Chapter 52 12 Laws to Make You a Gentle Woman

Michael Kent, a famous psychologist in Chicago, said: "Smart women know how to use their tenderness. In fact, both men and women have a natural affection for feminine tenderness. Women's tenderness will undoubtedly Add some bright colors and warmth to the surrounding environment, and she will let the other party's emotions find refuge." Stephen Holman, a master of human relations, once said: "I believe that no one will like a selfish, greedy, willful woman. But if this woman has gentle qualities, then she can make many friends. On the contrary , even if a woman has thousands of human virtues, as long as she lacks tenderness, she will not become a popular person. Around us, you can easily find that all people like gentle Women, this is an indisputable fact."

Dr. Derek Tucker, chairman of the American Family Council, once conducted a questionnaire survey on 1,000 single men, asking them what the ideal woman would be like?Among them, less than 10% of the men said they were beautiful and sexy, while the remaining 90% of the men answered that they were gentle women.There is even a bachelor who even said bluntly that if there are two women for him to choose, one is beautiful and sexy but has a bad temper, and the other is mediocre but gentle and considerate, then he will choose the latter without hesitation.This answer may be surprising, right?But it is not difficult to understand why this smart man made such a choice as long as you analyze it.After all, if a man lives with a wife who likes to fight, then every day life is like suffering in hellfire.

It is also based on this that Brad Kammer, a professor of psychology at Tennessee State University, concluded: "The gentleness of women is the most irresistible to men. In the eyes of men, gentle ladies are the most beautiful and charming A man can tolerate a woman's selfishness, rudeness, money-greed, and capriciousness, but it is absolutely impossible to tolerate a woman's intenderness. In fact, when a man is looking for a partner, he does not want to find a leader, a powder keg or a supervisor for himself. They just hope that their partner can understand them, care about them, and give them psychological comfort, and all of this is based on tenderness."

This shows that tenderness is important to women.I think, even if ladies don't want to be a popular lover like Jessica, at least they won't be unwilling to let the man they like like themselves, right?Then, your best choice is to learn to be gentle and use the following twelve laws proficiently! Women who show too much of their key parts will be mistaken for "exhibitionists" and not serious.So how to show it properly is a big question.Women who are confident about their necks can wear V-neck clothes and match them with gold necklaces to set off the beautiful neckline; too much.You may wish to sew some lace or match the shoulder circumference; if you are confident about your chest, you can unbutton one more shirt and wear a transparent shirt with lace underwear of the same color.People who are confident in their legs should wear miniskirts.If you wear a long skirt, you should expose your ankles.

Shyness is a woman's secret weapon to attract men and increase emotional appeal. Appearing at the right time and at the right time becomes coquettishness, a kind of feminine beauty, like a group of naive young girls with a sudden blush on their face, no boy will not be tempted. Choose a certain brand of perfume that suits you, and it will become your exclusive sign.When he smells this scent, he knows you are coming.Most people sprinkle perfume on handkerchiefs and clothes, which not only makes the fragrance disappear easily, but also makes the clothes infested by insects.Some women like to put perfume on hair roots, back of ears, neck and underarms, which is not good either.The best way is to apply the perfume around the navel and breasts, and use a small ball of cotton dipped in the perfume and put it in the middle of the bra. This will not only keep the fragrance for a long time, but also make the fragrance overflow in all directions with the heat of body temperature. scattered.

That tender gaze, that sweet smile, that graceful demeanor, that charming face are sometimes worth a thousand words. A pair of suitable high-heeled shoes and thin silk high-cut trousers will make your legs slim and add a lot of unspeakable charm in the eyes of men. Shape yourself into an image with a sense of mystery, and let him feel that you are always a mystery and a book that you will never tire of reading. Giving your sweetheart a sweet nickname will make you feel closer to each other.Surprisingly, some prominent presidents and congressmen are also willing to be called by their nicknames by their lovers.These nicknames from women that men find cute mainly include: Duckling Duck, Little Handsome Guy, Little Guagua, Little Muddy Ball, Little Fool, Little Guaiguai, Hercules, Big Head Boy, Big Tiger, Teddy Bear Boss, Honey Baby, Baby eggs, pompous bears, bodybuilders, charming spirits.

When you spend a lot of money on a few theater tickets and are about to ask your husband to go to the theater together, you can say in a child’s naughty tone on the phone: “I’m a bad, bad, bad kid. I bought a few theater tickets. Tickets, if I tell you how expensive the fare is, you will lose your temper. But I promise, as long as you don’t get angry, I will kiss you from the top of your head to your toes.” I believe your husband will listen He laughed and said, "From the top of the head to the tip of the toe, isn't it? Well, it's worth it!" Both romantic and obscene are related to women's coquettishness, but there is a difference in proportion: if the coquettishness is just right, it is romantic, and if it is too coquettish, it is indecent.Usually, the so-called romantic is congenital, while dirty is acquired.A woman who does not have the characteristics of a flirtatious man will feel uninterested; those who have these characteristics can be called obscene: wearing disgusting underwear, bad breath, black teeth, muffled voice, frequent swearing, slurring when eating Sounds, rumors and troubles.

In order to satisfy men's natural desire to "protect" women, it is necessary to show "vulnerability" appropriately.This kind of "fragility" can be manifested not only physically, but also in a weak appearance, and also in mental "fragility", such as being afraid of thunder or shedding tears easily. The man is late for a date. If he says, "Ah! I'm late." You have to hold back the complaint and reply, "I'm worried that you can't find a place!" demeanor.But the next time he's late again, the squabble can come in handy: "Humph! Late again. I'll punish you for buying me dinner!" This level of anger will endear him.

Encourage him to go to a bar with a little emotional appeal together, the two sit side by side, and then chat happily as usual in the first 30 minutes, and drink an appropriate amount of wine. Thirty minutes later, you're fiddling with the glass and keeping your eyes on his fingertips.He sighed softly: "Oh!" He noticed sensitively.Watching you with worried eyes.You immediately and quickly avoid his sight, give him a fatal blow, and let out a soft "ah".His sigh to you will definitely give birth to many guesses, worrying that you don't like being with him anymore.At this time, he will try every means to check his faults, and be eager to tell you how much he likes you, and the romantic comedy will be further staged, right in your arms.