Chapter 5 Tip 3: Eyes like super glue
Now we will fully focus on the firepower of the eyes: make the eyes stickier, let's call them super glue eyes.The big boss judges his employees with this look.Used by police to deter suspects.Clever Romeo knows how to make a girl fall in love with him with this trick. (If romance is what you're after, superglue eyes are the ultimate aphrodisiac.)
Eyes like superglue, this trick requires three people to perform—you, your target, and one other person.Here's how it's done: Usually, when you're chatting with more than two people, you look at the person who's talking.But the superglue eye trick is about focusing your attention on the other audience, your target audience, rather than on the speaker.This will confuse the target a little bit, and he may ask himself, "Why is this person looking at me instead of the speaker?" The target will find that you have a strong interest in his reaction.This works very well in some business situations, as long as the situation allows you to judge the other party without appearing rude.
The trick, while cheeky, is as powerful as a boxer's punch.Even if others are looking, you have to keep your eyes on your target.No matter who is speaking, just keep looking at your target audience.Sometimes this technique can be too strong, in which case I suggest a gentler approach, which is equally effective: look at the speaker, but whenever the speaker reaches a paragraph, your eyes should follow the trend Go to the target object.This way, the target still feels your attention, but the tension can be slightly relieved.
Human resources executives often use this superglue technique, and they don't use it on purpose, but they are genuinely interested in the reactions and ideas of prospective employees.Lawyers, bosses, police investigators, psychologists, and others who must carefully observe the reactions of others use the eye trick of superglue for analysis. When using this technique, it is equivalent to telling the other party that you are very interested in him, and this technique can also make people exude confidence.Since this technique is a judgmental gesture, though, it's best to be cautious.Don't overdo it, as it may come across as arrogant or cheeky. If you want to create romance, the message of the superglue trick is different. "I can't take my eyes off of you", or "I only have eyes for you".Anthropologists once compared the eyes to "the most primitive romantic organ", because according to research, a lot of eye contact will disrupt people's heartbeat.It will also release substances similar to hallucinogens and affect the nervous system. This substance is called a hormone that can also be detected in the body when a person is in a state of sexual excitement.Therefore, it is not difficult for us to deduce that a lot of eye contact can arouse sexual desire. Gentlemen, super glue eyes are very effective on women - the prerequisite is that they have a crush on you.Women will interpret your firm gaze as budding love.If she doesn't like you, though, your super glue eyes can be downright repulsive. (Don't use this trick on strangers in public or you could get arrested!)
The trick, while cheeky, is as powerful as a boxer's punch.Even if others are looking, you have to keep your eyes on your target.No matter who is speaking, just keep looking at your target audience.Sometimes this technique can be too strong, in which case I suggest a gentler approach, which is equally effective: look at the speaker, but whenever the speaker reaches a paragraph, your eyes should follow the trend Go to the target object.This way, the target still feels your attention, but the tension can be slightly relieved.
Human resources executives often use this superglue technique, and they don't use it on purpose, but they are genuinely interested in the reactions and ideas of prospective employees.Lawyers, bosses, police investigators, psychologists, and others who must carefully observe the reactions of others use the eye trick of superglue for analysis. When using this technique, it is equivalent to telling the other party that you are very interested in him, and this technique can also make people exude confidence.Since this technique is a judgmental gesture, though, it's best to be cautious.Don't overdo it, as it may come across as arrogant or cheeky. If you want to create romance, the message of the superglue trick is different. "I can't take my eyes off of you", or "I only have eyes for you".Anthropologists once compared the eyes to "the most primitive romantic organ", because according to research, a lot of eye contact will disrupt people's heartbeat.It will also release substances similar to hallucinogens and affect the nervous system. This substance is called a hormone that can also be detected in the body when a person is in a state of sexual excitement.Therefore, it is not difficult for us to deduce that a lot of eye contact can arouse sexual desire. Gentlemen, super glue eyes are very effective on women - the prerequisite is that they have a crush on you.Women will interpret your firm gaze as budding love.If she doesn't like you, though, your super glue eyes can be downright repulsive. (Don't use this trick on strangers in public or you could get arrested!)