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Chapter 87 pistachios in harmony

Friendly humor can express the sincere friendship between people, can communicate the soul, shorten the distance between people, and fill the gap between people. It is an indispensable medium for establishing a good relationship with others. .Humor can make the sad face smile; it can make the tearful smile; it can bring vitality to the lazy; it can also dispel the fatigue of the hardworking; it can add spice to the lonely; Humor can lubricate the little grievances between friends and make each other's interactions full of fun. One day, the famous poet Heine was writing at his desk.Suddenly, someone knocked on the door, and it turned out that a servant delivered a postal package.The sender was Heine's friend Mr. Meir.Heine felt a little tired from intense writing, and was very upset when someone interrupted his writing flow.He impatiently opened the mailbag, which was covered with layers of paper.He tore layer after layer, and finally came up with a small note.A few short words were written on the note: "Dear Heine, I am healthy and happy! With my best regards. Your Meir." Despite Heine's impatience, the joke was amused. He was very happy and his tiredness disappeared instantly.After adjusting his mood, he decided to play a joke on his friend.

A few days later, Mr. Meir received a package from Heine.The mail bag was so heavy that he couldn't take it home.He hired a porter to help him carry it home.After arriving home, Meir opened the puzzling package.He was surprised to find that there was a big stone inside.On the stone was a note that read: "Dear Meir! After reading your letter and knowing that you are healthy and happy, this stone of my heart has fallen. I am sending it to you in eternal memory of my love to your love." It's not just getting along with friends, it needs the lubrication of humor.Getting along in life, with the help of humor, people can also solve problems with humor and laughter.

There is a young couple who only have one TV at home. The man likes to watch football games, while the woman likes to watch TV series, so a contradiction arises.In the end, of course, the husband gave in. However, this husband is very scheming. Whenever he has the opportunity on weekdays, he will instill some sports knowledge and talk about anecdotes about football games to his wife.Over time, his wife's interests were changed by him, and she sometimes watched sports programs with him, which can be described as a husband and wife.By the time of the football World Cup held every four years, his wife's eyes had already been attracted by the wonderful game. At this time, he said to his wife in a serious manner: "Seeing how happy you are, I remembered an old saying."

"What words?" "Content and happiness!" "How do you remember this sentence?" "Satisfied and always happy, that is, after knowing football, you will always be happy!" There are so many humors available in life, as long as you pay attention to observation, you will be able to say many boring things vividly and interestingly. There was a scholar who became a groom and still kept the habit of reading until late at night, and his wife was full of resentment.One day she said to her husband: "I wish I could become a book." The husband was puzzled: "Why?" "Then you will hold me in your hands all day and all night." He joked: "That's not good, you know, every time I finish a book, I have to get a new one..." The husband's ingenious explanation not only expressed his love for books, but also expressed his love for books. Be loyal to your wife's affection.

The husband and wife were chatting together, and the husband said to his wife: "Why did God make women so beautiful but so stupid?" We are made stupid, so we will love you." The wife's clever answer not only answered the husband's question, but also returned the husband's intentional criticism, which can be said to win glory for the women in the world. When couples are in a "cold war", it is also a very smart way to resolve it with humor. "I said, you see that the cold war in the world is over, can we relax the cold war in our family?" "Look at why your face is so long! The sky is cloudy and sunny, and the moon is waxing and waning. Half a month has passed, and the moon should be full! Isn't a woman the moon?" The other party said "cloudy and sunny" after hearing this .

Not only in friendship and family relationship, humor can be used to make mutual communication harmonious, even in the face of strangers, a humor can also show the light of friendship and harmony. One day, Bernard Shaw, a famous British writer, was knocked to the ground by a daredevil riding a bicycle while walking on the street. Fortunately, he was not injured, it was just a false alarm.The cyclist hurriedly helped him up and apologized repeatedly, but George Bernard Shaw said regretfully: "You are out of luck, sir, if you kill me, you will be famous all over the world!" , freed both him and the perpetrator from an unpleasant, tense situation, and allowed the accident to be handled amicably.Bernard Shaw's humor not only left an unforgettable impression on the other party, but also gave people friendship and tolerance.

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