Chapter 10 make up your mind, you must succeed

You will recall that in Chapter 1 we mentioned that you need to develop the right attitude when you speak in public.This rule still holds true for the other particular job described here—making the most of the opportunity to tell a successful experience.There are three methods that can work: After the theme is selected, it should be sorted out according to the plan, and the exercise should be "speaking out" in front of friends.Such preparations are not yet complete.You also have to convince yourself that your subject matter is valuable, and you have to have some of the attitudes that have inspired people throughout history, which is—believe in what you believe in.How to make the content of the speech fan convincing fire?There is no other way than to delve into your subject matter in detail, to grasp its deeper meaning, and to ask yourself how your speech will help your audience and benefit them deeply after hearing it.

For example, imagining yourself making grammatical mistakes or stopping somewhere in the middle of a speech is a negative assumption that can kill your confidence before you even start.Before starting a speech, it is especially important to take the attention away from yourself and concentrate on listening to what other speakers have to say, giving them your full attention so that you don't cause undue intimidation when you take the stage up. Any speaker will have moments of doubting his subject unless he has some great purpose and feels he is giving his life to it.He would ask himself if the topic was appropriate and if the audience would be interested.He probably changed the title in a fit of anger.At times like these, when negative thoughts have the potential to completely destroy your self-confidence, it's time to do yourself a pep talk.Say to yourself in simple, straight words that your speech is right for you because it comes from your experience, from your perspective on life.Say to yourself that you are more qualified to give this particular speech than anyone in the audience, and that you will do your best to make the issue clear.Does the old-fashioned way work?possible.However, modern experimental psychologists agree that self-inspired motivation, even if feigned, is one of the most powerful stimuli for rapid learning.