Chapter 43 leave room for yourself

In New York, there are a lot of unsuccessful people who have pretty much the same pattern in their young lives, caused by self-indulgence.They have no concept of scheduling; they are always lazy, living by instinct and feeling.They can do whatever they want, live as they please, be in a daze, and waste a lot of time recklessly.They don't realize at all that they need to leave a little time for themselves, talk to their own souls, see themselves clearly, know themselves, expand their living space, and reshape their vitality. Rousseau, the most outstanding French Enlightenment thinker in the 18th century, once warned the world: "I am alone in this world. I have no brothers, no neighbors, no friends, no social circles. All connections between me and others have been brutally severed. What am I now when I am free from everything? It is up to me to find out. To do this I have to review my situation: I have to go through this Only when you think about it can you rediscover yourself.”

How much Rousseau cherishes the opportunity to talk to his own soul!Because he experienced firsthand the importance of doing so in life.The reason why he became a great enlightenment thinker with "no one before and no one to come after" is precisely because he learned how to talk to his own soul.There are many great religious leaders who often choose to stay away from the crowd, leaving a certain amount of time and space for themselves to talk to their hearts.After a period of time, they will share with everyone the various revelations they have obtained after talking with their own souls.It is precisely because of their deep and lasting communication with their own souls that they can infinitely expand their living space and enable people to achieve a higher spiritual realm, thus becoming the great leader of the human spirit.

You might say that they are great people who need to be enlightened, but we are just ordinary people and don't need to talk to our hearts.If you have this kind of thinking, it is a big mistake. Everyone with sound thinking and emotions in life should have a dialogue with their own soul.The main difference between human beings and animals lies in the soul. Everyone does not want to live like animals. This shows that human beings are positive, and life needs happiness, joy and perfection. This kind of self-spiritual dialogue is composed of life Part of it comes with life and goes with life.

The world is too big and we are so small.In this limited and short life, we need to bear too many things, these things weigh on our fragile mind, how can the mind bear it?In life, we perceive things around us, form our own opinions, make corresponding evaluations, etc., all of which are done through our spiritual world.Your future success depends on your spiritual world to create, and your spiritual world is increasingly occupied by many things in the real world.We are busy every day, and sometimes we don't even know what we are busy with. How much is necessary and how much is boring?Set aside some time for yourself every day, release your mind, and see yourself clearly, what makes us most want to do, what we must do.Let the unimportant things go with the wind, let your mind focus on the things that must be done, and see your past, present and future more clearly. The space in your mind will gradually expand, and the power of your success comes from in this space.

I conduct in-depth exploration and analysis on the psychological characteristics of human beings. I integrate speech, sales promotion, inspiration and intellectual development into one, thus creating and developing a unique adult education method.There are more than 1,700 adult education institutions and their branches all over the world.Those who received this kind of education were not only famous celebrities and businessmen, leaders from all walks of life, but also military and political dignitaries, cabinet members, and even several presidents.I drew on the most successful experiences in adult education.My success is actually very simple, I often leave some time to talk to my heart.However, I have a lot more time than others.Always remember.Your mind is you—the treasure of life, and you have to keep digging it.If you ignore your own soul, what else in this world cannot be ignored?

My adult education has an important core, which is to make people cherish their own hearts.My book "Positive Life", , and , have repeatedly emphasized this point from different angles. I was born in a poor farming family in Missouri, USA.My father is a diligent and pessimistic person, and my mother is an optimistic person.My childhood was no different from that of an ordinary boy, helping the family with chores every day; sometimes I even went to the field to pick strawberries and cut weeds.If my childhood was different, it was my mother who was the biggest influence.My mother has always encouraged me to study, hoping that I can make a difference.However, due to the poverty of my family, I had to work harder for my education.When I was a student at State Teachers College in Wallensburg, Missouri, I was one of the very few students in the school who did not live in a town.At home, I help my parents with chores; at school, I attend classes, do homework, and participate in various school activities.In this kind of intense study and life, I will squeeze out a little time in the busy life every day, so that I will leave my own time to talk to my own soul.I call this "right now time".Because I couldn't afford the school's living expenses, I could only live at home and ride a horse to school every day.In the busy living environment at that time, if I didn't have those "immediate time" to talk to my soul, I would be overwhelmed by the heavy life.I can't forget that I was riding alone on the way to school, thinking about things related to myself. It was because of that unforgettable "immediate time" that I became the current Carnegie.

The process of a person talking to his own soul is actually the process of expanding his living space.Everything in a person's life will be projected into his heart. If the external life is trivial, messy, and limited, it will also make our inner life chaotic, and this inner chaos will in turn affect you. real life.Dialogue with self-soul is to deeply understand yourself, reflect on yourself, summarize yourself, expand yourself, find out the limitations of real life, break these limitations, and expand your living space infinitely. This is a subtle process, and at the same time It is an active search process.

Dialogue with the self-soul is not just a simple return of the self-soul.It is necessary to deeply understand and learn this skill, so as to expand the living space of the soul.When the living space of your heart expands, you will be surprised to find that this is your real self, a brand new self.Please believe that the stage is as wide as the heart is.A brand new you will bring you a brand new future life.