Chapter 17 Tip 14 Overhearing
The lady you've made up your mind to absolutely meet has absolutely no "what's that" or a host to pull off the "who's that" trick, and to make matters worse, she seems to be having a great conversation with a group of friends, it seems You are hopeless.
Don't worry, any obstacle can't stop a determined freelancer. They always keep one trick, or even 10 tricks, in their kit.At this time, politicians may use the technique of eavesdropping.Of course, eavesdropping always gives people a bad impression of being sneaky—such as the use of wiretapping equipment, as well as the Watergate case, pictures of spies in dark corners, and so on.Eavesdropping has a long history in politics, so of course it's a trick that politicians have hit upon.
Can't find the "what is that" in others, can't find the owner, can't use the "who is that" trick, no problem!You just stalk the group you want to infiltrate and listen.When you hear a slightly worthwhile excuse, you quickly interject, "Sorry, I just heard..." Will they be startled?Yes, but only for a while. Will they recover anytime soon?Also all at once. Will you join their conversation?No problem at all.
When going to a party, approach the group of people you want to infiltrate.Wait for some key word and use it to break into this group. "Sorry, I just heard you..." Then pick up something relevant to the moment.For example, "I just heard you guys talking about Bermuda. I'm going next month for the first time, can you give me some advice?" Doesn't this break into this circle?Now you can steer the conversation in any direction you wish. We are going to continue our journey.Now it is time to leave the field of chatting and move forward to deep communication.
Can't find the "what is that" in others, can't find the owner, can't use the "who is that" trick, no problem!You just stalk the group you want to infiltrate and listen.When you hear a slightly worthwhile excuse, you quickly interject, "Sorry, I just heard..." Will they be startled?Yes, but only for a while. Will they recover anytime soon?Also all at once. Will you join their conversation?No problem at all.
When going to a party, approach the group of people you want to infiltrate.Wait for some key word and use it to break into this group. "Sorry, I just heard you..." Then pick up something relevant to the moment.For example, "I just heard you guys talking about Bermuda. I'm going next month for the first time, can you give me some advice?" Doesn't this break into this circle?Now you can steer the conversation in any direction you wish. We are going to continue our journey.Now it is time to leave the field of chatting and move forward to deep communication.