Chapter 77 Lesson 7 Social eloquence to enhance communication and strengthen friendship

In social situations, strangers often introduce themselves when they meet for the first time.Self-introduction includes introductions in several aspects such as name, age, occupation, address, experience and specialties.The introducer should decide its complexity according to different occasions and needs. Generally speaking, you only need to say your name and identity in a gathering of friends.When introducing yourself, be calm, state your name clearly, and show your friendliness with a smile.At the same time, you must also keep a good sense of proportion, and don't deliberately elevate or belittle yourself, which will make people feel disgusted and unwilling to associate with you.Self-introduction is actually a kind of self-promotion.It is the first impression it leaves on others.

Generally speaking, the following points should be paid attention to when introducing yourself. Self-introduction should be based on the actual needs of communication to determine the complexity of self-introduction.Generally speaking, when attending parties, giving speeches, doing things for others, meeting occasionally, public relations for the unit, etc., the self-introduction should be simple, just introduce the name and the work unit; If you want to make friends, etc., you can introduce it in more detail, and you can introduce your interests, hobbies, specialties and achievements in what areas.

When dating for the first time, both of them need to know more about each other, and they both want to be understood by each other.When introducing yourself, you must be generous, neither humble nor overbearing, and you must not be shy, hesitant, or look around.You should have the courage to show yourself to others, build self-confidence, and let others have the desire to associate with you. Introducing yourself should focus on self-humility and self-knowledge.When introducing yourself, you must grasp the propriety, neither elevate yourself nor belittle yourself, and never brag about yourself.Generally, words such as "very", "most" and "first" are not used.Only in this way can the other party have a sense of trust in you.When some people introduce themselves, the "I" on the left is so-and-so, and the "I" on the right is so-and-so, which makes people feel disgusted; What's more, when "I" is mentioned, they are complacent, arrogant, and so on.This kind of self-introduction will not leave a good impression on the other party.

To grasp the measure, the key is to say "I" in a peaceful tone, with friendly eyes and a natural demeanor, so that people can feel your beautiful image of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-effacing from the word "I". To deepen the impression is the purpose of self-introduction.Self-introduction must first introduce your name, and explain the "surname" and "first name". The more clever you explain, the deeper the impression others will have on you.This can reflect a person's knowledge level and character cultivation, as well as a person's eloquence.

A person's name often has rich cultural heritage, or reflects dignified historical facts, or reflects the movement of the times, or embodies the parents' high expectations for their children.Therefore, clever interpretation of the name can sometimes be emotional and deepen the impression. A simple self-introduction leaves a very flat impression on people. Only by making your own self-introduction unique can you leave a deep impression on others. Cleverly comparing yourself with celebrities can not only show your own talents, but also show your humorous language characteristics, so that you can win everyone's favor.You can also introduce yourself by introducing the famous local products of your hometown or the local characteristics of your hometown, so as to leave a deep impression on everyone.

Mastering the eloquence art of self-introduction, you will open a door to communicate with others. A perfect, wonderful and unique self-introduction can leave a deep imprint in the minds of others.