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Chapter 21 Let femininity keep your charm fresh

In this fashion society, as long as you know how to make up, how to wear clothes, how to make the "pretty" more beautiful, and how to make the "not pretty" beautiful, these appearances can make almost every woman look beautiful. "Beauty of Shih Tzu".The question is, what else can we see besides this beautiful body?Are we pursuing the beauty of the moment, or the eternal inner beauty? Makeup is only the last detail, and it can change very little of the facts.Makeup at a deeper level is to change the physique, let a person change his lifestyle, get enough sleep, and it is much more effective than makeup.The deeper makeup is to change the temperament, read more, appreciate art more, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, be kind-hearted, care about others, self-love and have dignity. Such a person makes people happy even without makeup close.Makeup on the face is just the last little thing in makeup.In simple terms, third-rate makeup is makeup for the face, second-rate makeup is for the spirit, and first-rate makeup is for life.

A woman's first-class makeup is her unique "femininity".She is like a cup of fragrant jasmine tea, which has profound meaning and endless aftertaste. In fact, you can feel this kind of femininity, because: she is young and healthy, her skin is ruddy, full of vitality, she always keeps her body and mind in the best condition, and she is still radiant and brilliant at any time.Feminine women are full of wisdom and shrewd eyes, and they are definitely not a little girl.Her savvy comes from her understanding of life and art, and her temperament comes from the natural expression of her deep personality.She is stable, smart, and able to deal with many people with ease.How tender is a feminine woman, she loves herself and loves others even more.She is the rain in spring, moistening things silently; she is the wind in autumn, fanning your face.With the unique feelings of women, she opens her mind to embrace the whole world.A woman with femininity is not a rose with thorns, but a rainbow in the sky. A smile, a look, and a wise word are all worthy of your aftertaste and fascination.

Femininity is elegant and generous, quiet and far-reaching. Femininity is like wine. It needs to be brewed, accumulated, precipitated, and sincere.If you are indifferent, slowly releasing energy is the true taste and the highest state.
But looking around, the situation that women must face today is that "femininity" has a new meaning, and it is closer to the ideal of balance and harmony between men and women.There are indeed many smart and outstanding women who have begun to re-examine what is the basic quality of a woman.They ask themselves: "Can I be self-reliant and self-reliant on the one hand, try to use my wisdom, and show the aggressive and energetic side of my personality in front of men without reservation, but not be rejected by them?" One point is very important to both men and women. Everyone cherishes their unique personality and treats others well. We don't want the opposite sex we like to suppress or hide our true temperament.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with men and women caring about how to conform to each other's ideals. In fact, both parties should know that our concept of manliness or femininity is often shaped by the opposite sex's expectations of us.It is a biological instinct that opposites attract. What exactly is "feminine"?The traditional definition is weak, passive, sentimental and childish, with particular emphasis on appearance and manners, and should be ashamed.With a variety of styles, a cold face and a warm heart, he retreats and advances, making men confused and infatuated.

Today, the times are different, and the new definition of femininity is simple, but as long as it has a special personal temperament, it is feminine.The so-called special temperament here is not limited to the traditional gentle, considerate, and educated, but also includes some "masculine" styles-resolute, strong, and aggressive.A growing number of women now have this openness, discovering that positive assertiveness does not detract from their feelings of being a woman, but actually makes them more fulfilling.They also understand that while showing their strong side, they can still be gentle and generous.

Cultivate the interests and hobbies of attractive women. The woman's voice is soft and smooth, and it is a beautiful piece of music in itself.Women who love to listen to music can win the favor of men, probably because they show classic and sad beauty.The piccolo summoned the soul of the woman, and the soul of the man to the woman. After marriage, the husband and wife always love each other harmoniously, and their children are healthy and smart. The best-selling things in the world are women's clothing, women's cosmetics and beauty products.Women's dresses always seem to be a hot item for clothing store owners to turn a profit.A woman who loves to dress up is not only for her own man, but every man will still be amazed and amazed by the beauty of a woman.Wouldn't the world be too monotonous if there were no colorful and colorful clothes brought about by dressing up?

There are few men in the world who love shopping, but there are no women who do not love shopping.One of the joys of shopping is that you will find "surprises".Whether it's a discounted auction bargain, there's always something to be gained.A woman has to judge the color, texture, and style of the clothes. Even if she is very satisfied in her heart, she has to say "no" verbally in order to bargain.Although men find it annoying to go shopping with women, it is precisely because of her shopping that she can manage the house, so most of the husbands and wives are harmonious and there will be no discord or divorce.

A woman who loves art is romantic.This kind of romance is not about flirting, but about artistic enlightenment.A woman who loves art presents a classical flavor, which is very beautiful and interesting.Art-loving women love art for self-entertainment, unlike art-loving men who are a bit arty. A woman who loves sports is a long-term combination of natural beauty and artistic beauty. A woman who loves sports understands body and beauty better than a woman who loves cosmetics.They understand that only bodybuilding can retain beauty, so driven by perseverance and sportsmanship, she will become beautiful and confident, and she will become a beautiful angel and the darling of happiness.

It is a woman's nature to love flowers, and a woman who does not love flowers is not a feminine woman.In the eyes of women who love flowers, life is always beautiful.Women often run around in the mountains and forests, picking one flower here and two clusters there, it doesn’t matter if you can’t name it, if you smell it yourself, you must ask others "is it fragrant"?Keeping them in vases with clean water when you go home is often more sympathetic than flowers bought on the street.
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