Chapter 74 Humor makes it easier for you to face interpersonal relationships

A person with a sense of humor has good popularity in daily life. He can shorten the distance of interpersonal communication in a short period of time and win the favor and trust of the other party.People who lack a sense of humor will affect communication to a certain extent, and will also greatly reduce their image in the eyes of others. The persuasive power of humor is almost an effective prescription when we need to change someone's attitude from negative to positive.Humor helps you solve relationship problems.Never lose sight of this mysterious power when you want to be the one who overcomes obstacles and wins the likes and trust of others.

Some people can't listen to the slightest "harsh words" in cooperation with others. As long as other people's words are slightly disrespectful, they will either get angry or try to defend themselves. In fact, it is unwise to do so.Not only will this not win the respect of others, but it will make people feel that you are difficult to get along with.Therefore, only by maintaining a happy mood, being humble, easy-going, and humorous in getting along with others can you make your cooperation with others more enjoyable. George and his two best friends went to the woods to cut down trees, but his physical strength was no match for his two strong friends.When resting at night, their leader asked everyone about the results of felling trees during the day, and a companion replied: "Jack felled 55 trees, I felled 49 trees, and George, an idiot, only felled 15 trees."

Although what the friend said was a joke, it was really not very pleasant to George.Just when George was about to get angry, he suddenly realized that the trees he felled were really few, just like mice biting off the tree bases when they made their nests. 15 trees." George in the story is a person who is good at controlling his emotions.He calmly faces his own shortcomings and other people's attacks in a humorous way, showing extraordinary endurance and a tolerant mind. Humor not only resolves conflicts, but is also an art of heart-to-heart communication.People rely on the power of humor to break their closed shells, actively communicate with others, and make people feel your frankness, sincerity and kindness through humor.

In serious conversations and routine exchanges, people often have a feeling of wearing a mask to each other. People seem to only want to let others know their appearance, but let others not know their hearts. This kind of communication is extremely Difficult to go deep into, and social interaction without spiritual communication cannot be regarded as a successful social interaction.Humor allows people to see another side of you, an essential, human, unsophisticated side, which is what all human beings have in common. Light and humorous topics can often arouse emotional pleasure.Solemn and serious topics will make people nervous and cautious.As long as possible, it is best to talk about solemn and serious topics in a light and humorous form, so that the other party may be more receptive.

Humor is the key to social success.Using the power of humor, we can be on the road to success through successful networking.