Chapter 36 Section 4 The FBI tells you how to let the praise flow naturally

FBI experts believe that praise should be done in a relaxed and happy manner. Since it is a compliment to others, it should bring others a pleasant feeling.If your praise is too serious, it is easy to give people a "prudish" feeling.Praise that is too serious often does not feel like a compliment, but rather like a work report.Therefore, natural compliments are the most pleasant and easier to accept. LeBron's academic performance at the FBI training school has always been excellent, and his grades are among the best in his class in every exam.Therefore, whenever the exam is over, the students will sincerely congratulate him.

"Hey, you are number one again, what should I do?" A classmate said, patting LeBron on the shoulder. "Let's go, let's go to the movies together tonight. I'll treat you. Anyway, it's useless for me to catch up with you, so I will use some means to drag you down." Another classmate laughed and tugged at LeBron's sleeve. "Hey, I can't live through this day. There is thunder, wind and rain. This should be our turn. Why are you the first again?" Another classmate continued. The students were actually praising LeBron for his hard work, but they didn't use a serious word of praise.However, isn't the effect of such a compliment much better than "Congratulations on getting the first place again"?Everyone's words are "not rude", but the blessings are sincere, so LeBron has said more than once that he will help everyone in their studies so that the whole class can go hand in hand.

It can be seen that when complimenting others, a natural attitude is never an appropriate expression.Even if it is laughing and scolding, as long as it is used properly, it can also receive good praise effects. No matter what you want to express, a natural attitude is the most appropriate way of expression. Laughing and cursing, as long as you use it in the right place, you can also receive good compliments.