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Chapter 61 Don't ignore the subsection of witnessing love

human weakness 卡耐基 1273Words 2018-03-18
Paying attention to the details in life is to express your missing to the person you love and wish him happiness.And her happiness will make you feel the same; flowers have always been the spokesperson of love since ancient times.It doesn't need to cost you much, especially during the flower season, you can see flower sellers at street corners and intersections.By the way, do all of you here often remember to bring home a bouquet of flowers for your loved ones?You may think that they are as expensive as orchids, or that you regard them as fairy grass in the fairyland, so you don't want to pay such a price and bring them back to your lover?

Don't wait until your loved one is sick and in the hospital to buy flowers for her.You can often buy a bouquet of flowers for her to see what effect it has.George Cohan was the busiest man on Broadway, and he used to call his mother twice a day until her old man passed away.Do you think that every time Ke Han calls his mother, he has something important to tell the old man?Then you are wrong.He was just expressing his concern for his mother, and mother naturally felt very happy. Women place great importance on birthdays, especially anniversaries of any kind - and why? That should be a mysterious mystery in women's psychology!

In real life, many men completely forget the days that should be remembered.But there are a few "days" that must not be forgotten, such as the wife's birthday, or the wedding anniversary.If you can't remember it all, most importantly, don't forget your wife's birthday. Judge Joseph Sabas of Chicago has tried tens of thousands of marital conflicts and reconciled two thousand couples."Most feuds between couples stem from many trivial things. For example, a wife waving goodbye to a husband when he leaves for work may save many couples from divorce," he said.

The reason why the marriage of the famous British poet Robert Browning and the famous female poet Elizabeth Barrett Browning is regarded by many people as the most wonderful marriage in history is not because the two are like-minded in literature, but because Because two people are never too busy to forget to praise and take care of each other in some small places, which is what keeps the love fresh between two people. Most men underestimate the importance of these subsections.As Gaeno Meadows put it in an article in The Illustrated Review: American families really need some new twists.Breakfast in bed, for example, is something most women like to indulge a bit.Breakfast in bed works as much for a woman as a private club does for a man.

That's the truth about a long-lasting marriage—a litany of little things. A couple who ignores these little things cannot be happy.The poet Edna Milley said in one of her little rhyming poems: It is not love lost that spoils my good times, but love is lost in small places.This is a good poem worth remembering. There are several courts in the state of Reno, with six working days a week, handling marriages and divorces for people. According to incomplete statistics, for every ten couples who get married, one couple gets divorced.How many of these marriage breakups were caused by really great events?There are very few.If you could sit there morning and night and listen to unhappy husbands and wives, you would know that "Love is lost in the little places."

There are many men who underestimate the trivial things that happen every day between husband and wife.If this goes on for a long time, the existence of these facts will be ignored, and it is not difficult to understand that the misfortune of marriage happened to them. Now you can try to write down these few words and stick them in your hat or on the mirror, so that you can see them every day. These few words are: Many things slip away as soon as you are negligent, so, be timely Do things that are helpful to people; express your concern to people in a timely manner.Do it in time, don't wait, because many things slip through the eye.

There are thousands of families, and there are thousands of ways of life.Although the lifestyles are different, this principle needs everyone's attention in life, because it is the guarantee of family happiness and harmony.
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