed below.

Think carefully about each of the techniques below, and if a technique takes you for granted, encourage it.This shows that you are already considered a master communicator who has mastered this skill.If you read certain techniques and you're like, "Stop kidding, what's the big deal about doing this," then you need to work on that specifically. Be cautious at all times, because one day in the future, on any occasion, you may make a mistake, a mistake that you think is "no big deal".When other natural winners don't respond to you, don't invite you to parties, don't return your calls, don't give you promotions, or don't want to date you, you may still not understand what's wrong.Study each of the techniques below and don't allow yourself to make a single blunder, because of which other big shots will torture you and keep you from fulfilling your life's dreams.