Chapter 93 A good man is boasted by a good woman

Every woman hopes that her husband can become her ideal person, and to do this, a woman needs considerable wisdom.To make a man great, you don't find fault with him, don't compare him to the guy next door, and don't try to put a lot of pressure on him, but encourage him gently and praise him. Every man goes to hell when they hear, "You're amazing, I'm so proud of you, I'm so glad you're the man no woman doesn't like," especially from their wives who mean a lot to them. Jump for joy. Many successful men can attest to the truth of this statement.For example, Mr. Parkes, who owns the Parkes Trucking and Equipment Company, experienced this.

"I'm sure," said Mr. Pax, "that a man can be not only what he wants to be, but what his wife wants to be. I've had many employees over the years, but nothing happened between me and their wives. Before we have talked, I will not give them a position that requires trust or great responsibility. Because a wife's outlook on life and the degree of her trust in her husband can determine the success or failure of a man in his career. The reason why I am so I say, because I have had this experience myself. "My wife was very rich before she married me--rich parents, well-educated, happy home. I was a poor boy with very little education. Apart from a desire to make a fortune and her love for I have nothing but my love and my faith.

"In the first few years of our marriage, life was very difficult. Whenever I was discouraged by failures and setbacks, her understanding and constant motivation were the only motivation for me to continue to work hard. "If I have had any success in my life, it has been due to my wife's constant encouragement. She never left me, even when I was most helpless. Every morning when I leave the house, she never Will forget to say to me: 'Bob, I believe you will have a good day. Don't forget that I love you.' When I come home, she always listens patiently to my day at work. For So, I swore I would never let her down. So far, I've done well. I'll keep trying to live up to her wishes."

Unfortunately, there are many women who are not able to do what Mrs. Parks did to help her husband move forward with encouragement and love.Although they also want their husbands to be outstanding, they have been satirizing them and despising them, so their husbands will never be able to meet their needs. Finding faults and accusations can embarrass a man, cause him to lose confidence, and turn a good man into a bad man.Encouragement and appreciation will make a man grateful and confident, and turn a poor man into a good man.