Chapter 10 Chapter 9: Love yourself for others

As any frequent flyer knows, sharing a seat with a baby on a plane can be a pain.Because of the confined space on the plane, the long boring journey and the changes in pressure, the children often turn on the largest portable stereo and cry loudly. Whether we can take a rest next to us is second, and we are constantly wailed by the children. It's really not a good feeling to keep pulling your heart. When I got on the plane that day, I complained secretly. Not to mention the plane was full, the seat next to me was a young mother holding a baby!My plan to catch up on the plane was completely shattered.

After being disappointed for a while, I adjusted my mood and smiled kindly at the mother and son who met by chance.This child is really miraculous, he has been poking his head out of his mother's arms to look at me seriously, drooling profusely, while smiling brightly at me non-stop.I wondered, "Why are you staring at me? Have you seen me on TV?" I held out my finger to him, and he immediately held it tightly with his little hand. I was immediately subdued by this gentle gesture of goodwill. Yes, my heart is full of tenderness. Of course, this does not mean that the baby is a troublemaker.Originally, she was still pretending to be an angel and was smiling cutely all the time, and immediately after the plane took off, the whole program of the little devil was staged.Crying, sneezing, struggling, slapping my mother's face with both fists, and kicking me with my calf very vigorously.The young mother kept telling me I was sorry, and I kept saying it didn't matter, everyone was very busy on the plane.

The young mother has been looking at the baby with admiration and affection, and is also trying to find a position that makes the child a little more comfortable. After looking for several angles, she finds the most twisted position that makes the child feel safest.So this great mother twisted her waist, slanted her shoulders, folded her chest, held the child with one hand, and supported the front seat with the other hand, and stayed skillfully with such difficult movements. I really feel hard for her.It’s okay to stay in that posture for a while, but how can I bear it for a long time?The young mother was sweating profusely, but she was still staring at her baby with admiration and affection.She refused all the meals on the plane, and couldn't even spare a hand to take a sip of water.I wanted to say that I would hold a cup for you to drink, but I was really not familiar with it. It was a dilemma, and everyone had their own concerns.

The plane started to bump when it encountered the clouds, because the young mother's skillful movements resolved the ups and downs and vibrations, the child didn't feel anything, frowning and sleeping peacefully.It's just that my mother's expression is not very good-looking.Suddenly, she anxiously pointed at the vomit bag and motioned to me. I quickly opened it and handed it to her. She vomited quite a lot, and during this process, she was very careful not to disturb her baby, and then she was very embarrassed to say sorry to me, saying that it was airsick and it was an old problem.

Because the incident happened so suddenly, I was really dumbfounded by the side.I saw her working hard for her children before, but I really didn't realize that she was suffering from airsickness all the time.I say from the bottom of my heart, it's really not easy for you.I am uncomfortable, but I still take good care of the children.The young mother said nonchalantly, "Isn't that what mothers do?" It suddenly occurred to me that although my mother never took me on a plane when I was a child, she must have traveled far.On the train, on the long-distance bus, during the uncomfortable journeys again and again, my mother must be like this, no matter how hard she is, she must try to make me comfortable, right?In my childhood memories, there are no particularly unpleasant episodes. This is a miracle of how much painstaking efforts my parents have made!

Isn't every parent like this?Not only on the way out, but in the process of every child's growth , Parents are always thinking about their children, it doesn't matter if they suffer, they must want their children to have less pain, less twists and turns, and less regrets.How precious our growth is because of the hard work of others. When I got off the plane, I solemnly said goodbye to the mother and son.The baby returned to the appearance of an angel again, grabbing my hand and grinning "Yeah!"I said something to him that he definitely couldn't understand: "You have to grow up well, and cherish yourself for your mother!"

The child continued to spit at me very friendly, obviously not paying attention to my words.The young mother smiled at me kindly, I think she must know what I'm talking about.