Chapter 33 Happiness is always accompanied by freedom and ease

Sometimes, persistence will accidentally become the most stubborn shackle in a person's heart.For example, if the goal is too clear, it will become a kind of psychological burden and mental pressure, which will restrict your soaring wings; on the contrary, if you relax your mind properly at this time, you will go further and fly higher. Romain Rolland said: "Everyone has years of pain and trauma, mistakes and guilt. If you don't know how to get rid of and clear them, you will inevitably slow down the speed of moving forward due to the heavy burden." People always need to move forward, But it is not the mechanical changes that are forced, and the body and mind that cannot withstand the toss of the wind and snow will certainly not be able to withstand the entanglement of the world.

Free and easy, what you need is to let go of your hands, let go of the shackles that shouldn't be accompanied, get rid of the mistakes that shouldn't be accompanied, stop the bumps of life on the bumpy road, get out of the applause, and give yourself noble love.Free and easy does not bind the powerful, nor does it please the powerful.Free and easy regardless of poverty, free and easy is a kind of sincere joy to taste life.Free and easy is a casual and natural expression, free and easy is the practice and appearance of inner quality, showing a kind of temperament and demeanor.And free and easy people can always get the most simple happiness.

In India, a rich businessman met a beggar, and the beggar said, "You and I are old acquaintances, can you give me some money?" The rich businessman looked at the man carefully and said, "I recognize you, Isn’t your family quite wealthy? How did you get down to where you are today?” The beggar said, “Alas, last year a fire took away all my property.” The rich businessman asked again: "Then why do you want to be a beggar?" The beggar said: "To ask for money to buy wine and drink!" "Then why are you drinking?" "After drinking, I have the courage to beg!"

When the wealthy businessman heard this, there was a loud bang in his head. He seemed to see the truth of being obsessed with all beings in the world of mortals in an instant, and sighed with deep emotion: "Who in the world is not so obsessed with life? For wine, sex, wealth, I’ve spent my whole life exhausted, so why bother?” Then he said to the beggar, “Come to me when you don’t want to drink any more.” After speaking, he walked away. The beggar didn't get any money from his old acquaintance, and felt very frustrated.Just at this moment, another ascetic passed by here, and the beggar asked him, "Please see how I will be tomorrow?"

The ascetic smiled and said to him: "You have nothing, why do you ask for what will happen tomorrow? Why do you have to worry about the things in front of you? We cultivators only need to be kind, compassionate, and tolerant, without resentment, Begging, you can get a lot of food every day, even if you can't melt your stomach, you won't feel hungry, why can't you live a little more carefree?" In reality, we are often involuntary.But our busy and tired mind really needs quiet relaxation. Although busyness makes us full and happy, if we don't know how to be free and easy, we are actually burdening ourselves and making our mind work all day long. It will be tired one day of.Just imagine, if we blindly pursue and forget to give ourselves a chance to be free and easy, how can we carry more worldly burdens?Free and easy, it is a kind of calm after pain, it is a touch of sweetness tasted in bitterness.

In life, sometimes free and easy is forgetting, sometimes free and easy is calm, sometimes free and easy is silent, sometimes free and easy is not concerned about the situation, sometimes free and easy is quiet and indifferent.No one can tell the ups and downs of life.Daily troubles, troubles, anger, resentment, who can calm them down.Only to face it freely and meet every challenge with a smile. Free and easy people will often tell themselves to be more open, so how can we "look more open"? (1) One point of knowledge reserve, very confident. Only with profound knowledge can one speak freely, express one's will, advance and retreat freely, and this is called free and easy.This kind of free and easy is a manifestation of self-confidence. If you have knowledge and are confident, you will be free and easy.It can be said to be an inch of self-confidence, very chic.

(2) Two points for self-discipline, twelve points for optimism. People need less limited thinking, more optimism and broad-mindedness, so that they can speak freely and freely.This kind of free and easy is a kind of "forward-looking emotion", not sticking to the premise, and daring to let yourself go.A person who is afraid of the east and the west, and who takes too much into account, will become cautious and conservative. If he is cautious, he will be intimidated by difficulties, and finally end up with a lifelong hatred. (3) The three-point relationship is harmonious, and the environment is 100% relaxed.

If the interpersonal relationship is good, the crowd and the environment are harmonious, people will talk in both ways, and give people a good impression. This is a kind of psychological environment that is free and easy.The psychological environment is a reflection of the external environment. What kind of ideas you have, what kind of actions you will take, and what kind of external environment you will have.If people live a free and easy life and take fame and fortune lightly, how can there be any difficulties that cannot be overcome?