Chapter 68 When special work situations come

No matter which kind of life style has its pros and cons.A person who only complains about reality, even in his ideal environment, is never satisfied. There is such a wife whose husband plays in a famous orchestra.Their concerts are mostly held in the evenings, and the musician is happy with his job and is well paid.However, she couldn't bear her husband's work at night, so she forced him to give up his favorite occupation, the position in the orchestra, to sell household goods; but this job was completely unsuitable for him, and the income was also greatly reduced. unhappy.As a result, not only his future is bleak, but the quality of marriage is also reduced.

Those men who are engaged in special jobs or working hours need to cooperate well with their wives.The wives of taxi drivers, train and ship drivers, pilots, and all those in these professions must cooperate in order for their family life to be maintained. Many celebrities in the film and television industry have experienced marriage breakdown, because they worked hard to succeed in that circle, but they did not get the understanding and sympathy of their wives. The wives of those with special occupations must realize that they cannot have everything, must admit their own reality, and try to maintain a happy family life under the constraints of their husbands' work.

Many women are envious of the famous wives who shine in so-called "glamorous" professions: writers, artists, movie stars, opera singers. When I was 16, my dream was to marry a famous explorer.However, those of us who have ever seriously thought about it, marrying this kind of person will also have more burdens besides wearing designer clothes and being photographed. It's not an easy thing to do, Mrs. Lowe Thomas can tell you about that.Her husband's strange experience can be put into the story of "The Arabian Nights".Few men are as world famous as a newscaster, author, university lecturer, explorer, athlete; he has spent as much time in the wilds of the Himalayas as he has in front of news cameras.

Extremely talented and charismatic, Frances Thomas can change herself like a chameleon at any time to suit her husband's needs.After the First World War, she and her husband traveled all over the world. At that time, her husband lectured on Lawrence of Arabia and Allenby's battle in Palestine; Assistant Broker. When they returned to the American countryside and settled down, Frances was at once the busiest woman ever, entertaining the incessant guests in her husband's study--they were extraordinary figures, explorers, aviators , lucky soldier.There are sometimes hundreds of visitors on weekends, which is really crowded.

When her husband was away, she had to suffer through anxiety.For example, after the First World War, when there was a revolution in Germany, she learned from the newspaper that her husband was seriously injured while covering a street fight; in 1926, her husband’s plane crashed in Andalusia, Spain, and she But in Paris, I can only be anxious.Not long ago, Rowe Thomas was seriously injured while traveling in Tibet. He was carried by local people for more than 20 days before leaving the Himalayas.For more than 20 days, she has been suffering mentally, because she has no news other than knowing that her husband is seriously injured.Can we bear this kind of tossing?

In the past few years, her only son has also followed in the footsteps of his father's exploration.So now she was waiting to hear from her son at any moment—at the outpost of the French position, in Kenya, where the Mau Mau uprising was taking place. Do you still think being the wife of a celebrity like Lowe Thomas is easy?This story shows that to marry an extraordinary husband, you must be an extraordinary woman. When you look at the parade among the crowd, have you ever thought that you are one of those governors' wives who can drive past the cheering crowd with roses in their arms?

Schilde McKaydin, wife of the governor of Maryland, said the status was very unfree and difficult.Her quiet, gentle personality, and her husband's active, athletic nature made for a perfect match.She told me that their life had changed completely since they moved into the Governor's Mansion. Her husband was so busy with business that he got up early and stayed up until midnight, making it hard for her to see him. She said that these distresses can only be relieved when she is traveling with him or giving a speech: "We found that the fun we get on the road is more than what we get together at home like ordinary couples. Exciting vacations, in the journey Every wonderful thing that happened is so precious and unforgettable.”

It should be said that men like the explorer Lowe Thomas and Governor McKaydin were very lucky. Their wives could not only solve their problems, but also not be bothered by the temptations of fame and status. If your husband is engaged in a special job, which will cause some inconvenience, the following suggestions can be used for your reference: ——If it is only temporary, then bear with it and be happy! —Anyone can endure a thing for a short time. - If this is a long-term situation, you can only accept it and try to improve it at the same time! ——Don't forget that your husband's career is also your own.

If your husband has to do this kind of work in order to be successful, it's up to you to make his life work.If you break up with your husband because you are not suitable for his work, it can be said to be abandoned in law.More seriously, this is still a kind of incomplete love. Understand that there is not and cannot be a job in this world that is completely joyful. No matter which kind of life style has its pros and cons.A person who only complains about reality, even in his ideal environment, is never satisfied.