Chapter 18 Use temperament to show your charm

Many times, when you observe carefully in social situations, you will find that all women with outstanding taste and good manners can show excellence in their gestures and actions, which will give you a refreshing feeling.You can taste, admire and imitate these women, they are women who have entered the threshold of charm, and they have formed a unique temperament of grace and grace. Romain Rolland pointed out: Temperament is a very abstract thing, but its impression is very obvious.We often find that a certain girl is very charming, or a certain boy is very chic, and this charm and chic beauty comes from the so-called "temperament".

Therefore, we can say that temperament comes from the inside, and what is shown outside is what we usually call "demeanor".Grace is not manufactured.In fact, the more sincere you are, the more personable you will be if you have a good interior first. Temperament is an external manifestation of a spiritual factor.If a person has a certain cultural accomplishment, ideals and ambitions, emotional personality, etc., he will be able to show the "beauty of temperament".Femininity should be expressed in tenderness, warmth, poise and wit.Gentleness is the primary factor that women should have. Women in social situations should avoid being rude and aggressive in dealing with others, otherwise they will make people stay away and greatly affect their own image.Enthusiasm means that women should show youthful vigor, that is, treat people with sincerity, be emotional, and at the same time be steady, be graceful, talk naturally, and behave appropriately.A passionate woman who talks and laughs happily, infects others with her words, makes those around her feel happy and inspired.When others encounter difficulties, they can help others with enthusiasm and make people feel amiable, respectable, and witty. This is the concentrated expression of female wisdom.

Women who make themselves beautiful by cultivating temperament have a higher level of spiritual realm than those who beautify themselves by clothing and dress.The former makes people live a full life, while the latter makes people empty.And the perfect combination is the combination of both. Although temperament includes the style of clothing and grooming, this style undoubtedly comes from the inside.Because it is not an unintentional imitation, but expressed through personal choice and identification.This ability to choose and recognize beauty mainly comes from three channels: A woman with deep upbringing and firm beliefs can naturally embody a very attractive and beautiful demeanor.Contemporary women should put more efforts in cultivating intelligence and knowledge. Only in this way can your demeanor be filled with the halo of wisdom and show enduring charm.

Of course, reading is the main way to seek knowledge, but you can't just know how to read and don't care about the knowledge in daily life.A person's intellectual beauty must be able to show richness and flexibility. It cannot only come from books, but also from common sense, from understanding of life or things that everyone cares about.A well-educated person who never watches or listens to movies and knows nothing about the dynamics of the entertainment industry may be respectable, but it is inevitably tiresome.Therefore, in addition to your specialized knowledge, your knowledge ranges from major events in the world to the concept of fashion, the contents of popular TV movies, and other such things. Only the synthesis of common sense in the book can form a rich and flexible beauty of knowledge, and it can also help your temperament.

A kind heart, a broad mind, and an upright attitude towards life, these fine qualities will form a person's graceful and elegant temperament.People with this kind of temperament naturally behave calmly, have a generous attitude, and possess a kind of serene and elegant beauty. Artistic accomplishment is related to a person's temperament, which is more important than the former two.You don't have to make yourself an artist, but you have to have a certain level of appreciation.You should know which kind of paintings are beautiful, which kind of antiques are worthy of appreciation and collection, which kind of music is good, and why natural is better than man-made.Because of your taste, you will know which manners are refined and which are vulgar; which make-up is high and which is low; which clothes are beautiful and which are ugly; Some people's speech and behavior can be imitated, and who's speech and behavior cannot be imitated.

Ten recognized attractive women: A．A happy girl who will never grow up and has no chest.Her natural and innocent nature affects everyone around her. She loves life, is unrestrained, freewheeling and careless.She hates being difficult and pretending to be profound, and it is too difficult to make her obsessed and obsessed with a certain thing. B．She is a landscape in a man's life.She likes a lavish, buzzy life to liven up her social star appeal.She doesn't need to think deeply, and never pays attention to things other than life, she is intoxicated by herself. C．A typical middle-class intellectual woman.She is simple and natural in appearance, romantic in heart, indifferent to the world, emphasizing individuality but not showing off.Only those who can enter her heart can truly understand her and be appreciated by her.Her temperament and upbringing are the expression of her rich heart and the reason for keeping her distance from others.

D．The ideal wife and mother.She is gentle, introverted, considerate, quiet, calm, delicate, pays attention to the details of life, and loves children.Family is her joy in life.Upbringing and good economic conditions have enabled her to transcend triviality and vulgarity. She never envied men and career women, and only folded the paper cranes in her hands intently and peacefully. E．She is like an unruly wild horse, unrestrained, unrestrained, warm and unrestrained.She reminds you of all the strong and fast-paced feelings, and her simple and cheerful style cannot tolerate any entanglement.Her heart is too big and too lofty, so she ignores all mundane and trivial matters, but the sexy and spiritual delicacy in her bones can't be erased.

F．She is a double noble of material and spiritual.She never gave up her spiritual pursuit because of material satisfaction. On the contrary, it is the material foundation that makes her more capable of constructing her own spiritual world.The maturity of her insight into everything enables her to be comfortable in being both grand and harmonious. G．A rational woman.She is strong-willed, unambiguous, likes to grasp the situation, is smart and good at using her mind, rarely acts emotionally, and will not make mistakes due to impulse.She is independent and successful in her career, she lives like a man, but knows how to display her femininity in moderation.

H．An easy-to-satisfy lifestyle woman.She doesn't have high requirements for life, she likes to live a relaxed, happy and rich life, and she doesn't want to have pressure and waves.Being content with the status quo and optimistic nature enables her to continue her youth.She is simple and sensitive, and has good popularity. I．She is a woman among women.She is both classic and romantic, full of temptation but not evil, beauty is her ideal.The secular life is so far away from her, as if she came into this world just to be a woman. J．A magnificent woman.Her luxury was as striking as her nobility, and she always stole the show on the most opulent occasions.She likes the feeling of being surrounded by stars, and her way of conquering the world is to conquer men.