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Chapter 59 Women, Recognize Your Career Strengths

Both men and women have great potential.Regrettably, many women do not believe that they have the same great potential as men. This is the biggest mistake inherent in the thinking of many women.And every woman who has a successful career has one thing in common, that is, they are constantly actively exploring their potential. All people should firmly believe that they have great potential, and everyone does have great potential. It can be said that in this world, each of us has super extraordinary abilities, and the achievements we can achieve will always exceed our imagination.Therefore, don't underestimate your abilities at any time.Many people think that women are inherently weaker than men, but this is not the case at all.

Over the past few decades, scientific research has dabbled in the field of women's advantages.All women can prove that they are better than men at certain things or areas. Research by Halpern, a professor of psychology at the University of California in the United States, has shown that, on the whole, women are better than men in all aspects of language application.This gender difference in language use is manifested in the early stage that girls can speak earlier than boys, use more vocabulary than boys, and form more complex and dexterous sentences.U.S. national statistics show that women's reading and writing vocabulary advantages persist into adulthood.Some researchers have also found that women are faster at learning foreign languages ​​than men, and are also more dexterous and proficient.

American Cintario University psychologist Ke Mora said that women are far better than men in fine manual work.In a series of studies involving speed, precision and small movements, women were significantly better than men. A special study by Richard Doty, a professor at the University of Pennsylvania in the United States, shows that women's sense of smell and taste are significantly more sensitive than men: women can detect and distinguish weaker smells, and women's hearing sensitivity is also higher than that of men 1. Women's hearing declines much slower than men's with age. Migas Hale, a professor of psychology at Northeastern University in Boston, has confirmed that women are better than men at smiling, looking directly at each other, or sitting or standing closer to others.

It can be seen that women are not inferior to men in the first place, but because of the stereotypes inherent in the past, too many women tend to think that their abilities are not as good as men.Of course, due to the gender of women, women themselves also have some weaknesses, which should also arouse your sufficient attention in daily life. People cannot avoid innate weaknesses, which means that you are born with deficiencies in some aspects, which are beyond your power.Set your mind at ease, have a good chat with others, see what you look like in other people's eyes, whether it is consistent with your expectations, find out the deviation and make up for it, which will help you improve yourself.

Lack is not terrible, what is afraid is that you have not realized it or realized it and blindly pretend to understand it.The correct attitude is to take it seriously, be good at discovering, work hard to overcome and improve, and you can play the banner of "give me time, I can do better". Through the above self-analysis and understanding, do you have no idea what kind of work you want to do in the future?Never mind the fact that only a few girls are lucky enough to figure out what their interests are early on.Except for such girls, most girls have a lot of question marks when they think about their future career, which is normal.

Experts pointed out that, generally speaking, women are good at using the right brain to learn and think, and women's intuitive judgment and intuitive memory are particularly strong.However, women's logical thinking and abstract generalization ability are generally inferior to men's, so it is not women's strong point in fields such as philosophy.It can be seen that it is also very important to know yourself objectively and choose the right job platform. Generally, a good job must have the following characteristics: For employees, making a living is only one aspect, and more importantly, they must master various skills for making a living through good learning and training at work.A company that attaches great importance to employee training is not only very attractive to talents, but also shows its long-term vision for pursuing development.

interest is the best teacher.Working in the right direction and familiar fields will help you to display your talents, otherwise it is tantamount to killing your passion and life if you bite the bullet and support yourself in an extremely disgusting environment. Equal development opportunities provide a good atmosphere for the growth of talents, which can not only retain talents, but also fully stimulate their potential. No suppression, no attack, no retaliation, speak freely, and give employees great democratic freedom. Employees will make contributions as part of the company.Let employees suffer under extreme autocratic pressure and everyone is in danger. Even if such a working atmosphere is making money every day, what is there to be nostalgic for?

Colleagues unite, help each other, and cooperate sincerely. Even if the income is low, the working environment is relaxed. Compared with the sinister environment of intrigue and mutual dismantling, I can experience the joy of work more. The leadership team of Wo Lidou is tantamount to playing with fire, which will eventually bring disaster to employees.An enlightened management can not only ensure the healthy development of the company, but also attract employees a lot. If everyone works together, no matter how big the obstacles are, it will be no problem. The system is greater than the president, and the rule of law is greater than the rule of man; things are done according to rules, and rewards and punishments are clearly defined.An orderly office environment can eliminate many disturbances and human factors, help to improve, and also help to honor the performance of employees.

Although the development of the company is not very satisfactory now, but the company has great development potential and can guarantee that you will work for at least 10 years, so work hard to stay.If you are busy changing jobs, it will only get worse and worse, and you may end up with nothing and suffer from a poor life. Knowing how to identify a good job, let’s introduce some jobs that are suitable for women’s development and see if you can get a seat: Women are born with a kind of motherhood, which gives women a stronger psychological advantage than men.Women's motherhood, tenderness, care, patience and other natural characteristics are the advantages of women in the education industry.

The service industry is an industry that is very suitable for women.Many successful businesswomen have worked in this industry.Because a woman has a strong sense of intuition, she can clearly see the needs of people at every level. Therefore, choosing the service industry is a great place to give full play to women's advantages.
Advertising is an ideal industry for women in their twenties. If you design outstanding works, you will be appreciated by customers and you will be awarded the grand prize in advertising design competitions; Lots and lots of business.But there are two points you must pay special attention to: one is that you must be able to design; the other is that you must be able to manufacture.In the advertising industry, if you want to be an agent, it is best not to design by yourself, but to start a company and hire someone to design.

Women's nature is adapted to deal with numbers and statistics, so accounting has become a profession they are particularly good at. In newspapers, periodicals, books and other publishing and film and television communication industries, women's advantages can be seen everywhere.They have the advantage of being a female reporter in interviewing. Their carefulness can make her an excellent editor. Their intuitive judgment enables them to plan topics that readers love. They are loved by the majority of film and television audiences because of their good temperament and image.In short, women have great development potential here. Women can try it out, and if you're good at writing, try writing for a newspaper's stock column. Women are also well suited to work in law.Lawyers need to have strong memory, quick thinking, good communication, good speech and other characteristics, which are possessed by many women.In the legal industry, there are also many female lawyers who have made great achievements. Women can show their talents as actors, singers, technicians, screenwriters, directors, etc.Although there are many college graduates in this industry, there are also some who have not attended college.The art world is very inclusive, and people with degrees and those without college have the same chance of success.However, life in this line of work is mostly irregular, and sometimes even treats day as night.If you are interested in this line, you might as well give it a try. If you are not interested in any of the industries listed above, you can also work in retailers, interior decoration, civil servants, etc.But no matter what kind of industry, you need to master specialized knowledge.As long as you choose your own advantageous industry, and rely on your beauty, wisdom and ability, you will eventually succeed!
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