Chapter 29 Chapter Seven Five Elements Personality and Health for Children

Some people think that children's illnesses are easy to treat, but this is not always the case. Children also suffer from chronic diseases, terminal illnesses, and even cancer.A child has a terminal illness and is about to die. Can parents be worried?How could a child be terminally ill when he was supposed to be full of life?What exactly is this for?Is it just that God is unfair and fate is not good? no.Illness is often a disease of the heart, and we should also look for the cause from the "heart".Although the child does not have any complicated thoughts or worries, his parents do!We can find the cause of their illness from his parents, especially his mother.

We often hear old people say this: "The father is the sky of the child, and the mother is the land of the child." "The bone is given by the father, and the flesh is given by the mother." "Qi belongs to the father, and blood belongs to the mother." From their parents, their health is also closely related to their parents.Therefore, father and son are connected, and mother and child are connected. Parents' bodies will have an hereditary influence on the child, and the parents' mentality and personality will also have an influence and heredity on the child.

In the day after tomorrow, parents will have a greater influence on their children.After the baby is born, it needs to be fed by the mother's milk. If the mother has a bad personality, often loses her temper and has bad emotions during breastfeeding, then the toxins produced by these bad emotions will be fed to the baby along with the milk, bringing diseases to the baby.If there are many conflicts among family members and the family atmosphere is depressed, then the child's mental health will be affected. Most of the diseases of infants and young children are caused by the mother. He was born in ten months of pregnancy by his mother, and he was fed by his mother's milk after birth. He and his mother are always one body.If the mother has a bad temper and always gets angry, the toxins produced will go directly to the child.Needless to say during pregnancy, during breastfeeding, the toxins produced by getting angry can be fed to the child through milk.The mother is strong and has a strong resistance, and can withstand a little toxin. The child is weak, and the toxin will soon act on the child's delicate body, so the seeds of serious illness are planted.As for when this serious illness will occur, it is hard to say, it may occur immediately, or it may lie in for several years or even ten years.This kind of illness is actually given by the mother to the child, or in other words, the child is sick, suffering and even dying on behalf of the mother!

So, being a parent is hard.Raising children well requires too much from parents.As a parent, you must not be careless, and you must transform your love for your children into strict requirements and cultivation for yourself. Talent is the capital given to a person by God, including intelligence, character, physique, etc. There are innate factors and acquired factors that affect a person's growth.Innate factors are talents, acquired factors are environmental influences.Nowadays, people tend to underestimate talent in education, and think that there is not much difference in talent between people. In fact, this is a strategy to prevent those children with poor talent from losing their self-esteem and self-confidence. .It is undeniable that the most fundamental factor affecting a person is innate factors. Only when a person is talented can the acquired conditions play a full role.

Who is the child's "day"?It's the parents.Therefore, children's talents are given by their parents.Parents have a great influence on children's innate intelligence and personality, which is recognized by everyone, but how much and how the influence is, I'm afraid not many people have carefully studied it.As the saying goes: "One tree bears fruit, there are sour and sweet; one mother gives birth to children, there are fools and some are wise." What is the difference?What does it depend on? Is it just a random combination of genes?No, "God never plays dice", things in this world always have a cause and effect, there is not so much randomness and chance.

In fact, anyone who has children, especially those with many children, can find out the root of their children's innate personality and intelligence if they can carefully recall the ups and downs of the environment and the quality of the spirit before and during pregnancy. A good friend of mine has three siblings in her family, and she is the eldest sister.I asked: "When you were born, the country was already implementing family planning. How can your family still have so many children?" Became a superbirth guerrilla, hid everywhere, finally became pregnant and gave birth to a third child, a boy.The talents of the three of her siblings are different: she is beautiful, smart since she was a child, ranked among the best in her studies, and was admitted to a prestigious university; her younger sister is inferior in all aspects and has a bigger temper than her; her younger brother is ugly and Stupid, at the age of eighteen, he was still in the third grade of junior high school, and then he simply dropped out of school and became a gangster in the society.He has a stubborn personality and insists on going his own way, even nine cows can't be pulled back.Thinking about it now, this is inevitable.When her parents first got married, they must have been very happy and carefree, so the eldest daughter can have such a good talent.The first child gave birth to a daughter, and the parents must not be very happy in a place where sons are preferred, so when the second child was pregnant, the parents were under a lot of pressure, and the father's temper was not very good, and the mother was even more stressed. Born under such conditions, her talent has been suppressed a lot, and her temper is like her father's.When her parents gave birth to the third child, the pressure can be imagined, and the need to avoid family planning was even more frightening, so her brother's talent was not good; moreover, her parents were trying to give birth to a son at the time, and they didn't care about anything. Very stubborn, so the children born are also so stubborn.

All in all, whether a child's talent is smart or dull, sensible or naughty depends on the psychological state of the parents at the time of pregnancy.Therefore, don’t be surprised by what kind of child you have. Whatever tree you plant will bear the same fruit, and you will give birth to whatever kind of person you want. Every parent wants their children to be smart, healthy and kind, so prenatal education has been very popular since ancient times.Some mothers-to-be bought the "Four Books and Five Classics", "Four Great Classics" and even "The Yellow Emperor's Internal Classic", and began to chew on them half-understood. Some even put a small speaker on their stomach to let the fetus listen to music.This is of course beneficial to some extent, but it is not complete.The baby is born by the mother. When the baby is in the mother’s womb and is connected with the mother’s flesh and blood, the mother spends her whole life talking to the baby. Every word, every action, every thought, and every emotion are related to the baby’s future. intelligence, personality and health status.This is called mother-child connection.To give birth to a healthy, smart, and kind baby, it is fundamental to adjust the mother's mentality and emotions.

Emotions and mentality are determined by personality. Among the five personalities of wood, fire, water, metal, and earth, it doesn't matter which one you belong to. The key is to see whether you are yang or yin in this line of work.Every personality is like two sides of a coin, but some people prefer the positive side, while others prefer the negative side, it depends on the cultivation of each person.People with a well-cultivated mind tend to lean towards the positive side.People with poor xinxing cultivation tend to be on the negative side. If you tend to be negative, then you should pay attention. What you show to others is a very bad character. This will not only make others have a bad impression of you, but also make your future baby prone to certain diseases. disease.Scientific research shows that when a pregnant woman's mood is depressed or fluctuates, the frequency and intensity of fetal movement will be several times that of normal.Although the pregnant woman's bad mood only lasts for a while, the excess fetal movement can last for several hours.If the bad mood of the pregnant woman lasts for several weeks, then the excessive exercise of the fetus will run through the entire fetal period.This will inevitably affect the development of the fetus, and even cause some congenital physiological defects.

The predecessors summed it up like this: Shady trees do not melt, anger is high, children fall into the grass, and are prone to convulsions. The yin soil is rigid, stuffy and stubborn, and after giving birth to a child, the complexion is yellow and emaciated. Women are too weak, yin and ignorant, often give birth to children, cold in the belly. Anxious and irritable, Yin-fire internal inflammation, infertility in childbirth, non-jaundice, malnutrition. The yin and gold are divided, the mouth is like a knife file, and the child is born, and the lungs are weak. Women with Yinmu personality tend to get angry easily, and their children will also have many Yinmu characteristics, and the Liver Qi will be very strong, which will easily cause convulsions, convulsions and other diseases.Because the liver wood is too prosperous, it can suppress the spleen and stomach, which is a taboo for children's health.

Women with yin-earth personality are stubborn and prone to sulking, and their children will also have a lot of yin-earth personality, prone to spleen deficiency, sallow and emaciated. Women with yin water personality are weak, dull, and lazy by nature, and their children will also have a lot of yin water personality, often with kidney yang deficiency, cold in the abdomen, abdominal pain, diarrhea, etc. Women with a Yin-fire personality are impatient and irritable, like to argue, and are furious when things happen. The children they give birth to will also have a lot of Yin-fire personality, which is often difficult to raise. Moreover, they are either jaundice or malnutrition.

Women with a Yin-gold personality like to be jealous, speak harshly, and give birth to children who will also have a lot of Yin-fire personality, weak lungs, and easy coughing and shortness of breath. Therefore, for every woman who intends to be a mother, she should make adjustments according to her existing personality: for example, if you are a wooden person but tend to be Yinmu, you should gradually change it. If you are a fire person, but you tend to be yin-fire, you should change slowly so that you can develop a yang-fire personality, and so on for the rest.Only when the mother has a pure temperament can she maintain an optimistic and peaceful state of mind during pregnancy to ensure the healthy growth of the fetus.Even after the child is born, the mother's personality can affect the child through breastfeeding and all aspects of family life. Of course, people say: "The country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change." Changing one's character is a painful process.However, driven by great maternal love, for the sake of children, every mother will change as long as she understands that her personality has a direct impact on the health and wisdom of her children.I have seen many such cases. For the sake of their children, mothers always make a lot of sacrifices, sacrificing their youth, part of their career, and the waywardness of a little girl.The reason why mothers are great and the reason why maternal love is noble lies here.But changing one's personality is not a sacrifice, but a kind of investment, and the benefits are astonishing: the child will gain a healthy body and a good personality, and the mother will also make progress with the child. In the days to come, even more Healthier luckier.