Chapter 10 Positive energy of two characters

A good character can not only enable you to have good interpersonal relationships, but also help you on your road to success.In life, always remind yourself to cultivate a good character, and the formation of a good character will make you feel more and more free. Whether in work or life, character determines destiny. Character is like the steel and iron in a concrete pillar, while knowledge and learning are poured concrete.Thinking determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny. Personality determines a person's social relationships, marriage choices, living conditions, career orientation, success or failure of entrepreneurship, etc., and thus basically determines a person's destiny.Therefore, both success and failure are closely related to character, which determines whether a person's life is tragic and mediocre, or successful and distinguished.

My good friend Simon King once said a very reasonable saying: Change your mind, change your attitude; change your attitude, change your behavior; change your behavior, change your habits; change your habits, change your personality; change your personality, and change your destiny. Psychology generally defines personality as: personality is a stable attitude towards reality formed in the course of life and a habitual behavior that adapts to it.The formation of each of our characters has gone through a process of accumulation over time, and no one's character is innate.The formation and change of a good character is a gradual process and cannot be rushed.We should think big and start small, form habits from behavior, and strengthen character from habits.Neglecting the development of good habits and wanting to have a good character is tantamount to building castles in the air.

A person's success is inseparable from a good character.Without a great character, there is no great man, not even a great artist, a great doer.If you can sow a character, you will reap a destiny. Success is also a character, and failure is also a character.A good character makes your life, a bad character ruins your life, everyone's fate is determined by his own character. When you fall into artificial difficulties, don't complain, you can only learn lessons silently, no one's fate is smooth sailing.There are four seasons in a year, spring, summer, autumn and winter, and so is life, with peaks and valleys.You have to cheer up quietly in order to rise up again.

In fact, man is a fish, and society is a tank of water. If we are a tropical fish, then we must lower our body temperature instead of hoping that the water will heat up.Survival is to adapt to the society after having a certain quality. Now if you bow your head, you can’t lower your head, and you can’t make it through. Therefore, a person with a goal must learn to endure and even endure humiliation while adhering to his inner principles. Society is full of inequities.You don't want to change it first, you can only get used to it first.The world doesn't care about your self-esteem, people only care about your achievements.Never overemphasize your self-esteem until you have achieved nothing.Never criticize others behind their backs, especially your boss for being ignorant, mean and incompetent.Because of this mentality, you will embark on a bumpy and difficult road to growth.

If you follow your own personality, you will find the way to success; if you go against your own personality, you will be insulated from success.A person has his own personality, and each personality has its own profession.No matter what kind of personality you have, you should accept it and give full play to your own nature, only then can you shoulder the mission entrusted by God and open the door to success. From this point of view, at all times and in all over the world, character controls a person's life. For your own destiny, cultivate your own good character to increase the positive energy of your character, which will not only benefit yourself, but also benefit others!The road is walked by oneself, and the history is written by oneself.What fate you want depends on your own thinking, behavior, habits and personality.

A person's success is sometimes not because of his ability, but because of his character's advantages; a person's failure is often not because of his poor ability, but because of his character flaws.Character determines destiny, determines success or failure in life, and a person who controls his own destiny must have a dominant personality. Every personality type has its advantages and disadvantages. Everyone should fully understand the advantages and disadvantages of their own personality, and strive to maximize their strengths and avoid weaknesses and learn from each other's strengths.