Chapter 21 Yin fire character

A friend who just joined the workforce told me that he had just received his first month's salary after graduation, which was only 2,000 yuan, and he was very cold and depressed.In this regard, I deeply understand that in this era, two thousand yuan is really not considered money. Working in Beijing, not eating, drinking, getting sick, or buying clothes for a year, the savings are not enough to buy a one-square-meter house !I jokingly said to him: "If you feel disappointed, you will offend the God of Wealth! Hurry up and repent." In fact, this kind of disappointment is caused by impetuousness.I believe that no one would like people who are disgusted and impetuous.Then why do many people become impetuous without knowing it?Impatient and impetuous, it is caused by Yinhuo personality.Yinhuo personality, first of all, has strong desires, wishing to get rich overnight, and has no patience to wait.

Now people always say that this is an impetuous society.In our lives, we can see restless people running around and walking everywhere.So, what are they all after?Children who have just entered college are thinking about what kind of job should they look for after graduation?Newcomers who have just started working are thinking, why do others get so much salary, when will I be able to get promoted and raise my salary?When I see others buying a house or a car, I wonder why I don’t have a house or a good car?Seeing other people succeed in their careers, you will complain why you are not that lucky?and so on.An impetuous person suffers from his own desires while envying the success of others.An impetuous heart puts countless pressures on people.Can stress really turn into motivation?not necessarily.Stress is more often just resistance.Impetuous people often cannot calm down and do things in a down-to-earth manner. If things are not done in a down-to-earth manner, the success rate will naturally be low.Therefore, what impetuousness brings to people is not success and motivation, but more failure and spiritual suffering.

This is an era of impetuousness. The impetuousness of the society has caused the impetuousness of the individual's heart, and countless impetuous hearts have made the society even more impetuous. Such a vicious circle will drag down many people!People who have always been in the same boat with the society, or those who are swept away by the bad atmosphere in the society, most of them will not have any great prospects.The society is impetuous, but only those who are not impetuous in the impetuous society can do everything well in a down-to-earth manner and succeed! 2,000 yuan in the first month of work does not mean 2,000 yuan a month for the rest of your life. After all, there are many turning points in life.An impetuous person cannot hear the true desire in his heart, and it is even less likely for them to notice the opportunities that may happen at any time.But one day, when you calm down and think that you no longer need those opportunities, maybe the real opportunities have come to you.You know, the opportunities in life are like the butterflies in spring, if you try to catch them, you will never be able to catch them. When you walk leisurely among the flowers, they will fly around and dance around you, and even land on you.

I have read a novel before, which has such a beautiful plot: it was in the era of extreme scarcity of material.It's the Chinese New Year, and the little sister is very happy to wear new clothes.But the little brother thinks that a string of necklaces should be paired with his sister's new clothes.But where do they have the money to buy it!The little brother came up with a way. He took off the long shards of ice hanging from the eaves, knocked them into beads, and then blew air on the ice with a straw, blowing a hole in the middle of the ice, and then, He strung these ice cubes together with straw and made a necklace for his little sister to wear.The ice cubes are crystal clear, the straw is golden yellow, and the new clothes are very beautiful, and the little sister is also very beautiful!How happy they are!

In the age when we couldn't even eat enough, we could have such happiness!Why?Because children have no greed in their hearts, they only care about the present, and they see the happiness and joy of the present.If there is greed in your heart, then the little sister will say: "No, I want a real crystal necklace! We have been so miserable since we were young, when will we be the first day!" Isn't this a big spoiler?But many of us today always have such bad thoughts. The greatest weakness of human nature is greed, which is also an important source of disease and disaster, and the root of greed lies in the character of yin and fire.Someone may immediately say: "I have no power or power, and I have no chance to be greedy." Wrong, it is not corruption and bribery that is called greed.That kind of obvious greed is not what I am concerned about here.I am interested in the mentality of greed, which cannot be measured by how much money is greedy.The yin and fire personality that we form unconsciously is the chief culprit of the disease.Although it is only "three liters of solar eclipse", I still want to have "thousands of hectares of fertile land". Possession is greed.

It is often said in advertisements that "the heart is worse than action", which is very accurate.Heartbeat is lust.Everyone has something to love in their hearts, and if there is love, the seeds of greed are planted.We like to eat delicious food, which is appetite; we like beautiful women, which is lust or love; we like to wear beautiful clothes and live in spacious and luxurious houses, which is also to satisfy physical comfort and psychological vanity, which is also a kind of desire. Greed.And wanting to get more money is the sum of all greed, because in the eyes of people with great greed, if you have money, you have everything.When we like something, we just want to get it and possess it. If we don’t get it, we will always think in our hearts, “I can’t get it, I’m thinking about it.” Once we possess it, these things become a burden to our body and mind.

The simplest and most direct way for greed to cause disease is: if we are greedy for delicious food and eat too much, it will hurt the spleen and stomach.If we are greedy for cold, we will catch a cold.Especially in summer, there are always people who are eager to enjoy the coolness of the air conditioner. As a result, they suffer from strange diseases. In summer, they suffer from winter diseases, with cold pulse and tongue coating.Even if this "air-conditioning disease" is cured, vigilance cannot be relaxed, because it shows that the human body has violated the rhythm of the four seasons, and the rhythm has been disrupted.

Slightly indirect, for example, lusting after women, whether it is heartbeat or action, will inevitably hurt the kidneys and yin.If it is put into action, the excessive consumption of essence and yang is easy to explain the disease; however, some people have not put into action, or have no conditions to put into action, just have this idea (nowadays there is a fashionable word called "obscenity") ”), why did it hurt the kidneys and yin in the end?Because, the lustful thoughts haunt his heart all the time, and the essence and yang are still mobilized internally, and the internal friction produced is even more severe than the actual action.So this kind of person is very wronged. Before stealing the chicken, the rice is thrown out in large quantities.

Once the human heart is controlled by greed, there will be no rest and quiet time.The more you don't have it, the more you want to get it, and when you get it, you feel that it is nothing more than that, so new greed arises, which is endless.There is a folk song that says it well: I work all day long only for hunger, so that I can be full and think of clothes. Put on silk and satin, look up and read the house down. Living in tall buildings and mansions, there is a lack of beautiful wives around. Married a beautiful wife and a beautiful concubine, hated having no land and no roots. There are tens of thousands of hectares of fertile land, and there is no official position for fear of being bullied.

The fifth and sixth ranks are too small, and the second and third ranks are too low... But looking at this person's psychology, there is "thinking", "hate", "fear", and "dislike". When did you ever have happiness? Furthermore, a person dominated by greed has a fragile heart. Once he finds that there may be setbacks, he is like a frightened bird, and his heart will always be tormented.Just like Grandet, who accumulated a room full of gold, and when he was about to die, he still shouted: "Wrap up tight, don't let anyone steal my gold!" So we say "the selfless are fearless" and "the one who has no desires is strong".On the contrary, if you have a lot of selfish desires, you must be in constant anxiety, and your heart is so fragile that you can't stand any turmoil.

The worst form of greed manifests itself as a habit.At this time, it is not that we need something, but that we have a habit of possessing something.For example, scholars love to buy books. When they see a book that suits them, they feel that they should read it, or they want to buy it after hearing someone say that the book is good. After buying it, they usually don’t have time to read it. At most, kill a "book head" (a book, just read the first few pages and put it on the shelf, which is commonly called "killing the book head").Next time there are other books, I have to buy them, even though the books will still end up in the same way after I buy them.When I buy a book home, I don’t read it myself, and I am reluctant to give it to others. I have to keep it for myself, and I always feel that I will read it sooner or later.In fact, buying books has become a hobby, just like any other hobby, it is all caused by greed.Hobbies are also diseases.Therefore, when we have any preferences or hobbies, we must be vigilant: Is greed at work? Only when you are content and happy can you have peace of mind and peace of mind, and know how to enjoy life and live in the present.This is understanding, the true great wisdom.Children have a natural nature, and they understand the truth of happiness best.Otherwise, people's body and mind are like mules and horses pulling carts, driven forever by the whip of greed, so there is only pain.May I ask, how long can I run exhausted in this kind of pain? "Huangdi Neijing" talks about "happy and sad", is it a mistake to be happy?In fact, there is a lot of mystery in this sentence.Why do we usually like it and why don’t we like it? What does it depend on?It depends on whether our desires are satisfied or not.Those who buy stocks are happy when they see that the stock they hold rises, but not when it falls; If the desire is not satisfied, there is no joy.Therefore, once a greedy person wins a million-dollar lottery, he will have a heart attack with joy; once a lustful person has a chance to do bad things, once he is happy, his heart will hurt from then on.This is called happiness is sad.The joy here is actually the joy based on desire, not the joy that is in line with the way of heaven.The human heart corresponds to the way of heaven, and joy in line with the way of heaven is the original state of our soul. What is joy in line with the way of heaven?In adversity, in sickness, can we rejoice?Can we be happy when others gain various benefits?Can we rejoice in very ordinary times?If not, it means that we still have greed in our hearts. Greed has caused obstacles and troubles, making us unhappy.How can I be happy?This requires rationality, which is the prerequisite for getting rid of desires.In the face of adversity, if you can understand what Mencius said, "Heaven will send a great mission to the people, you must first suffer from it, work your muscles and bones, and starve your body...", wouldn't you be happy?If we can understand that all diseases are heart diseases, they are all caused by our nature, the disease is a warning from the body, and the process of the disease is the process of our body's righteousness and resistance to evil, which can eliminate our "karma". Shaping a new and more perfect self and understanding these truths, can you not be happy?I'm afraid the disease will be cured just like that.When others gain benefits, we are often jealous. That feeling is very uncomfortable, and we can't get anything from it. Why not be happy with them and make everyone happy?It is only because our hearts are blocked by greed that we do not even understand such a simple truth. In our daily life, there are seldom times of great joy and great sorrow, but more of ordinary times.In ordinary days, if our joy does not depend on material desires, then it will always exist, adding brilliant colors to our ordinary days, why not do it? Therefore, the joy that is in line with the way of heaven is the real, long-lasting, and unchanging joy.It is the true state of our hearts, and no matter how happy you are at this time, you will not be sad.Joy based on material desires is short-lived and perishable. "Happiness is sad" is actually hurt by desire. I am often asked these questions: "Why do some people live to be 70 or 80 years old with constant minor illnesses; while some people never get sick, but get terminally ill as soon as they get sick?" "Why don't I get sick when I am most troubled, but become sick after the troubles are over?" "Why don't I get sick when I go to work, but get sick when I'm at home on vacation? Am I really a hard worker?" In fact, these questions can be put together to answer. Illness comes from the heart, which has two meanings: one is that the bad emotions in the heart produce toxins to cause illness, which is a negative aspect; but there is also a positive aspect. Some diseases are like wars, which are the manifestation of the body's resistance to evil spirits.In the face of evil, whether the human body resists or surrenders without a fight depends on the heart.The heart is the official of the monarch of the human body, and the monarch must be a wise monarch. A faint monarch often does not know what is going on in the country, and does not know how corrupt it is below.Only when the heart is clear can the disease be suppressed, countermeasures be taken, and the body's disease-resistant function be mobilized.Some people get sick frequently, and they belong to the state of no major illnesses and constant minor illnesses. Everyone thinks that he is in poor health. In fact, he lives longer than anyone else. When he gets old, he is still the same Son.This shows that being sick is not a bad thing for him.His heart is like a bright mirror, he is awake, and when he encounters evil, he immediately resists. Those small problems are actually the body's performance of resisting evil.For example, if he ate something harmful, he would vomit. Wouldn’t it be gone after vomiting?When he catches a cold, he will have a fever. This is because the body's righteousness is fighting against evil on the surface of the body, and it is in full swing!When he coughs and spits thick sputum, it means that his lung system is secreting more mucus than before, cleaning itself, and it will be clean again after cleaning.If he is in pain, it is also sending out an alarm, attracting people's attention, and stimulating people's qi and blood to concentrate on the pain. If the mind is unclear, dull and numb, no matter what evil spirits come in, it will not be able to feel it, let alone take any measures to resist the evil spirits.Unknowingly, the evil energy accumulated more and more, and the damage changed from quantitative to qualitative. Finally, a serious illness broke out and everything was irreversible.We often see people who have never been sick, but who are diagnosed with a certain cancer at an advanced stage. This is because the owner of the heart is unknown.It is precisely because of this that when people have a lot of troubles or are busy with work, their minds are busy dealing with troubles or work, and they ignore the work of resisting external evils. After the troubles, the mind rests and realizes the invasion of evil spirits. , Hurry up to resist, so the human body has a disease reaction.This is not a bad thing, it shows that our monarch's officials are quite wise.I am afraid that it will be unaware of the disease at any time. Yanghuo character can make people's heart like a mirror, and the body becomes sensitive accordingly.I once asked a very well-trained mage: "I heard that practitioners often have supernatural powers, can predict the future, and can perceive places that others cannot perceive. Is it true?" He said: "It is true. The human heart is like a bright mirror, with less dust and dirt, it will naturally be able to see many things." How can we be like a mirror?In a word, if the heart does not seek, it will become clear.The heart is inherently peaceful and harmonious, and has no greed for the outside world.Only when it is controlled by the desire of the body, will it consider going to the outside world for something to satisfy its greed. The heart seeks outside and moves with things, which is the easiest to get tired.Your yang-fire personality will become less and less, your yin-fire personality will become more and more, and your heart will be deceived more and more.