It's not about giving people money now and then, I've never seen money win hearts.You can be neither ruthless nor stingy, and you shouldn't just show concern if you can relieve another's suffering, but it's no use opening your pockets without opening your heart.You have to give your time, your care, your emotions, and even your ego, because no matter what you do, people will always know that your money is not yours.Proof of genuine caring works better than any gift, more useful than any gift.