Chapter 5 Chapter 4 Psychological Index

If speaking harshly helps us see the truth, then I do not refuse to do so. After, as well as the previous narration, a question arises: to say that a person is strong in heart, to say that he is a psychological animal, to say that he is playing psychological protection, is there any connection between the three? The answer is: yes.I would like to say that the connection between them is somewhat similar to the relationship between cow ×, stupid ×, pretending ×. The general situation is: a. The stronger a person's heart is, the less he needs to live by playing psychological protection games, and his psychological animal index will be lower-just as the more powerful he is, the less he needs to pretend to be, and the level of being far from being stupid is also Farther like that.

b. If a person is a psychological animal, then he likes to play psychological protection too much, and the index of inner strength is also low—just as if he is a stupid ×, then he must like to pretend to be ×, and it is difficult × same. c. If a person is controlled by his own psychological protection, then his psychological animal index will be higher, while his inner strength index will be lower - just like if he likes to pretend to be an X, he can easily become a stupid X. A person with a strong heart does not need to play psychological protection games, and his psychological animal index is low; a psychological animal likes playing psychological protection too much, and his inner strength index is low; a person controlled by psychological protection has a high psychological animal index, and his heart is strong Index is low.

There are special cases, please note: d. If a person can hold on to the strong power of psychological protection and prevent it from breaking out in the psychological structure, that is, to hold on to one's character and emotion and transform it into the most far-reaching goal to achieve one's own goals driving force, then he has a strong heart, and his psychological animal index and psychological protection index are also low—just like his pretense, it is not for the purpose of obtaining the feeling of being a bull x psychologically, but for the needs of games and politeness. Pretend × becomes awesome × the same.

That is to hold on to one's inner strength, if the mind is to hold it in the mind, without disposition, emotion, turn it into a powerful power animal index, and mentalize it into the surge to achieve one's own goals, let it explode the most profound The driving force protection index is also lower. The level of inner strength index, psychological protection index, and psychological animal index, taken together, can measure a person's spiritual level and reveal what kind of person he is. In order to examine the relationship between inner strength, psychological protection, and psychological animals, as well as their respective indexes, I invited five friends who are familiar with the Chinese people to cooperate with me.Next, let's first invite Mr. Ah Q, the founder of the famous "Spiritual Victory Dafa" to appear.

Character: Ah Q Occupation: Lumpen proletariat, revolutionary "funny" scholar Deeds: A series of "spiritual victories" Psychoanimal Index: Psychological protection index: Mental Strength Index: Features: Psychological protection can be transformed into words and actions at any time We all know that economics assumes man as a "rational economic man".So, who is Brother Ah Q? It is clear that he is a typical "psychological man" no matter from the point of view of literature or psychology: he is manipulated by a series of psychological laws.Of course, Brother Q is also a kind of spirit, a symbol, and a bunch of psychological structures.

Let's evoke the memory of middle school and examine how Brother Q's "Spiritual Victory Dafa" is played.I want to say that the "spiritual victory method" is actually psychological protection, and it is the lowest and most rubbish method of psychological protection. Restore a scene where Ah Q made an appointment with others. On a certain day in a certain month, someone made fun of Ah Q's pimple scar on Weibo, pretending to be surprised and saying, "Wow, his head is lit up. Haha." Brother Ah Q's psychological protection was activated, and he became angry.When a person is angry, he is psychologically aggressive and defensive towards others.But the idlers were clearly prepared, not deterred, and continued to attack him.

Anger does not seem to be enough to gain a psychological advantage, so use contempt. A person who experiences contempt will experience his condescension to another person in spirit and value, and this spiritual and value Advantages, of course, will be transformed into psychological advantages.So, Brother Q quickly said in his heart the classic saying "You are worthy too". But the idlers were still provoking, so the two sides made an appointment to fight in the park. Afterwards, the idler announced the result on Weibo: "Grabbing one of the yellow braids, I bumped my head against the wall four or five times." The idler also said: "I escaped completely, unscathed, and did not give any damage to the old and young of Weichuang. shame."

Has our QQ been defeated psychologically? NO. As a revolutionary "funny", he also has the most powerful psychological protection, which is to let himself quickly enter a delusional state, psychologically set his relationship with others arbitrarily, and let himself live in such a self-world: "Haha , I was finally beaten by my son... This world is really morally bankrupt..." So, on Weibo, he also declared victory with satisfaction. I once saw a Chinese scholar in the United States, named Lin Yusheng, say that Brother QQ is "an animal that lives and behaves almost entirely on instinct."I smile knowingly, but I have to correct it. The accurate term is "psychological animals that live and behave entirely by psychological protection."

Ah Q is a person whose psychological protection will turn into words and actions at any time. But some people don't, their psychological protection has become an unsatisfied desire, and it is very strong, and the sense of accomplishment in life depends on it.For example, the famous performance artist Comrade Ah Xi, as for the authenticity of Ah Xi, I can paraphrase a sentence from TVB: This character is purely fictitious, and any similarity is purely coincidental. Character: Ash Occupation: actor Deeds: Participated in many pornographic incidents Psychoanimal Index: Psychological protection index:

Mental Strength Index: Traits: Controlled by character and desire Assume Axi is a public figure involved in several incidents of leaking pornographic photos.So who exactly is he, and what is the strong psychological motivation that makes him take such a good bite? My answer is: According to Mr. Freud's theory, he is an "anal person", that is, the "possessive personality" in the personality theory I talked about in the book. Let me transcribe Fu Shi's theory to see what is an "anal man".Let me start by saying that "anal person" is not a curse word, it is a serious psychoanalytic term.

Teacher Fu divides the development of human sexual psychology into 5 stages: oral stage, anal stage, libido stage, latent stage, and reproductive stage.I won't copy the others, just look at "anal period". The anal period is between 1.5 and 3 years old, and the libido (Ms. Fu’s technical term, which means sexual energy, seems a bit mystical, but don’t worry about it here) is connected with the anus during this period.Little ones get a kick out of experiencing the retention and excretion of stool. However, the stool is dirty, and the parents want to tell him to excrete it quickly, that is, to make him feel uncomfortable.Therefore, the child has a kind of resistance. When you want to call me, I will not come out, but when you don’t call me, I will come out, hum! what does this mean?Teacher Fu said that if a child likes to do this, it is likely that his sexual and psychological development is fixed at this stage.That is to say, although he has grown up, he has not grown up psychologically, and is still a kid in the "anal stage", that is, an "anal person". Well, let's not dwell on the theory of "anal period", but we can use the concept of "anal person" to describe the characteristics of possessive personality, because personality is what a person develops when he is a child. The characteristics of "anal man" are: he likes to control, likes to possess, constantly wants to possess, and his desires are hard to fill-possessing all kinds of things that are high in the ranking of social values, such as money, beauty, power, is his psychological solution needs, ways of life problems. "Anal Man" is what it looks like.So, how did Axi become an "anal man"? He may have had the following life experiences, which have had corresponding psychological consequences. a. When I was young, the whole family kept moving, and even moved more than ten times in ten years. The psychological consequence is: no certainty. b. When he was a teenager, he knew the truth about the family: his parents had divorced long ago, and he had been kept in the dark with good intentions. Psychological consequences: feeling cheated and tricked.A sense of revenge against parents is born and projected onto other men and women. c. In adolescence, I fell in love with a girl and was betrayed. Psychological Consequences: No more real affection for the world, especially for women.He wants revenge, and the way of revenge is to keep possessing and attacking (including abandonment after possession, etc.). Well, it's time to step into Ashi's inner world.Let's ask the first question: Why is Ah Xi so keen on chasing porn, and indeed he has a lot of sex? The answer is: as an "anal person", he did not control his personality and desires, and used his motivation for psychological protection in other areas, such as studying Comrade Jobs, which we will talk about later.When psychological protection controls him, if he does not take possession of young and beautiful women, his psychological problems and the meaning of life will not be resolved. Moreover, hunting and possessing will continue, because there will never be satisfaction. The second question: why is he so interested in doing "body art photography"? For an "anal person", there is no "love" in this world, only "making love".However, "making love" is extremely short-lived, fleeting, and he does possess it, but slips away after a while.Therefore, just "making love", no matter how many people have sex with him, it is impossible to satisfy his possessive desire psychologically! So what to do?Engage in "photography".Because as soon as he engages in "photography", he has fixed his possession and grasped it firmly. Every time he flips through the photos, he can experience the pleasure of possession.And the more tricks you play, the stronger the pleasure. But just like this, still not enjoyable! Because although you have fixed the possession through photography technology, you can look at it for a lifetime, but it is private and limited to narcissism-for a high-profile "anal person" who treats himself by picking up girls, narcissism How could it be possible to satisfy him? Therefore, according to the character of a person’s possession, there is this possibility: after artistic photography, if it is upgraded from self-appreciation to letting everyone witness and witness one’s own possession, then the great act of possession becomes A public event, transcending privateness and entering history.This kind of possession has a meaning that will never disappear! Axi's "brilliant" image tells us a truth: if some people are used to thinking and living with their lower body, then they must have possessive anxiety and easily become a psychological animal. A man who tends to have unhealthy thoughts about women is often not really powerful, but psychologically hungry! Fang Zhouzi is not of this class.He thinks with his upper body.Next, Mr. Fang is invited to play! Character: Fang Zhouzi Occupation: Anti-counterfeiting fighter, popular science writer Deeds: Counterfeiting Psychoanimal index: ★★★ Psychological protection index: ★★★ Psychological strength index: ★★★ Features: Play with the world with logic "Fang Zhouzi", a well-known Chinese anti-counterfeit brand, has offended too many people, and, as I will analyze below, with his character, he is destined to continue to offend. It is worth noting that Fang Zhouzi rarely fails in his crackdown on counterfeiting, and the list of people who have been ruined by him can be listed in a long list-and even if he does not in fact prove that a person is a fake (depending on various reasons) ), logically, it also has certain persuasiveness. In addition, he seems to be extremely strong psychologically. Even if he encounters countless abuses, including being "hammered", his emotions are hardly aroused. Psychoanalysis emphasizes objectivity and neutrality, so that we can see the truth.Therefore, no matter in the past war between Fang and Han or in other events, I don't make any judgments about who is right, but I am very interested in Fang Zhouzi's intellectual structure and psychological structure.What kind of person is this? Look at the character first. If you have read it and understood that we start with psychological protection to conduct personality analysis, you should be able to judge that Fang Zhouzi has an inferiority complex personality—yes, he is the kind of person who has certain ideals and ideas in the inferiority complex! I really want to say that it would be foolish for the world to ignore this kind of people.If he wants to be bad, he may be like Hitler, dragging the world to play with him; if he wants to be profound, he will completely reveal the truth of the world to you like Mr. Kant. The German poet Heine was very aware of this human energy.He had warned the Germans not to underestimate the contemplative philosophers whose "thundering force" could destroy a world.The French Revolution seems to have nothing to do with Mr. Kang, but it is just a continuation of the "brainstorming" of Mr. Kang. Without Mr. Kang's idea of ​​overthrowing the old world first, the revolutionaries want to cut off the head of the king, not only Dreaming, and even dreaming! Of course Fang Zhouzi was not that exaggerated.However, please note that Hitler did not become an artist before he became a racist movement madman; Fang Zhouzi is also somewhat similar psychologically (I am by no means implying that Fang Zhouzi and Hitler are somewhat similar in the sense of "what kind of person are they?" I refer to the psychological mechanism, if I say that your psychological mechanism is a bit like Li Ka-shing in a certain matter, and it does not imply that you will become Li Ka-shing in the future), you can’t be a scientist, so you choose to crack down on counterfeiting.For him, no matter how much fame and fortune are considered in cracking down on counterfeiting, it must be driven by personality and the result of psychologically overcoming inferiority complex to the world. That is to say, cracking down on counterfeiting is a way of demonstrating the value of one's own existence for Fang Zhouzi.How could he get it back?And when cracking down on counterfeiting, he imagined that he was on the side of science and truth. With the help of God, how could he not be mentally strong? More than that.Let's take a look at his intellectual structure and psychological structure. Fang Zhouzi is the most well-known, and it is also a characteristic of psychological strength, which is to intercept the information from the outside world in the intellectual structure for interpretation, and prevent them from stimulating the psychological structure and triggering emotions, so he hardly exposes the inner information.That said, you'd have a hard time reducing him to a psycho animal. He was able to do this because he armed his mind with logic.I want to say this with regret: if a person is accustomed to using Wenqing's language and way of thinking, he will be extremely uncomfortable when meeting someone like Fang Zhouzi, because the language and way of thinking of "Wenqing" are the most The characteristic is that they don’t pay attention to logical reasoning, and their language carries too many emotions, emotions, value preferences, moral accusations, etc. They seem to have an advantage in front of logic because they have strong psychological energy and aggressiveness, but in fact It's a paper tiger, and it can't hurt the opponent's intellectual and psychological structure at all. Because it is very simple, you are using your psychological structure to play with other people's intellectual structure. If the other party's mentality is strong, you are just waiting to be slaughtered. "Wenqing" language and thinking are essentially an exposure of one's inner anxiety, motives, desires, etc., and when attacking, they just overwhelm others with arrogance, do not know how to defend at all, and expose their own loopholes Don't know yet.As long as the opponent calmly grasps your loopholes with his intellectual structure, he can defeat you with one move, and even, if he is evil, he can also manipulate your psychology and drive you crazy. So, what should a "wenqing" do if he meets a difficult "science and engineering man" unfortunately?Two ways: use logic to play with him or not to play with him.What is the greatest fear of a logical mind?It is his reasoning, which has not received feedback and verification of information, and in this way, this reasoning is also a hypothesis! A female writer named Jiang Fangzhou, I don't know if she is smart, or there is an expert behind her, but she seems to understand this. I want to say that because Fang Zhouzi is an idealist and idealist with an inferiority complex, it is completely useless for you to attack him. Psychologically, he is no longer himself, but a part of science and truth. It is impossible for him to become a psychological animal and let the psychological protection take effect. However, he is not without weaknesses. His weaknesses are his wife and daughter.They constitute his ego, which is his own, has nothing to do with science and truth, and is therefore weak.Therefore, when others attacked his wife and daughter, his intellectual structure fell relatively. What kind of evaluation should be made morally for doing so?I believe everyone will have their own judgment. I have said many times that people with low self-esteem are not equal to those with psychological tendencies, emotional and emotional low self-esteem.The latter is easy to become a psychological animal. As long as someone despises him, psychological protection will be activated immediately, but the former is not necessarily. Fang Zhouzi may only be able to explain himself.But one person will prove that people with low self-esteem may also be very good, and they can grow from a "diaosi" to tall, handsome and rich.He is the "Godfather of Apple", the famous international bourgeois fighter Jobs. Character: Steve?Jobs Occupation: Inventor, entrepreneur Deeds: Invention of iPad, iPhone Psychoanimal index: ★★ Psychological protection index: ★★ Psychological strength index: ★★★★ Features: Hold the psychological protection of character and turn it into a powerful driving force to change yourself and the world I really want to say that Boss Joe is a good example for people with low self-esteem. If a person's inferiority complex is stimulated and he wants to change himself and overcome it, then he will have the following three reaction modes to the world. a. A "diaosi" was despised by the goddess, and then he worked hard to make money, and finally, driving a luxury car, I was going to show off in front of the goddess. Needless to say, this mode of reacting to the world is the lowest gear.What he changed was only a certain aspect of himself, he just wanted to climb up in the ranking of social value, and he had a revenge mentality. b. A person is despised by others since he was a child, so he studies hard or earns money, and after many years, he finally becomes a successful person. This mode of responding to the world is adopted by most people.He changed himself not only for a certain person or a group of people, but also for himself.However, this model only means that a person wants to modify the relationship between himself and "society", and does not involve the relationship between his existence and the world. c. A person has a sense of inferiority and powerlessness towards the world due to various reasons since childhood, so he pursues changes to the world. This is how people with high-promise inferiority complexes play.His overcoming of inferiority complex and powerlessness, in the words of classic psychoanalysis, has been "sublimated", and he is no longer entangled in the situations that stimulated and hurt him in the past.He put himself at the height of existence, pursuing self-transcendence and changing the world.As long as he does this, his existence, value, and power will be highlighted in front of the world, because he is no longer a person who is powerless in front of the world, but a person who can lead and control the world . Jobs was like that. Take a look at his experience: a. Abandoned by mother at birth; b. With a withdrawn personality and no friends, he is often regarded as a "monster" by others; c. During class reunions, he always sits alone in the corner silently; d. Not only does he have hair level with his shoulders, but he is often barefoot and wears shabby, shabby clothes in order to show that he is different from everyone else from his appearance; e. Living on the floor in the dormitory of other students, earning their living by picking up 5-cent Coke bottles; f. Walk across the city every Sunday to the temple to eat alms food, only then can he have a full meal. Do you see it?Since childhood, Brother Booth has been a character who has been abandoned and belittled by the world.This feeling of not being paid attention to and valued makes a person experience a deep sense of inferiority and powerlessness, and his inferiority-type character has been formed from the day he was abandoned. Based on psychological protection, he played a lot of pranks and broke jars to highlight his personality.At that stage, the psychological protection produced by his personality was going on at any time, and he couldn't hold it at all, let alone sublimate, he was almost a kind of psychological animal. But later, he came to a great understanding, controlled the onset of psychological protection in the psychological structure, and turned it into the most powerful driving force to change himself and the world. Why is Jobs always so good and standing in front of the world trend?Here is the secret: the past situation that made him feel inferior and powerless has penetrated into the psychological structure and followed him into the "now".Therefore, if he does not use "acceptance of fate" to protect himself, he must change himself, change the "now", so as to stand out in this world and feel that he can control the world.Even if he has achieved a little success, he can't stop, because once he stops, "now" makes him feel inferior and powerless again.Therefore, a successful person with low self-esteem has always been a person who can't get along with "now". Qiao Gangzhu once said a word, which leaked the secret.He said: "All my efforts were just to make my mother understand that it was a mistake to abandon me." I want to say that this sentence is not entirely true.The mother is only a representative of "the world".Psychologically, everything he did was to tell the world that belittling him and ignoring his existence would be a mistake! If a person's existence reaches the height of philosophy, then it is difficult for him to be reduced to a psychological animal whose psychological strength is enough to shock people.In this respect, Socrates represents the highest realm. Character: Socrates Occupation: Philosopher Deeds: Discussing "justice" with others, encountered provocations, and finally succeeded in making others admit ignorance Psychoanimal index: ★ Psychological protection index: ★ Psychological strength index: ★★★★★ Features: Armed with rationality I have already hinted in the book: In this world, the reason why reason has invincible power is because it constitutes a real persuasion to people. Socrates' psychological strength comes from this. Here I want to continue to reveal that when a person's rational ability is very good, if you want to turn him into a psychological animal and stimulate his psychological protection, it is almost delusional. Teacher Su's life was a life of debating with people on the street, a life of bringing philosophy to the world, and a life of teaching people how to distinguish what is happiness and what is virtue. In the process, of course he offended some people, and some people were unhappy with him.One of the scenes that impressed me most was his debate with a man named Thrasymachus. Let's reproduce the situation. Mr. Su was discussing "what is justice" with others. When others said what justice was several times, Mr. Su debunked that it was not justice one by one.Thrasymachus stood aside, dissatisfied with Teacher Su for a long time, and seemed to have discovered the fate of Teacher Su. He wanted to intervene several times to educate our Teacher Su severely, but was stopped by the people next to him. down.Until Socrates paused for a moment, he couldn't bear it anymore, he rushed up with a stride and shouted loudly: Socrates, if you really want to know what justice is, you shouldn't just ask questions and try to refute other people's answers.You are brilliant!You know it's easier to ask questions than to answer them.You should answer for yourself what you think justice is.Don't talk nonsense about justice being a duty, or an expedient, or benefits, rewards, profits, and the like.You have to say straight up what exactly you are referring to.I don't want to hear those insinuating nonsense! Thrasymachus is an interesting person, but he is actually not an easy person to deal with. If he was born now, he must be a well-known public figure, a big V on Weibo.Here, I will first conduct a simple language-psychoanalysis on him (the specific language-psychoanalysis is in the third part of this book).Judging from his language characteristics, he is an impatient person (if you want to know what the psychology of an impatient person is, you can skip to Chapter 8), and from the perspective of personality, he is a possessive + aggressive person.Such a person is a bit smart, a bit egocentric, and a realist. Who he is and what he wants to do, of course Socrates can tell at a glance.However, Mr. Su wanted to pretend to be frightened by him in order to lure the enemy deeper.Sure enough, the color brother made a fierce move.Next, I will extract some excerpts from Plato, a disciple of Teacher Su, to show their arguments. Hue: If it is about justice, I will give you a different and more brilliant answer. You say how you should be punished! SOCRATES: Is there anything else but to accept the punishment of ignorance?And to be punished by ignorance is obviously that I learn from wise men. Hue: You are very naive, you should learn.But money still has to be punished. Su: If you have money, of course you will be fined. Color: Well, listen!I say that justice is nothing but the interests of the strong. —Why don't you clap your hands?Of course you don't want to! Su: I have to understand what you mean before I can express my opinion.But right now I still don't understand.You said that benefiting the strong is justice.O Thrasymachus!What the hell do you mean by that?That’s not what it means: because Prydamas is an athlete and stronger than all of us, eating beef every now and then is good for his body, so it’s just; while it’s good for those of us who are weak to eat beef, but Unjust? Color: You are so bad!Socrates, you have deliberately muddied the waters and done the most damage to this debate.Sue: Absolutely not.My sir, I just beg you to explain what you mean. Well, since their arguments are too long, I can't transcribe them one by one, and there is no need to transcribe them again, because when the two are playing the game, their respective intellectual and psychological structures are already clear, and the winner or loser has already been determined. .When a master takes one step, he has already foreseen the opponent's several steps, even a dozen steps behind him, but the opponent doesn't know anything about it. He doesn't see this until he is defeated, but it is too late. What Socrates used was actually two tricks. One trick is to pretend to be stupid and ignorant, which is a relatively modest "irony" in philosophical terms.This trick is designed to deal with people who feel good about themselves.When the other party seems to have the truth in his hands and wants to prove that he is an idiot, he admits that he doesn't understand, and then asks the other party to explain a little more clearly. In this way, the other party's attack fails, and he drags him to answer each question. It passed into his hands.It's like a aggressive bastard attacking in front of a Tai Chi expert. The latter can gently take over the former's attack, and with a push, the opponent can be knocked down. Note that when Mr. Su plays irony, he assumes that besides the person arguing with him, there are audiences beside him. In fact, he pretends to be ignorant to induce the opponent to expose, but the audience next to him know that he is pretending. And that opponent was exposed. Another trick is to clarify.I will talk about it later when I talk about the method of psychoanalysis.Here is a reminder: Although the opponent has put forward a certain point of view, it is unclear what this point of view means and whether there are reasons to support it. It is probably just "what do I think".Once this method is used, the process of arguing turns into a process of clarifying whether the views are valid, and the result is of course that the opponent finds that in fact, he just takes his own views for granted and does not understand them at all. In fact, Thrasymachus must be very familiar with the two tricks used by Socrates because they are often used. Moreover, when Mr. Su was discussing with others, he had been watching for a while, so he should know how to deal with Su Grates.However, he is too impatient, arrogant, controlled by the desire to educate such a odious person as Socrates, and thus becomes a psycho animal. In the end, Thrasymachus lost no temper.His arrogance and arrogance have disappeared during the process of clarification. This debate is very famous in the history of philosophy.Socrates' performance is perfect.Wolfe, an American philosopher, once commented on this: "Socrates' composure contrasts with Thrasymachus' impatience. This is exactly the lesson Plato wants to tell future generations, because both he and Socrates believe : The truly wise have a composure that the ignorant lack." In our terms, you can hardly reduce a truly intelligent person to a psycho-animal, and the ignorant must often be. I have seen girls who have been wounded in their hearts ask: Why do men seem to be stronger than women? This question gave me the urge to expose a man's background. Men are not made of any special material.He looks stronger because he has one difference from women: he does not use his heart to contact the world, but uses his mind, values ​​and other things to contact the world.That is to say, he has a "protective skin" in his heart.If you are hit, the first thing you get hit is not the heart, but the "skin". That is to say, a man looks stronger, not because he is a man, but because of his mental and psychological connection with the world, which makes him have stronger psychological defenses! If you don't believe me, you didn't just hit his "skin", but directly hit his heart. See if he is still strong?Think about what those men who lovelorn look like! Compared with men, women often feel the world with their hearts.Once she "invests" in a certain relationship and situation, it is often the entire "body-mind" investment. Once she is hit, the psychological consequences are more serious.Therefore, she pursues a "sense of security" more than men, and grabs something that can give herself psychological protection, even if it is just a feeling. Unfortunately, many seasoned or skilled girls can take advantage of this! They are too clear: as long as they create a "sense of security" in front of women (nothing more than money, power, responsibility, strength, etc.), they will immediately become psychological animals and find a reason for themselves to "invest" in.Because, once there is a "sense of security", women will convince themselves without the need for these stinky men to talk! Classmate Plato borrowed the mouth of teacher Socrates and shouted "The world is living in dreams, only philosophers struggle to wake up."We also live in a state of mental animals, the difference is that we can also wake up if we see the rationale for why we are the way we are. Imitate Mr. Heidegger's classic sentence pattern: psychology is our home, and the world is the home of psychology.