Chapter 203 Be careful with villains

Mr. Yu Qiuyu once mentioned the problem of "little people" in an essay. He said that when heroes are dying, they feel that the person they hate the most is not their own strong enemy. They often squeeze out two words from their teeth: little people.It seems that the "little people" are not small, and their energy is great!They can be traitors and traitors, and they may pretend to be pitiful in order to win your help. When you lose the value of using them, they may bite you back.The scary thing about leeches is that they suck human blood in a casual and intimate way, and villains are more terrifying than leeches.

The so-called "open guns are easy to hide, but hidden arrows are hard to guard against."On the stage of life, there are such villains all the time. They rack their brains to find loopholes in various environments, and then see maggots. When the maggots grow up and climb onto the table, the feeling is disgusting. Incredible.However, they did it very cleverly. Before the critical moment, they could not let you know about the existence of maggots. When the critical moment came, even if you knew it, it was already too late. This is their most brilliant point. There are "little people" everywhere. This kind of people is often the culprit that causes group disturbances. Their rumors, sowing dissension, and stirring up troubles are annoying, so people not only keep a respectful distance from such people, but even embrace them. Hateful attitude.

Hatred of villains is certainly enough to show your justice, but in the social jungle, this is not the way to protect yourself, because your "justice" openly exposes the shamelessness and injustice of these villains.However, no matter how bad people are, they don't want to be criticized as "bad", they always wear a cloak of hypocrisy.This is human nature, but the "justice" you deliberately highlighted reveals the true nature of the villain.Isn't this intentional to feel sorry for them?A gentleman is not afraid of rumors or attacks, because he has a clear conscience; a villain sees that you have exposed his true colors, and in order to protect himself and cover up, he will fight back against you.Maybe you are not afraid of their counterattack, maybe they can't do anything to you, but you have to know that the reason why villains are villains is because they are always in the dark, always use illegal means, and they will not give up easily.Don't say you are not afraid of their attacks, just look at the bloodstains of history, how many loyal ministers can resist the frame of treacherous ministers?

Therefore, before you respect the villain, be a gentleman with a heart, so that the tricks of the villain cannot escape your eyes. Only in this way can you prevent problems before they happen. When Qianlong was emperor, He Zhongtang next to him was a complete villain.In order to satisfy his own selfish desires, He Shen pretended to be himself, and at the same time framed the loyal ministers around Qianlong by all means.But have you noticed?Although He Shen can do whatever he wants inside and outside the court, all his conspiracies and tricks cannot escape the eyes of the two of them.One of these two people is Ji Xiaolan and the other is Liu Yong.

He Shen's heart is not too small.When Jiaqing succeeded to the throne, he had a foreboding that his status would be shaken, so he played a cautious game: he quietly went to Qianlong to whisper, saying that Jiaqing was young and hard to do, and he was afraid that it would be difficult to hold the jade seal, which caused Emperor Qianlong to issue the "Legendary Seal". The imperial decree that the position is not passed on to the seal".Although this kind of villain temporarily escaped the eyes of the Holy Majesty and the ministers at that time, he was still seen through by Ji Xiaolan and Liu Yong.why?Because He Zhongtang likes to play with his mind, Lao Ji and Lao Liu have more minds than He Zhongtang.

A foolish gentleman and a wise gentleman are both called gentlemen, but their destinies are very different.A stupid gentleman often lives under the shadow of a villain because he doesn't know the heart of a villain, or becomes a plaything in the eyes of a villain; although a smart gentleman is tolerant and generous, he has a corresponding understanding of a villain that is beyond the imagination of a villain. So scheming, so in the eyes of a wise gentleman, a villain will never have a place to hide! In an organization, it would be best if the villain can be eliminated, or prevented from playing despicable tricks, but I am afraid it will be more difficult.Then, there is only one way to deal with the villain, and that is to keep a certain distance from the villain.There is no need to draw a clear line with them, they also need self-esteem and face, not to mention that you can't completely "eliminate" villains.Because "little people" are a phenomenon of human nature, and human nature has existed since ancient times, it is better to maintain an "ecological" balance with them.Moreover, their existence can demonstrate the value and value of you, an "honest gentleman".In addition, we must also understand that "villains" sometimes have some "justice" and will expose illegal acts mercilessly. This is a threat to those who walk on the edge of laws and regulations. "There is still some kind of existence value.

The gentleman and the villain are the two poles among all kinds of characters.In the "Proverbs Lianbi" edited by Jin Lansheng in the Qing Dynasty, when talking about how to treat a gentleman and a villain, he said: "A villain should always be far away, but he must not be seen as an enemy; It is about not being close to the villain, nor openly becoming an enemy; you can be close to the gentleman, but you can't flatter.This is more in line with the way of treating others cleanly. There is a saying: "It is better to offend ten gentlemen than to offend one villain." Hong Yingming also mentioned this issue in his book: "Don't make enemies with villains, and villains have their own enemies; don't flatter gentlemen, because gentlemen are selfless." .” Although this has the taste of “being wise and protecting one’s life”, the idea of ​​treating people differently can be used as a reference for us.The principle of not flattering a gentleman is very clear. A gentleman has principles in dealing with things. If you try to please a gentleman in a low voice, it will only cause resentment and make you bored.Why not make enemies with villains?This is because the villain is messing around and arguing with the villain is often a waste of energy.