Chapter 6 2.Controlling one's emotions is the starting point of controlling one's own destiny

Although Zhuge Liang and Socrates are very far away from today's society where psychological problems frequently occur, their existence shows that if a person has a strong mind, what kind of survival height will he reach in terms of psychological and rational ability!The former one can make no one be able to defeat you, and the latter one can let you understand people's hearts and see through everything! Of course, we will not command thousands of troops like Zhuge Liang, nor will we spend our entire lives philosophizing like Socrates.In real life, to what extent is it considered psychologically strong?I try to give some indicators below.

(1) Do not feel inferior. (2) Be able to see through other people's performances, as well as some traps. (3) Be able to control one's emotions, respond calmly, not be manipulated by the environment and others, and be able to make quick judgments. (4) In the face of a big blow, he can recover his sanity in a short time, so he has never been knocked down by anything. (5) In the most difficult days, always stick to your inner beliefs and never waver. (6) Never worry about gains and losses. (7) Be able to sort out and analyze rationally, and objectively look at things that have a stake in you.

(8) Have an accurate understanding of what you are suitable for, what potential you have, and what kind of person you are. (9) No surprises. As long as the above nine indicators are met, I believe that you are no longer troubled by psychological fragility.In this sinister world, you already have enough psychological advantages and rational thinking ability to deal with various challenges!