Chapter 67 Only those who are satisfied with their families are happy

In the whole society, the family is the cell of society and the cornerstone of social stability.Personally.Home may be just a table of delicious food, a soft greeting, a warm hug...No matter how late we work overtime, no matter how far we go, our hearts are always on the way home.Because a warm home is the harbor of the soul, the station of life, and the driving force behind the career of life. What a wonderful home, but some people no longer want to go home. There is no love at home, no warmth, no hope, only responsibility.Such a home is useless.Some people say that home is a difficult scripture to recite, and it really takes skill to recite this scripture well.

There is a successful businessman with a very happy family. His house is full of laughter every day.A friend asked him where the secret was, but he said the secret was a sycamore tree not far from his home.It turned out that he didn't want to go home every day with a tired body and a sad face, so he rested under the sycamore tree. He saw the bright lights in his home from a distance, and vaguely saw his wife preparing dinner. The children chased and fought around the wife.He often laughed insincerely when he watched it, but who could he tell his troubles at work, so he told Dashu all his troubles, and he felt much more at ease.Since then, he confides his troubles to Dashu after get off work every day, and goes home happily after removing his troubles.

Let go of your troubles and go home with joy and laughter. The house is naturally full of laughter.Just imagine, if you come home with worries and a sad face, will the family members be happy?They will be infected by your bad mood, how can they be happy. "Home" is a piece of hardware, and "people" are the software that composes and functions.Everyone in the family has a responsibility to make our common home harmonious, so please take off your troubles, take off your burdens, and go home with happiness. Family life is a very complicated subject. If we handle it well, we will gain happiness and happiness from it. If we don’t handle it well, our life will be messed up.No matter who you are, you must be able to handle the interchange of two roles in work and life with ease.You can give advice at work, but when you come home, you must be ordinary and easy-going, showing consideration for everyone in the family.

The famous American writer Ernest Hemingway was born in a doctor's family in Oak Park, Illinois, USA. His works influenced the whole world, and he won the Nobel Prize for Literature.He is well-known for the novel that created the image of a tough guy.Hemingway won many honors in his life: a famous writer, a hero in battle, and his image of a tough guy has influenced generations... But his love and marriage were not happy. Hemingway had four marriages in his life. Although the causes of marital problems are complex and diverse, the main reason is probably caused by Hemingway’s proud, tough, and tough character who is used to women obeying him. Handle the relationship between love and career well.

Hemingway had one of his wives named Hadley. Once, Hemingway went to work in other places, and Hadley planned to pick him up when he was free.Hadley thought: If Hemingway had time, he would have wanted to continue writing his unfinished novels.So she took the manuscripts of all Hemingway's novels and packed them in a suitcase.Unfortunately, the box was stolen on the train. Hadley was going crazy because of the missing suitcase.As soon as she saw Hemingway, she burst into tears and said repeatedly, "I'm sorry!" Hemingway did not comfort his wife. He couldn't forgive Hadley, not even his trusted wife, for a slip-up that hindered his development, and the two divorced soon after.

Hemingway's other wife, Pauline.She gave birth to two children for Hemingway, and they both suffered dystocia when they were born. Not only did Hemingway not care about his wife who accompanied him, but because he was tired of the crying of the children, he took the crying baby with the weak Pauline twice. Leave it at home and go hunting and fishing by yourself. Distraught by his family and children, Hemingway soon fell in love with another young, beautiful woman at a party, and just like that, Hemingway ended another marriage. Hemingway's overbearing, desire to conquer others, and selfishness doomed him not to have a happy marriage.

In our family life, we need to be more understanding, more tolerant, more caring, leave some free space for each other, and learn to communicate with each other.Be a family-loving person and build a happy home with your heart, only then will the home bring us warmth and become a gentle harbor forever.