Chapter 65 sex and toilet training

By the time children are two years old, they are more interested in the pleasure of excretion.For them, seeing, smelling, and touching feces are nothing disgusting. Parents should be very careful when instructing them on civilized defecation habits, not to influence them, and not to make them feel disgusted with their own body and body products.Blunt, hasty measures make children feel that their body and all its functions are something to be feared rather than something to be loved. Impatient training results will only be counterproductive and self-defeating.Generally speaking, when a child is two and a half to three years old, he or she may already be able to control defecation during the day, and control at night may not be achieved until the age of three to four.Of course, there will be accidents, and it should be understood: "Oh, you didn't have time to go to the bathroom this time, and you were busy building the pagoda. Let me clean it up for you."

Lack of training also defeats the purpose.If children are left alone, they can continue to wet and stain their pants for a long time.For some children, this may be a joy, but at the same time, they miss the satisfaction of actually having a bowel movement.When the child reaches a certain age, parents should clearly and kindly tell him or her what the parents want them to do: "Now that you are no longer a baby, you are a big boy, Mom and Dad want you Tell us when you go to the bathroom and we'll put you on the toilet."