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Chapter 75 learn to enjoy work happily

Tolstoy said: "The joy of life is hidden in his (her) work." That is to say, everyone should work with a happy attitude and learn to enjoy work before they can discover the joy of work. In daily work, most of the work is repetitive, monotonous, and lacks innovation. As a result, many professional women feel boring and boring in their jobs. Transformed into a mental state of inertia, a kind of resistance to work, and gradually regard work as a kind of hard labor, complete work as a task, exhausted every day, treat work with ease, and inefficiency; even if you change a job , will immediately be dissatisfied with the new job, which will not only affect the development of the company, but also lead to the failure of personal career; even the increasing pressure will lead to loneliness and depression, which may also lead to a series of diseases. Both physical and mental health will be adversely affected.This vicious circle comes from the fact that these professional women have never been able to fully appreciate the fun that work brings to them. Only those professional women who can discover the joy of work and regard work as a kind of enjoyment are often able to stick to themselves Treat the work with a relaxed mood, so that you will not feel overwhelmed by the heavy pressure, which is beneficial to your physical and mental health. Compared with others, you are more likely to succeed and understand the meaning of life.

For every professional woman, work is an inseparable part of life.Therefore, even if you have a deviation when choosing a job and what you are doing is not the job you are interested in, you should try to find interest in it and make work a pleasant journey, as long as you treat work with a positive attitude and regard work as a If it is an enjoyment, an opportunity to succeed, then the aversion, pain, and overwhelm you feel about your work will disappear, and any work will become meaningful. Yace Lauder has been a legendary figure on the list of wealthy businessmen such as "Fortune" and "Forbes" magazines for many years.This contemporary "Queen of Cosmetics Industry" started from scratch, and has become a world-renowned marketing expert with her intelligence and high enthusiasm for work and career.The Yasi Lauder Cosmetics Company, founded by her, pioneered the marketing method of selling cosmetics as gifts, which made the company stand out from competitors in the same industry and was at the forefront of the cosmetics sales field.The reason why Yasi Lauder was able to create such a brilliant career was not hereditary, but her own passion for work and career.Before the age of 80, she was able to work more than 10 hours a day with high morale and energy. Her attitude towards work and her strong energy are really amazing.Even after retirement, Lauder still wears expensive clothes as usual every day, circling among famous and famous households with vigor, doing invisible publicity for her company.

American poet Emerson said: "In history, there is no great cause that is not successful because of enthusiasm." Passion is the driving force for progress. A person who is passionate about his work, no matter what kind of occupation he is engaged in, no matter what company he works in, will think that his work is the most sacred and noble occupation in the world; No matter how difficult and stressful you are, you will always complete it meticulously and without haste; if you lack passion, you will always be under pressure, and naturally you will not be able to achieve good performance.

In fact, everyone has the potential to achieve great things, not only quick-responsive and smart people, but also those who are relatively dull and even look stupid.For every professional woman, as long as she can find her passion in her work and devote herself to her passion, she will ignite the power hidden in her heart, and with this power, she will make her work take on a new meaning and finally achieve extraordinary results. Realize the value of your own life. When Intel President Andy Grove was invited to give a speech to the graduates of the University of California, Berkeley, he made the following suggestion: "No matter where you work, don't just think of yourself as an employee. You should learn to adapt hard and put Think of the company as if it was opened by yourself. No one in the world can control your career except yourself. This is your own career.” As a professional woman, if you want to enjoy your work happily, you need to understand clearly in your heart - "Who are you working for", you must have a clear understanding of the work itself:

A.Work is not just a means of earning a living.Many years ago, a group of laundry girls were busy, and they were very tired. However, when they thought that there was still a salary of 11 dollars a day waiting for them, they chose to grit their teeth and persevere.
Many years later, when most of the laundresses were still busy, a line of limousines came suddenly, and a person greeted everyone from the window: "My friends! How are you?" Everyone looked up and saw that it was them. My colleague Martha some years ago.Martha is now the owner of a chain laundry.She was surrounded by old friends, everyone asked this and that, and one of them asked: "My friend, I am really surprised that you started doing laundry on the same day as us, why did you become the boss while we Are you still doing the same job?"

Martha laughed, and she said, "My friend, there's nothing special about me, if anything, it's that I've been thinking about working for the whole thing from the start, and you're probably just working for that $11 a day job." Work for a salary." In the same way, in modern enterprises, only when professional women surpass the limitation of salary and surpass themselves can their work be effective and their careers breakthrough.At work, the working conditions, income, and status of many professional women are several times or even higher, but they lack passion for work and always think that there is no future, and they often fail to do basic work well in the end. , let alone contribute to the company and the country.In fact, what they really lack is the understanding of the work itself, and they haven't figured out the question of "who are you working for".They don't realize the true meaning of work in life, and still use work as a means of earning a salary to support their families.The quality of work determines the quality of life.No matter the salary is high or low, doing your best and being aggressive at work can give you peace of mind. This is often the difference between career success and failure.Getting paid for work is inseparable from survival, but the paycheck is not all there is to work.Salary is only a means of life, a reflection of the value of work, not the ultimate goal of work.It is easy to make money, but it is much more difficult to achieve something.The charm of making money cannot stand the test of time. When your talents are fully utilized, your hard work can bear fruit, and your career will be full of unlimited prospects.

B.Work is not a drudgery.A well-known successful foreign female entrepreneur once divided the employees in the enterprise into three types: one is the foresight person, the other is the hindsight person, and the last is the unconscious person.She believes that people who do not know it work very hard, do not know why they work, muddle through, and waste their time in a daze; People are different. He (she) regards work as an opportunity for life growth, not a tool for living and earning money; he (she) understands that he (she) is working for himself and enjoying work. So go to work with love every day.

For every professional woman, in the process of work, only through hard and difficult work experience can she obtain the greatest happiness in the world and achieve greater achievements; only through the process of continuous hard work can she achieve success; only Only by unifying and coordinating the goals of work with the goals of your own success in life can you really do your job well.If you only regard work as an errand, as a means of earning a living, or if you only focus on the work itself, then even if you are engaged in your favorite job, you will not be able to maintain your passion for work for a long time; Work is tedious, a kind of drudgery, and it will create resistance, which will eventually lead to the failure of your career.

In short, if you want to be a happy professional woman, you have to re-examine your work from a higher perspective, rethink the value and importance of the work you do, and understand that work is not slavery, nor people It is something to do for a living; it is a mission, a common mission entrusted to mankind by God.Then, you will feel happy, feel that you are always passionate about your work, and you will become fulfilled. If you persevere unremittingly, you will find that you are improving every day and feel happy every day. A positive attitude can make you full of energy, and even in the most ordinary positions, you can gain enjoyment, increase prestige and wealth; even hard and boring work, you can also feel its value from it.

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