Chapter 33 TECHNIQUE 29 UNIQUE SMILE
Ever see those low cost clothing mail order catalogs?Use the same model from start to finish.Whether she's wearing an evening gown or a bikini, she always has the same regular smile on her face.If you tap her on the forehead, a small voice might answer, "Nobody's home."
The top models in Vogue are different.Their expressions are very vivid and rich: sometimes they show a smile of "I have a secret"; on another page, the expression is changed to "I want to meet you, but I'm not sure"; the next page shows Mona Li Sha's mysterious smile.This type of model makes people feel that there is a smart head behind her beautiful appearance.
Once, I lined up with the cruise ship staff to welcome tourists on board, the captain, the captain's wife, and several other staff members were present.A passenger shook hands with us one by one with a big smile.When it was my turn, he had a very charming smile, and his white teeth were as neat as the keys of a piano.I was immediately attracted to him on the spot.He was like a dazzling lamp, illuminating the whole hall.I secretly wished him a pleasant trip, and decided to get to know this charming passenger later.
He went on to the next staff member, and out of the corner of my eye I saw him showing the exact same smile.When it came to the third staff member, his smile remained the same.By this time my interest in him had slowly faded.
By the time he breaks into his fourth grin, it's almost like a Chishire cat (Alice in Wonderland).In front of the fifth person, his unchanging smile has become a flashing fluorescent lamp, destroying the atmosphere of the entire hall.This guy showed that 101 smile to every staff member who shook hands from beginning to end. I am no longer interested in chatting with him.
Why is he so impressive one minute and knocking me from the clouds to the rocks the next?That's because of his smile.Although his smile is charming, but for me, I don't get special treatment.Apparently he gave everyone the same smile.In this way, it naturally loses its unique charm. If this gentleman could smile slightly differently to everyone, he should appear sharper and wiser (of course, if the smile he threw at me at that time was better than others Even more brilliant, I must have rushed into the crowded hall to talk to him regardless of etiquette).
If you have to wear a gun because of work, you must carefully figure out every part of the gun before shooting.You will also first carefully assess whether the shot will kill, cripple, or just injure the opponent?Then aim and shoot.Since a smile is one of the most powerful communication weapons, you must also carefully study and adjust it to see what effect it has on your target.For 5 minutes, shut yourself in a room or bathroom, don't let your family think you're insane, stand in front of a mirror, try a few different smiles, and see the subtle differences in each one.
If you give everyone the same smile, like a cheap commemorative coin, it loses its value.When meeting a certain group of people for the first time, the smile on each person must be different.A good communicator knows how to use a smile to express different emotions, and expresses the different joys of meeting each new friend. If there's someone in the group who means a lot to you, give him or her the brightest, most special smile of all time.
When you meet someone for the first time, you will alternately use various greetings such as "Hello, hello, nice to meet you" in response to each other.In the same way, smiles should be different, don't smile exactly the same to everyone, be slightly different, let your smile speak for you, and reflect your different emotions for each person.
If you give everyone the same smile, like a cheap commemorative coin, it loses its value.When meeting a certain group of people for the first time, the smile on each person must be different.A good communicator knows how to use a smile to express different emotions, and expresses the different joys of meeting each new friend. If there's someone in the group who means a lot to you, give him or her the brightest, most special smile of all time.
When you meet someone for the first time, you will alternately use various greetings such as "Hello, hello, nice to meet you" in response to each other.In the same way, smiles should be different, don't smile exactly the same to everyone, be slightly different, let your smile speak for you, and reflect your different emotions for each person.