Chapter 38 Outline the successful self

A perfect career blueprint is often the result of self-imagination, and then we act according to the thought patterns formed in our minds.Generally, the more capable a person is of self-successful design, the more likely he is to succeed, which is a form of positive suggestion. A great life begins with the imagination in your heart, what you want to do and who you want to be.In the far distance of your mind, a picture of yourself should be placed steadily, and then moved forward to match it.If you paint a picture of yourself as a failure, it is enough to prevent you from winning; conversely, painting a picture of yourself as a winner is enough to put you on the road to success.

Your current self-image is formed as an imaginary picture of yourself defined by your previous experiences.Now, you can create a suitable self-image in the same way that you used to form an inappropriate self-image.Set aside 30 minutes a day to be alone, undisturbed, as relaxed and comfortable as possible, then close your eyes and use your imagination. In addition, during these 30 minutes, you see your actions and reactions must be appropriate, successful and ideal.You don't have to develop faith in what you want to be tomorrow—just keep practicing and seeing yourself acting, feeling, and "becoming" what you want to be.

After a period of practice, you will be surprised to find that you "act differently"-automatically and effortlessly, and how easy it is to achieve your goals. When you imagine a problem, if you close your eyes and be still, you can imprint it strongly in your mind.Therefore, instead of thinking with eyes open, it is more effective to think quietly with eyes closed.However, please don't forget that because the effect is relatively large, sometimes it will have the opposite effect. Because although I think "I want to do this" in my heart, in my subconscious mind, there will be rational thoughts such as "according to this situation, it will not be possible in about one or two years."With this kind of suspicion, bad seeds will be sown in the bottom of the heart, so, instead, there will be counterproductive effects.This kind of doubt occurs because of an attitude of disbelief in the subconscious mind.

Murphy said: "Calm down and think about it." But for those beginners who have not received much subconscious training, while using their imagination, there will be "but, I may not be able to do it" in their hearts. Suspicion, so it will not be effective, and may even produce counterproductive effects. Ordinary imagination does not need to be exercised like controlling the subconscious mind, as long as it is simply thinking "I wish to do that" or "I want this thing".Confidence in one's own strength can also be effective. Of course, this is a smaller proportion than the subconscious engraved in the heart, but as long as it can be repeated several times, the engraving will become huge.However, if you have self-confidence, it is better to use the subconscious mind.If you believe that your subconscious mind can definitely make your life go in a good direction, you should use your subconscious mind.If the subconscious mind cannot be used smoothly, it is best to temporarily stop.

The first object of love in life should be yourself, write poems to yourself, talk to yourself, quiet down in a space, and listen to your heartbeat and breathing.On the contrary, a life that wanders around like a headless chicken outside is most afraid of loneliness. Talk to yourself, let these external things slowly settle, and you will find that everyone can be your significant other.Because you will find something from them that matches the other half of your life. At that time, you will be less lonely and feel that your life is richer and more complete. When appropriate, often input positive words to yourself, such as reminding yourself once when you wake up in the morning, repeating it again when you fold the quilt, reminding the mirror for the third or fourth time when you wash your face, and the fifth or sixth time when you walk and wait for the bus .Whenever I have free time every day, I will affirm myself, and self-confidence will naturally take root deeply in my heart, and the sleeping function will definitely wake up and exert its powerful potential.

Just open the door of your heart, and naturally, unlimited power will flow into your heart.Humans are capable animals, and what they want to do must be done. This is the power of human beings.And human power is infinite, so you also have infinite ability in your heart.Because of the potential in the depths of the soul, people can gain unlimited power.You can therefore think of potential as the unlimited capacity within yourself.Only when you open the door of your heart to feel the potential, can you get the supply of the infinite power of that potential. Success in life is by no means accidental, but inevitable.There is a saying in China that "sincerity leads to the sky", which means that as long as you face it honestly and seriously, there will be great results one day.That is, the idea of ​​desperately struggling will reach the sky, and it will be realized sooner or later.

There is a famous Judkins' law that is often applied in our lives.Judkins believes that as long as you always hold hope - "I hope I can succeed", or "I hope I can become the best salesman", you will be able to find a good way, this is the "Judkins Law" ".Dr. Judkins said: "The knowledge or consciousness left in the mind before sleep will become the subconscious mind, deeply kept in one's mind, and can be transformed into action power." If you think your will is weak, say to yourself: "I can definitely strengthen my will." For example, if you see a promising customer, you can imagine that you have successfully signed a contract with this customer. .In this way, think about it every night before going to bed.As long as you have confidence, that confidence can make you a very attractive person.

However, there are a few things to keep in mind when using this method: (1) Get ready for sleep before going to bed; (2) Sleep after reading or self-expectation; (3) Don't get out of bed to do other things after going to bed; (4) Don't make any noise.Don't act while listening to the radio or watching TV. Now all that's left is to implement it.No, it should be said to be ongoing.First of all, let yourself have a clear will, and then continue to practice, so that your life can gradually move towards the road of success. Please try it, friend, I believe you can completely change yourself!