Chapter 12 [Serial 8] People who have heart disease will be happy

In 1993, I went to Europe to perform and bought Yingda a pair of fine and silky leather gloves in Italy.Those gloves are so beautiful and delicate they cost me over a hundred dollars!I made up my mind to buy it for him, and when I handed it over to him, I told him, "Don't lose it. I could have bought a pair of leather shoes for myself!" He solemnly said Accepted. He was running errands with a friend one day, and he put on new gloves for the first time as he left the house.They went to the alley together and called a "Noodle", and of course he left the gloves on the taxi.He only wore it for less than 100 meters, and then he told his friend all the way: "Don't tell Dandan!"

After some time he was about to go out again, and said to me, as if casually, "Should I buy me a pair of gloves? It's too cold!" "Where are your high-end gloves?" I asked worriedly. "How do you ask me? How do I know, I have never worn it before. You are not willing to let me wear it, who knows where you hide it!" I started looking for it at home, and I was dying of anxiety.I guess I'm too old to remember anything.I turned the suitcases upside down, then went down the street and bought him another pair, very sorry. It took a long time for that friend to tell me about it, and I wasn't angry at all. I already knew that he was so afraid of my nagging, and I already understood that I couldn't ask him to do something that "can't be done".I want to accept his shortcomings while accepting his strengths. Anyway, we are no longer financially distressed.

Here's one more thing I'm going to tell you. I almost had a heart attack because of it.Yingda's father, Ying Ruocheng, is an extremely family-loving person who loves "science".Many years ago, before others had heard of those new gadgets, he brought back home the "ventilator" made in Japan and the "electric mosquito killer" made in Britain.After plugging in the power, I don't know if the air has been changed, anyway, the pointer of the electric meter is always "pulling" my heart.And I didn't see a single mosquito in the "electric mosquito killer", even if I put it in the yard, there was not a single bug.

One day, he saw an advertisement in the newspaper: "3800 yuan vacuum tube solar energy allows you to enjoy hot water 24 hours a year." So he decided to install it.Large trucks brought in equipment, and a large boiler capable of holding several tons of water was carried on the roof.The roofs of our so-called bungalows are all slanted tiles. I am really afraid that those few workers will fall off.Countless large holes were drilled in our walls, and a large round pipe with a diameter of nearly 1 foot passed from the easternmost end of the house to the westernmost end.The tiles in the bathroom are broken, and there are several holes in the wall connected to intricate wires, many water pipe switches and electrical sockets.After installing it, we really saw smoke coming from the boiler on the roof, so we can be sure that the water is boiling.But when all our faucets were turned on, there was not a single drop of hot water.

I called them numerous times to have it fixed and they did go up to the roof each time to no avail.I asked the old man to let them dismantle it. There is a big boiler with several tons of boiling water pressed on the roof, which is really scary!He went and told me happily when he came back: They decided not to charge us a penny, and gave us all those "vacuum tubes".Later, I found that the water stopped smoking, so I didn't think about it again. Not long after I went to the United States, when I had a long-distance call with Yingda, he said to me: "Can you imagine? Our house has been running water down the roof for two weeks. Stopped. Many unknown plants grew in the yard, and the Foundation for the Disabled next door knocked on the door every day, because the water also flowed into their yard." I was stunned on this end of the phone, and my heart beat Excessive speed.

I shouted, "Go find someone to fix it!" "I don't know who to look for!" "Close all the bridles!" "Closed." "Unplug all the plugs in the bathroom again, don't hang up the phone, go now, and let me know the situation!" He put down the phone and ran back out of breath and said, "Okay, the water stopped. Come back quickly, we can't do without you at home." He is such a person, he can make you have a heart attack, and you will be happy if you have a heart attack. In 1994, our courtyard house was ready to be demolished.The urban construction company gave us two flats in Fangzhuang.I felt that the allocation of the house was not enough, so I ran around to appeal for another set.

"Our family has old people and children. Both my father-in-law and Yingda need study rooms. If we don't give them an extra set, we can't live." I chattered in front of relevant people. After going through untold hardships, I finally won 3 sets of flats.Now that there was work to be done, I began the long and tiring renovation. All the decoration materials, equipment, wallpaper, tiles, sanitary ware, marble, granite and hot water boilers were selected and pulled back by me. 3 units have 3 washrooms, 3 sanitary ware, 3 boilers and countless tiles.I carried them over and over again, going back and forth between the south and north of the city.After nearly a year, the house is finally ready.One day I said to Yingda: "Take time today to take a look at the new home and see the fruits of my labor."

Chapter 11: When love is a thing of the past (Figure) Just got divorced, my life is back to nothing He came, and as soon as he entered the door, he saw me lying on the floor waxing the floor. "You're so cute!" he said to me. "Our house is beautiful!" The decoration took me too much effort, and I am so familiar with almost every nail.I hung many trinkets brought back from abroad on the wall, and framed many paintings and certificates.The whole house looks so neat and elegant. Not only hard work, but also a lot of money was spent on decoration. 11 houses, each roof needs a chandelier, 6 rooms need air conditioning, a new TV has been added, and a lot of furniture has been purchased.Nothing was bought by me alone, and no one was amazed by my "capability".Of course, I can't help but show off my abilities, and later I found that Yingda was a little unhappy about it.

"You make me feel like I don't do anything," he said, "when in reality you don't make me do anything but your will." He was right, that was indeed my problem.I was so domineering and so energetic.I remember that one year when I came back from abroad, Yingda changed the appearance of the house and moved the furniture in the living room to make me happy.I looked very awkward, although I didn't say anything, but at 3 o'clock that night, I put all the furniture back in place by myself.Can't imagine how I moved those big cabinets and big TVs.I always look so powerful.I didn't understand a truth until today: If you share a home with someone, you have to take care of the other person's feelings.You have to share everything with him, including emotion and labor.