Chapter 64 be his faithful follower

Trust is a positive motivator.An act that begins with faith does not end in failure. At the end of the 19th century, the electric light company in Detroit, Michigan hired a young mechanic who worked ten hours a day for $11 a week.When he got home, the man often hid in an old shed and worked until midnight, because he was bent on inventing a new engine. His father, a farmer, was convinced his son was wasting his time.People around him also said that the young man was a fool, everyone laughed at him, and no one believed that he could come up with anything good. But his wife believed in him very much. As soon as the day's work was finished, she would come to the small shed to help him with his research.In winter, in order to enable him to work, she often carried a kerosene lamp for him, her hands were blue from the cold, and her teeth were chattering.She firmly believes that her husband will have a successful design one day, so she is jokingly called her faithful "believer" by her husband.

After three years of hard work, in 1893, on the eve of the young man's 30th birthday, he finally made this whimsical contraption.There was a series of strange noises in the street, and the neighbors ran to the window in horror, and they saw that strange man—Henry Ford and his wife sitting in a horseless carriage, performing on the road!That peculiar car can really go a long way and come back! That very night, a new industry was born, one that had a major impact on human life.If Henry Ford is known as the father of this industry, then his "believer", Mrs. Ford, has the right to be called the mother of the new industry. Fifty years later, Mr. Ford, who believed in the reincarnation of the soul, was asked what he hoped for the next birth: "As long as I can be with my wife, I don't care about anything." He hopes to stay with his wife in the next life Stay together, because she is his "believer" all her life.

Every man needs a believer like this, a woman who will take care of him wholeheartedly when he is in trouble.When everything went wrong for him, when his career was in crisis, it was his wife's support that was needed to strengthen his resistance and confidence.He should let him know that no wind and rain can shake her trust in him.If even his own wife doesn't have confidence in him, who will trust him? Trust is a positive motivator.An act that begins with faith does not end in failure. Rob Dupree, who lived at 2 Cornum Street in Brister, Connecticut, is also a good example.Mr. Rob Dupree had always dreamed of being a salesman, and in 1947 the opportunity finally came—that is, soliciting insurance.However, despite his hard work, business did not pick up.He was very upset that he could not sell the insurance.Suffering from excessive tension, he had to resign to save himself from a total mental breakdown.Here is a letter from him -

"I felt like a total failure, but my wife insisted it was a temporary setback. She kept saying to me: 'Don't worry, next time you will succeed. I know you can be a good salesman. '" Later, he and his wife went to work in a factory.But she never let him ignore his appearance and conversation.He said: "During the past year and a half, she has always praised my good qualities and pointed out that I have the talent of a salesman-some talents that I don't even know! If it weren't for her constant encouragement, I would Maybe I won't have the courage to try again. She doesn't want me to give up, she motivates me like this again and again: 'You have this ability! You can do it too! Just work hard.'

"How could I betray such deep trust in her! She succeeded in building my confidence in myself. So, I left the factory and went into sales again, and this time I was confident-because I had a loyal believers! "Of course, I still have a long way to go. But at least I'm on my way, thanks to her. She made me believe that if I want to be successful, I can be successful." If I were to hire a salesman, I think one could expect a lot from a man with such a wife.This believer wife will not let her husband fail.If they suffered setbacks, they would lift their husbands up in due course, soothe their wounds, and send them back to the arena.

The great musician Sig Lokmaninoff was already a very good composer at the age of 25.However, because he was too conceited, when one of his symphonies did not succeed, he was very depressed, and for a long time, he lived a very dark life.Later, he was brought to see a psychiatrist by his friends, and the psychologist Dr. Nicholas Dahl repeatedly instilled in him the idea: "There is a great art hidden in you, waiting for you to show it to the world." Over time, this idea took root in Lokmaninov's mind, and his confidence revived.In the second year, his great "Second Concerto in C Minor" was completed.And, he dedicated the piece to Dr. Dahl.When this piece was premiered, all audiences were conquered.As a result, Lokmaninoff once again embarked on the road to success.

Motivation is to a man what fuel is to an engine.It keeps the mental batteries fully charged and the man's motors running non-stop.Motivation is the driving force that turns defeat into victory. People all hope to have luck, but luck can sometimes wear out people's spirit, and when it is serious, it will make us unable to stand up!But if our dearest people say to us: "Don't take this to heart, this little thing won't break you, you will succeed!" Then things will be different. The Bible says, "Faith is believing in things you hope for, and in things you have not seen."

Wives have the same confidence in their husbands.The believer's wife has the insight to see latent qualities in her husband that no one else can see.They see it with inner love and unique eyesight. Of course, whatever confidence you have, it won't do anything if you don't show it.So it must be expressed in words and actions, such as giving tender comfort, earnest encouragement, or praising his character and praising his talent. Summary-- Ways to motivate your husband: 1. Learn to be a good listener. 1.Use body language and facial expressions to show your concern for the speaker.

2.Learn to ask questions in a timely manner. 3.Keep it a secret so that you don't lose your husband's trust in you. 2. Praise and encourage your husband constantly to help him become his ideal person. 3. When your husband is not going well, being his faithful follower is your only choice.